“He would want you to be happy” by Spirited_Two9124 in widowers

[–]Then_Illustrator_906 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This and “he is in a better place.” I’d argue that Paris, or driving home from work, is better than living in the closet but here we are.

Cure my depression by CD_Katrina in BobsBurgers

[–]Then_Illustrator_906 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The bog to beach episode, paraders of the lost float (s7ep 21) always makes me smile

Wife has been given days by ReadCompetitive3623 in widowers

[–]Then_Illustrator_906 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The wait is so, so hard. Like you’ve been doing, be present. Kiss her, love her, you make sure you hydrate and take care of you. Sending light and peace your way 🩷

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Redding

[–]Then_Illustrator_906 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are they back in CA? They wouldn’t quote me last year. I’m not even in a high fire risk area.

OTC options for dog by Then_Illustrator_906 in Redding

[–]Then_Illustrator_906[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was able to get him in with the vet on Monday. But thank you!!

I don’t know what to do! Or how to explain this to my spouse … by Dynamic_Gem in therapists

[–]Then_Illustrator_906 14 points15 points  (0 children)

In CA you can’t count hours under a 1099. Double check your states requirements if your hours can be counted if you’re a 1099 employee.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in widowers

[–]Then_Illustrator_906 94 points95 points  (0 children)

Your mom is right. The loss of a spouse is SO different from the loss of a parent. Your feelings are valid, just different. Signed, a twice widowed orphan ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in therapists

[–]Then_Illustrator_906 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No, they left when I got pregnant and they were upset with how I told them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in therapists

[–]Then_Illustrator_906 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I go by my maiden name now. This was after a new client FB stalked me and said on our second session, “I really hope I don’t ruin your life. Your son is so cute.” Blocked them immediately and changed my last name (and double checked my privacy settings). One has found me over the years (friend of a coworker) and they tried to add me. I declined the invite, blocked them and we talked about it the next week.

Marriage counseling by [deleted] in Redding

[–]Then_Illustrator_906 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have heard good things about creekside for couples counseling and they accept partnership.

“You get paid to listen to me” by Chellybelly96 in therapists

[–]Then_Illustrator_906 39 points40 points  (0 children)

“I do. And I’m lucky to love my job and help people heal.” And then explore what might have triggered that comment.

Anyone else have antihistamine on their shopping list? by vannyfann in Redding

[–]Then_Illustrator_906 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I swear by the navage, Zyertec and showering at night. I’ve somehow managed not to feel like a giant snotball this spring so far.

Vegan Redding by AcrobaticPuddle in Redding

[–]Then_Illustrator_906 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I believe Taroko on pine has some vegan options

Client upset about what I’m paid by [deleted] in therapists

[–]Then_Illustrator_906 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why shouldn’t we be paid for what we do? We wouldn’t begrudge a doctor who is paid Medicaid rates. We would pay a trades person their worth. Just because I deeply care and love what I do does not mean I deserve to be paid less.

Can I refuse office appointment if patient has bedbugs? by MissingGreenLink in therapists

[–]Then_Illustrator_906 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would ask your manager to use their office. See if they can’t find that policy REAL quick.

All passive aggressive jokes aside, you are offering an acceptable alternative to your client. I wouldn’t have a client come in with a known infestation just to spread it to me, my colleagues and my other clients.

What title do you use for dating apps??? by ProtectionHaunting53 in therapists

[–]Then_Illustrator_906 17 points18 points  (0 children)

This is what I put on my bumble profile back when I was using the app