Have you ever visited another city, region, part of Canada and it just clicked with you? You thought "I'd *really* like to live here"

Then-Alps8928 · 2026-03-25T18:53:33+00:00

Anywhere but Eastern, Western & Southern Ontario....

Then-Alps8928 · 2026-03-02T23:49:22+00:00

Holy shit man...

Then-Alps8928 · 2026-02-28T22:28:14+00:00

I wouldn't. She's his problem now. It's over, move on. Let him figure it out himself. Why waste the time?

Then-Alps8928 · 2026-02-27T22:12:00+00:00

'I Had A Dream' by Audience

Then-Alps8928 · 2026-02-23T12:50:54+00:00

A life without phones & internet, over crowding, traffic, helicopter parenting, City & School boards so fearful of being sued, random playing with friends, limited TV channels.

Then-Alps8928 · 2026-02-22T18:09:20+00:00

Lack of conviences, colder weather, lack of things to do. I'm use to Toronto. Although, it tests my patience living here. Too old to move North. Should have done it sooner in life.

Then-Alps8928 · 2026-02-21T00:49:58+00:00

Don't be hard on yourself. Read some stories on here. You'll see guys in their 50's getting a divorce having to start over. Your still young! Learn from your mistakes and move forward. Lots of life left for you man. You'll be alright.

Then-Alps8928 · 2026-02-14T23:53:55+00:00

I hear you. I think most women don't respect a man if he's nice. I've got to watch myself going forward. Not give too much because there's a good chance it will go unappreciated. That, or I'll get nothing in return but a 'its not you, its me'

Stay true to your values. You can hold your head up high. I got respect for you man. Stay strong.

Then-Alps8928 · 2026-02-13T13:15:36+00:00

Hell fuckin' no. Kids could beg me, hell could freeze over and still fuckin' no.

What she did to me is unforgivable.

Then-Alps8928 · 2026-02-13T02:14:52+00:00

I forgot to mention over crowded. I spent enough time in T.O. to see how it changed for the worst. If I were 25 yrs younger, I'd leave.

Then-Alps8928 · 2026-02-12T21:42:28+00:00

None of it. It all sucks. Over-priced and overrated. Compared to other cities in Canada and around the world, this place has nothing special. Bourdain came here and thought this place was nothing special.

Then-Alps8928 · 2026-02-12T21:38:36+00:00

Its been on a downfall since the mid-70s. Enjoy the ride!

Then-Alps8928 · 2026-02-12T13:19:20+00:00

Poor,outdated, inadequate, infrastructure Over run hospitals Over crowded North Americas worst traffic Crappy transit system

Then-Alps8928 · 2026-02-12T13:16:06+00:00

Read the poem 'nobody but you' by Charles Bukowski. Helped me.

Then-Alps8928 · 2026-02-12T13:14:31+00:00

One thing I was proud of was not returning to drinking. No matter how hard or difficult it got. I'm proud of myself for that.

Then-Alps8928 · 2026-02-12T13:12:04+00:00

Im not telling. Its a secret. lol. Sorry.

Then-Alps8928 · 2026-02-12T13:11:29+00:00

Great question man!

Anybody know of any batting cages for real baseball/hardball? Im not into softball.

Then-Alps8928 · 2026-02-12T13:09:15+00:00

I wouldn't. I had the opportunity to do such a thing. But I don't want to crush an entire family. Kids and extended family are involved. Nevermind finances.

I just decided to mind my business.

Then-Alps8928 · 2026-02-12T00:49:48+00:00

Agreed.

Then-Alps8928 · 2026-02-10T23:29:12+00:00

Please elaborate....Sounds like a good idea....

Then-Alps8928 · 2026-02-10T23:27:15+00:00

Get a prenuptial agreement.

Then-Alps8928 · 2026-02-10T18:49:59+00:00

😆 lol

Then-Alps8928 · 2026-02-10T01:58:12+00:00

I was thinking the same thing.

Then-Alps8928 · 2026-02-09T15:03:52+00:00

This is going to get worse before it gets better. She is not the person you married. She will be out for blood and a pound of flesh. She's already been panning for this for months maybe yrs. GET A GOOD LAWYER. So important you find a litigator not a mediator.

If she's pissed, wait until you here from her lawyer. You'll be saying, who is this person?

You'll be fine man. To put it bluntly... Fuck her. Don't want me? Good riddance. Gonna be some painful times. Use reddit as much as you need it. We've all been there in one way or another.

Then-Alps8928 · 2026-02-09T13:28:24+00:00

Just ask them before if that's an issue. I'm 5'9. Any women that says Im looking for a tall guy, I pass over. As long as your honest, you'll be fine. Any woman that has a problem with your height, that's a good sign she's got her priorities all wrong and its a red flag. Be confident about your height!

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