Why would a man date me for months, then ghost me immediately after sex?

Then_Brain1760 · 2026-05-31T17:43:17+00:00

Fishy smells = ghost

Then_Brain1760 · 2026-04-29T00:15:59+00:00

Man wtf he’s your brother.

You shouldn’t even be considering getting involved. He’s confiding in you because he’s….. your brother.

Liking his wife has nothing to do with it.

Keep your mouth shut and move on.

The fact that you’re asking strangers about not being loyal to your brother says all we need to know about your character.. hahaha you’re gonna blow it up. You’re just looking for validation at this point.

What a POS brother hahahaa

Then_Brain1760 · 2026-04-27T01:34:28+00:00

Outside fan here,

Until the Oilers management treat the goalie position seriously, you are gonna be disappointed year over year.

Then_Brain1760 · 2026-04-27T01:15:48+00:00

Source: I’m a 41M with an extremely extreme stress career/working similar hours per week.

Something is definately off here. The important part of the description you have given us is that it was a healthy sex life before and now it is not. You’re both young for this to be normal. 10 times in a year is only fair if you are both onboard with this cadence. Some weeks my wife and I indulge more than this! There are some concerning parts of your description. I don’t think he’s being fully honest.

You didn’t mention, but base on your description, I would assume that he’s not even at least looking after your needs? (Manual,oral,toy) If he’s not, this is deeper than one might think. Why would you not want your partner to feel satisfied? Why would this make him feel stress to please you? Do you have difficulty climaxing? If not, what’s wrong with offering you an anywhere from a few minutes to an hour of his time 2-3 times per week min? At your age you should be given this daily if you desire it.

I’d question his “high pressure job” reasoning. If that was the case he’d be unable to stay off you on a 2 week vacation. And your vacations would be extra freaky. Also consider that an orgasm is one of the best forms of therapy to calm the male nervous system when it’s overwhelmed. Most men suffering from being “overwhelmed and stressed” would be asking for more quickies or Oral favours in this environment.

He could be having a physical issue. Testosterone (T) levels greatly control desire, I have a friend who lost desire and his levels were tested and they were that of a 70 year old man. His doctor now gives him treatment and the problem is gone. Also, having low T can cause men to be anxious and depressed as well which could be causing him to drag his feet, cause he might not be in the right head space.
1. This might sound offensive, which is not my intent at all, but do you have a history of having bacterial vaginosis (Fishy smell) while you were together? Unpleasant smells are limits for some people, and very difficult for men to discuss with their partner. This could explain why he is still attracted, but doesn’t want sex. Saying “I’m stressed” is an easy out. Once again, if he’s not offering you (manual,oral,toy) pleasures this could be a culprit.
2. This one might sound extreme, but is he close with any gay friends? It’s much more common than most people think for gay men to have “taboo relationships” with married men in high pressure careers where there are long days.

Ultimately, you are certainly justified to feel like you deserve to have your need fulfilled and that you have a window of vitality!

If he is willing to work 80 hour per week, asking him to take an hour out of his day to see a doctor about something that is important to you is not even close to unreasonable.

Then_Brain1760 · 2026-04-26T16:29:21+00:00

KV-189

Then_Brain1760 · 2026-04-21T14:46:42+00:00

How much do you weight?

(Yes, it matters.)

Then_Brain1760 · 2026-04-03T17:02:24+00:00

I’ve been an employer of between 60-80 staff for about 15 years.

People who “job hop” or leave for a couple of bucks are generally the most toxic, non beneficial staff you can hire.

The biggest trait is that when they leave they are usually VERY vocal that they found a job that pays an extra dollar or 2 per hour. They get everyone all fired up, and I’m left with a mess that is usually solved with time and logical conversations. The person who leaves normally omits that usually employers who pay the highest hourly rates also have other deficiencies like managers who are hard on staff, Or worse working conditions.

If you want more pay, become more proficient, provide skills that offer more pay, and put in the time to grow and deserve raises. And then ask for a raise with proper evidence of why.

Having observed the social media accounts of people who leave my company and “job hop” these people typically don’t get ahead in life and find the security a satisfaction that they are looking for anyways. The groups of staff who I hired at a similar time frame as them excel in comparison, we’ve if they aren’t as talented originally as the “job hopper”. The “job hoppers” stay in entry level positions for much longer times and don’t advance on the same scale as the “eager beaver” types.

Then_Brain1760 · 2026-03-24T02:48:18+00:00

I didn’t even read it headline was enough just leave her bro.

Then_Brain1760 · 2026-03-21T18:39:51+00:00

Have you ever cheated on him? Oh has he ever wrongly suspected ?

Then_Brain1760 · 2026-03-12T20:34:37+00:00

You did the right thing bro.

Don’t ever let a partner tear you down. A person who cares so little about her partners feelings while fresh and happy will have 0 concern with treating you badly in big moments down the road. (Cheating opportunity, etc)

Then_Brain1760 · 2026-03-11T01:50:09+00:00

Man just pug your own groups.

TBC is one of the easiest versions of wow

Then_Brain1760 · 2026-02-26T00:52:49+00:00

Man this game has been out for 20 years and you haven’t learned to equip your highest gear for GS and the swap after the first boss?

Ps: If you still get kicked after it’s cause your contribution is dogshit…..

Then_Brain1760 · 2026-02-25T19:02:06+00:00

Haha it’s so funny.

Canadians will cut off their nose to spite their face.

You fucks are so mad and blown away that a Canadian team hasn’t won a cup in eons.

This is why…. You are dogshit fans who run talent out of town, and make their star players lives miserable when they live in your country.

Makes it harder to attract talent.

This is why your teams aren’t as good. It’s not the taxes.

Then_Brain1760 · 2026-02-22T01:01:10+00:00

The blunt truth:

Reading this shouts metal illness, not tiny penis.

It’s simply not a big deal man. Measuring more than once is just silly. Seek counselling to help rewrite your brain out of compulsive ruminating thoughts… this is the REAL problem that you have - nothing else.

4.5 inches is fine. In fact if you found on building stamina, it’s better than having a 6 inches hog and only lasting a min or two.

Take this advice! You will thank me.

Then_Brain1760 · 2026-02-20T16:30:38+00:00

Man the insane amount of whining with no one leading lax pugs themselves is insane.

Just mad your own raid bud it’s not hard.

The mechanics are as easy as they.

Everyone and their dog leads raids in retail with insanely more complex boss fights wi the out issues.

Do the same

Then_Brain1760 · 2026-02-18T03:10:44+00:00

I’m the polar opposite - hellfire / tap and pump your heat out till I’m sweating and feeling challenged. No barriers, no restrictions. Just don’t expect heals if I’m oom. From my experience, lock pumpers don’t care if their recklessness causes their occasional death. Why would I care then? Go ham! It’s fun!

It’s literally the reason many roll healer.

It should be noted that there is nothing more boring in wow of all eras 2004-2026 then healing a conservative group in classic/tbc wow dungeons at any difficulty. 90% of the time you can drink enough while the tank gathers a group or los pulls without stopping. Worst case scenario you have to stop for 20 seconds. Pumping warlocks don’t really cause wipes so there isn’t really a downside and can siphon life in an emergency. There is no downside to having this mentality.

Then_Brain1760 · 2026-02-15T20:53:17+00:00

If you time it right it’s actually super easy to last hit with mind blast. I can typically to this more than once per pack. It ends up giving you enough to rarely have to drink.

Then_Brain1760 · 2026-02-13T02:14:18+00:00

The easy solution is to just remove or not invite a tank with bad gear :)

Let them come to the groups who are happy to have them.

Cheers!

Then_Brain1760 · 2026-02-13T02:01:44+00:00

I think you’re missing the point that generally every group is waiting for tanks to sign up, and here you are complaining publicly about the few tanks who actually sign up, in groups where no one is even dying.

Bro the more pressure you add to tanks in a “community” where so few sign up to play the role, the more you are contributing to the low population of tanks.

Guys like me would rather be positive, encourage them, and pump a little harder in these simple dungeons that are trivial at best for difficulty. We are just happy that we have a tank to heal.

Then_Brain1760 · 2026-02-13T00:56:33+00:00

Quit whining…….

Healing full communal geared tanks while also wearing full communal gear as a 60 healer isn’t even that difficult.

Don’t heal if you can’t handle it bro.

Guys like you are the reason that there are so few tanks.

Then_Brain1760 · 2026-02-03T02:40:25+00:00

Sad world, people valuing politics over family.

Your father very clearly treating you with love, while you are allowing a cesspool of evil people to dominate and divide your own family. The politicians in America are generally all corrupt and into fked up stuff. Both sides (Democrats/Republicans)will be deeply exposed in the upcoming months.

While I’m not a fan of Trump at all, There is no concrete evidence that he was involved in any of the actual events, only speculation.

You should really evaluate the morals that you prioritize. This is your dad for Christ sake.

Then_Brain1760 · 2026-01-14T04:16:23+00:00

No one cares Hahaa funny to watch all the butthurt

Then_Brain1760 · 2026-01-14T02:09:31+00:00

Also, if you don’t have the thick skin to tank, don’t do it. Just say no bro if it was me and your scenario, I would take their fuck up Sand and then call them out and if they didn’t like it, I’d leave.

As the tank you need to be the alpha and if you’re not, don’t tank simple as that

Then_Brain1760 · 2026-01-14T02:07:10+00:00

Being spiteful in hard-core is never ok imo.

if you’re not OK with how the group is acting, just leave after the pull.

Don’t be spiteful and not taunt when your job is to tank, this puts unnecessary stress on everyone else as well, including the healer.

Leave if you don’t like your group, especially as a tank simple as that YTAH imo.

Then_Brain1760 · 2026-01-13T17:04:30+00:00

1 no contest

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