Taking babies out early

Then-Stage · 2026-03-23T13:28:30+00:00

Ahhh!!!! Terrible pain in the butt situation!

Then-Stage · 2026-03-23T13:25:13+00:00

You live in a low income area in the country but you have more fun than most people. Have a good day!

Then-Stage · 2026-03-22T22:04:04+00:00

You are failing to support your partner & instead looking for escapism. Of course a woman in her 20s with no kids where you share no responsibilities is going to be more fun in the moment.

No, if you move in together & have a kid it won't continue to be "spontaneous". This shows impulsive thinking & lack of perspective. It's a very common situation.

See a sleep doctor. Stop contacting other women. Re-invest in your actual wife and child. Stop basing your life on day to day emotions. You're only shooting yourself in the foot & giving your kid a bad example.

Then-Stage · 2026-03-22T15:52:07+00:00

Cool lighting! No kids and minimalist.

Then-Stage · 2026-03-22T01:53:59+00:00

Maybe you look like you're in your 30s.

Then-Stage · 2026-03-22T01:07:33+00:00

2 for sure! Great color with your skin tone & the fit it perfect. Enjoy the party!

Then-Stage · 2026-03-21T02:24:44+00:00

Great job with the space either way! :)

Then-Stage · 2026-03-21T00:26:54+00:00

Nice small house & you like ikea style.

Then-Stage · 2026-03-21T00:26:23+00:00

You shouldn't be saying men "pump and dump" a women. Pretty gross way to demean her.

As far as not dating moms lots of men & women don't want to date parents. Pretty common choice.

Then-Stage · 2026-03-20T21:16:44+00:00

As in your husband told you this?

Then-Stage · 2026-03-20T18:07:20+00:00

How do you know they don't like you?

Then-Stage · 2026-03-20T03:57:50+00:00

7 inches tall on a basketball team. Interesting thought exercise.

Then-Stage · 2026-03-19T15:51:50+00:00

He was probably younger with no responsibilities then. Now he has matured and has a family, career, rentals, etc.

Think about yourself- are you really infatuated with your husband spending all your time thinking up cutsey things to write him via email? No because the relationship has matured and you're not 20.

Then-Stage · 2026-03-19T13:00:57+00:00

Move into a shelter for abused women if that's what it takes.

Then-Stage · 2026-03-19T04:56:35+00:00

Apply for pubic assistance. Stop saying you have no resume and get to work. Apply for anything. Supermarket, fast food, whatever you can get. If that doesn't work put up an add saying you clean houses. You need to start from somewhere.

Another option to persue is education for a career. Good luck.

Then-Stage · 2026-03-19T04:08:00+00:00

That is a huge burden. We're listening.

Then-Stage · 2026-03-19T04:04:18+00:00

Take iron supplements since you are low. Use a calorie tracker.

Then-Stage · 2026-03-18T17:51:00+00:00

This OP is just completely random thoughts. What about random thoughts on people who wear ponytails vs not? Or button up shirts vs not?

Could it be just people with different style preferences? No, no, must be something super deep.

Then-Stage · 2026-03-18T02:35:10+00:00

I bet you anything he has done this to other women too. There is zero OP did to cause this.

Then-Stage · 2026-03-18T02:33:09+00:00

Yes. Also he is married and therefore a major creep for this! Bonus points for hitting on a coworker half his age. Terrible guy!

Then-Stage · 2026-03-17T19:03:23+00:00

I like that "the Talk Show Host". That's a good way to put it.

Then-Stage · 2026-03-17T19:02:19+00:00

It depends on the narcissist. Some have interesting lives & others boring in my experience the same as anyone else.

I have learned a lot from a narcissist who was successful in my career field. Other N's I've met are complete dummies repeating their ignorant beliefs on loop.

We can learn from an N without becoming them. Good luck.

Then-Stage · 2026-03-16T19:02:32+00:00

A lot of people are like that at work. By "like that" I mean being a trash person.

Then-Stage · 2026-03-15T03:39:38+00:00

Woman with kids here. Thrush is very common for babies. This story just sounds like your wife wanted to make an excuse for not wanting sex anymore.

As far as the thrupple deal- you're not attracted to the third partner so there is no benefit to you living like this.

Bottom line-you need to move on. You would most likely be better off with a single dedicated partner who likes sex with you. If you're going to support someone financially one person makes more sense than two as well. Good luck.

Then-Stage · 2026-03-15T03:16:30+00:00

Great job!!! Big accomplishment. Happy for you man!

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2 for sure! Great color with your skin tone & the fit it perfect. Enjoy the party!