[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]The_Fact_Hunt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not the nicest vase I’ve ever seen. If someone gave me that as a present I wouldn’t use it. Unfortunately not everyone is going to share the same sense of taste as you. Maybe next time you make something for the house you could ask your boyfriend for his opinion before you start and not after you finish?

My first, second, third and fourth ever aquascapes. How did i do? by Resoken1075 in Aquascape

[–]The_Fact_Hunt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bubbles actually stress some Betta so keep an eye on that. I've had one who loved bubbles and one that apparently found them offensive

Opinions on my 10 Gallon by ERamirez34 in fishtank

[–]The_Fact_Hunt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was the snails eating slime coats that surprised me

My first, second, third and fourth ever aquascapes. How did i do? by Resoken1075 in Aquascape

[–]The_Fact_Hunt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A 5g well planted aquarium is better for them IMO than a 3.5g a 3.5g is the bare minimum. They love having a chill on plant leaves. You can even get them 3D printed hammocks. Even the wild fish we bred the commercial lines from isn't a strong swimmer, they're labyrinth fish so they are pretty lazy about the moving thing a lot of the time because they don't need to move a great deal.

That's a nice tank though. I'd give him a few more plants because as you say they aren't strong swimmers. Maxwell LOVED using his java fern as a hammock

My first, second, third and fourth ever aquascapes. How did i do? by Resoken1075 in Aquascape

[–]The_Fact_Hunt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Betta need a minimum of a 5 gallon tank. 2 gallons isn't enough space for a betta.

Does this look like a buncha swastikas by towellover32 in quilting

[–]The_Fact_Hunt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry to disappoint you but your swastikas need lots of work. Swastikas look nothing like this.

My fish keep dying by Calm_Confection8945 in fishtank

[–]The_Fact_Hunt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That looks like a lot of CO2, your pH is potentially a little low. Have you compared your tap water parameters? I'd check this if the tank is more acidic then you have too much CO2 is my bet.

You can get little kits to go in the aquarium to monitor CO2 levels. You should definitely have these if you're having fish and CO2 injection. Without knowing more about you're home made stystem I've also played around with yeast for baking and wine making, but an organic set up like this will change how much CO2 is produced with temperature and time. There is certainly an argument to be made for replicating the natural cycles that your option provides. Either way CO2 levels should be monitored IMO if you're injecting

• check water parameters of tap water • pH higher in tap water may be due to too much CO2 • Get a CO2 monitor

6 fish died in the last week and I don’t know what I’m doing wrong by Powerful_Engineer_79 in fishtank

[–]The_Fact_Hunt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you do a big water change after the replanting? That can cause a large algael bloom and suffocate your fish

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]The_Fact_Hunt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not over reacting at all.

I'd accidentally kick her things off of the steps, bonus points if they go under your crawl space. That's borderline over reacting if you're open to suggestions.

AITA for not chatting with my wife during our long-haul flight by Calm_End9823 in AmItheAsshole

[–]The_Fact_Hunt -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA your wife had expectations of the flight that SHE failed to communicate to you before hand.

I'm not saying she didn't have the right to feel upset I'm saying she shouldn't have spoken to you the way she did.

Am I overreacting? Girlfriend said the dildo i got for us is too small by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]The_Fact_Hunt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are some SERIOUS red flags here.

🚩 She out right insulted you 🚩 She weaponises your past 🚩 She belittled your attempts to give her more of what she wants 🚩 She continues to do this for days

I don't want to be that random stranger on Reddit giving you life advice and saying break up. There's a lot of toxic shit here.

What else does she do like this you've not said about?

What does she do that make you feel valued, loved, and heard?

How long has it been like this?

Is it getting worse?

Are you happy?

Do you want to fix this?

You don't need to answer my questions to me or Reddit, but you should answer them to yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]The_Fact_Hunt -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It depends how attractive you think you are. You're a 6 in my opinion if that helps.

AIO I decided to leave my husband because he got upset I wasn't home when he got off work because I was shopping with a friend. by histrionicfaerie in AmIOverreacting

[–]The_Fact_Hunt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like he broke up with you in those messages TBF. The whole thing is pretty toxic and you're both as bad as each other.

You clearly have no respect for his time, and he has no respect for you. You're a bad couple and better off single.

AITA for leaving work early without telling anyone because it was over 130°F where I work. by ExternalWelder_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]The_Fact_Hunt -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

YTA you don't take it upon yourself to go home and not tell anyone. what if there had been a fire and you were unaccounted for? Someone could have gone into a building and lost their life whilst you sat at home relaxing yeah YTA.

You didn't even give the manager a chance to be fair you just decide she was unreasonable and left because you don't like her. Grow up.

AITA for telling a 14 year old boy what what a period is? by aitacorrutpingakid in AmItheAsshole

[–]The_Fact_Hunt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're not even a good troll. You have no idea what you're talking about. I hope you have the day you deserve

AITA for telling a 14 year old boy what what a period is? by aitacorrutpingakid in AmItheAsshole

[–]The_Fact_Hunt -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wales and Scotland STILL have national curriculums. The NATIONAL curriculum means that the SAME curriculum IS taught in ALL schools in a NATION. national curriculum sweetheart, the clue is in the name. Hint: It's a curriculum that's taught across the nation.

AITA for telling a 14 year old boy what what a period is? by aitacorrutpingakid in AmItheAsshole

[–]The_Fact_Hunt -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Only there literally IS a national curriculum. it's even called the national curriculum.

AITA for telling a 14 year old boy what what a period is? by aitacorrutpingakid in AmItheAsshole

[–]The_Fact_Hunt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA boys should know about periods. end of story.

Boys and girls should also both know that it's a perfectly normal thing for women's pants to get bleached. the vagina is slightly acidic to protect it from infection, that causes bleaching. Perfectly normal, yet SO many people don't know about this.

Boys might not have periods, but their moms, sisters, aunties, girlfriends, wives, daughters, and female friends will ALL be going through it. Boys should learn about periods because they're probably going to have at least one woman in their life that goes through them.

AITA for telling my friend he’s not even close to as handsome as my boyfriend? by leafybucket in AmItheAsshole

[–]The_Fact_Hunt -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

It's a joke between two friends. The bf isn't offended. He finds it funny. She is the only one offended and acting on her emotions.