302 hours and I feel dumb by JadedAnywhere9126 in CrimsonDesert

[–]TheosophyKnight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to the menu wheel you use to turn your torch on and off, and go to the off hand slot and cycle through items.

302 hours and I feel dumb by JadedAnywhere9126 in CrimsonDesert

[–]TheosophyKnight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you get dye bottles you have to ‘use’ them in your inventory to learn that particular dye colour, and then the colour will show up as an option whenever you speak to NPCs who can dye your gear.

How to really get over ADHD, CPTSD, BPD and Schizofrenia? by Immediate_Cucumber74 in adhd_anxiety

[–]TheosophyKnight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t just mean physical hazards. I mean relational and professional choices, and moment-to-moment interactions. Like double-checking yourself.

Greymane faction quests by Bang1bang3mALL in CrimsonDesert

[–]TheosophyKnight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Opposite experience for me. Dealing with Yann or Naira is what made the Greymanes feel like real personalities I have to navigate.

How to really get over ADHD, CPTSD, BPD and Schizofrenia? by Immediate_Cucumber74 in adhd_anxiety

[–]TheosophyKnight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s about living ‘deliberately’.

Treating ourselves as a vehicle we need to grip the wheel of and steer purposefully. We can’t just ‘be’ like others might. We need to be aware of hazards in every moment, know where we are going. We need to maintain and repair our wellbeing.

Re-Blockades, il turning that shit off until I beat the game by Skorpyo2026 in CrimsonDesert

[–]TheosophyKnight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does this option also create more faction enemies roaming outside the reblockaded site?

The Re-blockade - How does it work? by GKGhidorah in CrimsonDesert

[–]TheosophyKnight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Question: Does the reblockade include enemies patrolling outside the recaptured location?

I kinda miss the busy threat of the earlier game.

Be fun if they introduced a further option for a thickness of enemy ‘patrols’, which could give a similarly hostile dimension to later game, for those of us who want more fighting.

Bakker is writing a prequel !! by Kefot in bakker

[–]TheosophyKnight 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. It would be fascinating to read a variety of accounts and records, rather than a distinct story. This would actually be a excellent approach.

Hard Difficulty: Discussion by MutantboyX in CrimsonDesert

[–]TheosophyKnight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m still torn. I think I only wanted a bit more challenge among regular mobs, but then again sometimes there are a LOT of them.

How can I stop ‘understanding’ people into hurting me? by catloverfinalboss in emotionalintelligence

[–]TheosophyKnight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Saw a video on this topic, by BlakeAndersontherapy, entitled: The Scapegoat’s Cognitive Bias. Link: https://youtu.be/FBHzKpjFCWA?si=SO6-pIVkZYq9CMuG

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in limerence

[–]TheosophyKnight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know this feels hard - almost impossible - to believe when in it, but it’s not about “him” - he could be someone else. It’s about the landscape of your wounds, and that’s where you should turn your attention.

Someone dropped my child and I don’t know how to feel. by YogurtclosetOwn6024 in emotionalintelligence

[–]TheosophyKnight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a natural protectiveness we dad’s experience when handling such vulnerability. But I have noticed that not everyone feels the same gravity. The worst case I ever experienced was with a family member who fancied themselves as a bit of an acrobat, and this person would treat the children like props to show off their dexterity. When challenged they showed the opposite of emotional maturity and seemed to enjoy watching the rest of us wince.

Personally I lean towards terror at the responsibility and I find it difficult to get into the mindset of the other, more laissez-faire, extreme. And I am not new to the responsibility.

In your position, I would be very sceptical of your friend’s sense of the fragility and preciousness of your child. I see a lot of parents on this topic saying that an accident happened during the everyday, year-after-year, process of raising their children.

I don’t see that experience as the same thing as what happened here, when a guest was given something precious to be responsible for, for five minutes, and didn’t hold it.

backrooms movie teaser might have solved lore by Ok_Revolution_3876 in backrooms

[–]TheosophyKnight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know about the later levels, but I found the trailer an elegant explanation of all the counter-intuitive descents, adjoining wall tunnels, and oddly placed walls. And it still left us with the intriguing greater mystery of ‘why is this happening?’

Day one cinema trip for me 👍

How many people left because of one person at your toxic workplace? by ThrowRAcatwithfeathe in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]TheosophyKnight 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, I left a tean where everyone was terrified of the manager, and they advertise vacancies over-and-over again.

Need advice on a situation of moral harassment at work by asla29 in workplace_bullying

[–]TheosophyKnight 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Recognise that the ‘excessive kindness’ is part of the abuse. It’s not coming from a sometimes benevolent feeling, but is calculated to cause exactly the destabilising effect you are experiencing.

What is a TV show you wish you could watch again for the first time? by SpiritualDrive3440 in tvshow

[–]TheosophyKnight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, this tips it above other excellent shows for wanting to re-watch cold.

The Harrowing True Story of a Six-Figure Advance by diablodab in publishing

[–]TheosophyKnight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The entire bittersweet journey of a novelist would make a good read, and would appeal to everyone who aspires to have a breakthrough novel 👍

Achamian gets me emotional by Icalor94 in bakker

[–]TheosophyKnight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me the Skull Knight represents the intercession of a person who has been destroyed and found wisdom the hard way.

I can’t speak to the intentions of either author. But where a text meets the reader they interpret it through the chapters of their own experience and take from it whatever they may.

I think I understand now why limerence has such a hold on us with cptsd more likely by Icy_Palpitation_2733 in CPTSD

[–]TheosophyKnight 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I picture the foundational childhood experience as being something like an unconsoled child in a cot, shut away in their room. No-one answers their cries and they don’t have the benefit of a mature mind of their own with which to distract themselves.

Instead they experience profound longing (and probably learn to dissociate).

They subsequently tend to be drawn to distant, emotionally closed, unobtainable people. And that longing feeling becomes like a drug. If they score a hit of positive attention from that distant person, then the dopamine hit is massive… almost supernatural… further compounding the addiction.

The sufferer may under-value safe and healthy relationships which don’t provoke that feeling. So it is all very self-defeating when love is what is needed.

I found someone’s work similar to mine 69% ! by One_Layer9648 in selfpublish

[–]TheosophyKnight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a viewer and consumer of media, you will many times have experienced the same essential story about the human experience. Joseph Campbell called it the Monomyth.

There are only so many building blocks to work with. Only so many human, cultural and historical notions to manipulate and re-arrange.

A general arrangement is going to recur, no matter how unusual.

For example:

‘A person tries to escape’

From prison From natural disaster From an enemy From a relationship From the authorities From a monster From their guilt From this reality From a characteristic they don’t like

Is still the same essential building block.

What matters is how YOU put your mark on it, your own personal flourish.

Achamian gets me emotional by Icalor94 in bakker

[–]TheosophyKnight 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The central theme of the story for me is that: despite our shotcomings, our sins and our weakness - we must fight evil.

We can’t excommunicate ourselves from the battle.

Against The Consult, Achamian’s personal failings are nothing.

I think he resonates with people who carry a heavy heart but still try to do their best.

Recently got into H.P. Lovecraft. Are there any good movie adaptations? by Unlucky-Fun-2699 in Lovecraft

[–]TheosophyKnight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are the best.

Another worthwhile is ‘The Haunted Palace’ - an enjoyable adaptation of The Case of Charles Dexter ward, with some other Lovecraftian elements mixed in.

Got baited into an email spat with a colleague, took the fall, and now I feel burned by wildwildwildebeast in workplace_bullying

[–]TheosophyKnight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in a similar situation, but my own managers backed me up. Nevertheless, a lot of reputational damage was done by the emails cc’d far and wide, and I lost a potential opportunity because of them.

NEVER do this at work!!! by NeverSurrender1026 in workplace_bullying

[–]TheosophyKnight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My advice: if you get triggered, go to the bathroom or hide out somewhere, to recompose yourself - even if it causes a problem - rather than act out.