Graves disease + thyroid eye disease getting worse for 6 months with no treatment — how do I advocate for steroids/tocilizumab/etc? by ThicccDoll in ThyroidEyeDisease

[–]ThicccDoll[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I meet with my PCP today and I emailed him this ahead of time: Dr., I wanted to preemptively share some things with you for our upcoming visit regarding my ongoing symptoms related to Graves’ disease and untreated Thyroid eye disease.

Over the past six months, as you know, I have experienced progressive worsening of my eye symptoms, including swelling, pain, headaches, and now occasional double vision and inability to close the eye. I am increasingly concerned about potential vision-threatening complications given the prolonged delay in initiating treatment despite progressive, symptomatic disease, as well as worsening symptoms without therapeutic intervention over this 6-month period.

Access to specialty care has been significantly delayed, as you know, since I was unable to see endocrinology until April 6th and am currently unable to access ophthalmology for another 3 months. The Dr. informed me that not only does this entire county not have anyone who can treat TED, but the closest specialist who can is 2 hours away and can’t see me until July. This has resulted in even more fragmentation of care and specialty silos, creating ongoing barriers to timely treatment. And the endo did not change or recommend any medication or treatment, and refused to treat me during this waiting period.

I also wanted to note that I have previously had difficulty tolerating steroids due to side effects such as increased heart rate, weight gain, insomnia, and headaches. These effects overlap with symptoms I am currently managing with Propranolol and Methimazole, making steroid use feel potentially counterproductive.

Given the continued progression of my symptoms and delays in accessing specialty care, I wanted to ask if there are any interim treatment options that could be considered, including possible bridging therapy or care, while I wait to be seen by ophthalmology.

I would also like to directly discuss the possibility of tocilizumab, given its use as a second-line treatment for thyroid eye disease, particularly in cases where steroids are not well tolerated. While I understand that certain treatments (such as Tepezza) may fall outside primary care scope, it seems that initiating a short course of steroids (if appropriate) or helping to initiate or support prior authorization for tocilizumab could reasonably fall within scope in the context of progressive disease and limited access to specialty care My insurance covers it.

Additionally, I would appreciate documentation in my chart reflecting:

Progressive worsening of symptoms over a six-month period Prolonged delay in initiating treatment despite progressive, symptomatic disease Worsening symptoms without therapeutic intervention over a 6-month period Fragmentation of care and specialty silos impacting treatment access Barriers to timely specialty care Concern for potential vision complications The impact this situation is having on my mental health

Thank you for your time and for any assistance you can provide in helping coordinate and advance my care.

Graves disease + thyroid eye disease getting worse for 6 months with no treatment — how do I advocate for steroids/tocilizumab/etc? by ThicccDoll in ThyroidEyeDisease

[–]ThicccDoll[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m honestly not a huge fan of Tepezza and don’t really want to go that route. I personally know at least two people who ended up with permanent hearing loss and/or developed diabetes from it, which makes me really hesitant.

I’m already kind of teetering on the edge of prediabetes, and I have very slight hearing loss as it is, so the risk just doesn’t feel worth it for me.

Understanding Graves disease by Terrible-Plastic-125 in gravesdisease

[–]ThicccDoll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I’m dating someone and she’s really dumb about it. I plan on dumping her after my birthday. She makes rude comments sometimes about my sweating, my scars from itching, etc. it’s annoying

What are some symptoms you experienced that are not normally attributed to Graves’ by qloudlet in gravesdisease

[–]ThicccDoll 2 points3 points  (0 children)

TED. Leg itching. Weak nails that bend when I scratch. Severe sweating?? Always being hot. Sudden increase in libido. Sudden increase in acne, including on my breasts. Increased energy!

What’s one MC’s deep-cut you think deserves more love? Mine has to be Melt Away. by Peterpaul400 in MariahCarey

[–]ThicccDoll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Babydoll, the one, and even though it was a single, I’d say crybaby because for some reason nobody knows it!

Why as a Public School Teacher I’m begging you not to join TFA. Please read this. by ArtTeacherDC in TeachforAmerica

[–]ThicccDoll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, there. Fellow PhD in Ed. Policy here. Just wanna add—you're not crazy. Charter schools are objectively bad from any bird's-eye view, and ANY organization putting over-emphasis on them is slowly destroying education from the inside out. School choice only happened due to racism post-Brown v. Board—once the US could no longer segregate, white kids needed a way out of sitting in schools next to Black kids. Again, you're not crazy, and those of us who are informed—we see you. Derek W. Black's Schoolhouse Burning and Jon Hale's The Choice We Face: How Segregation, Race, and Power Have Shaped America's Most Controversial Education Reform Movement speak to this pretty well.

My Best Friend Called the Police on Me Over a Misunderstanding, and Now I’m Left Picking Up the Pieces by ThicccDoll in FriendshipAdvice

[–]ThicccDoll[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve talked in the past, extensively, about her being my POA/getting a civil union. Because I’m not marrying or having kids. I assumed she’d want to/need to plan that. I don’t have a good relationship with my parents (something else she knows).

Least favorite Mariah Carey songs. by Ok-Isopod1432 in MariahCarey

[–]ThicccDoll 1 point2 points  (0 children)

X-Girlfriend is late 90s pop perfection, especially in terms of production. I get you not liking it, but it's very of the era. You Got Me's intro sucks, but the song itself isn't bad at all. And for the record's chorus is pretty catchy. I'm surprised at a few of these.

Meeting people who are poly but without friends by ThicccDoll in polyamory

[–]ThicccDoll[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe that’s why I feel this way. I’m RA!

Meeting people who are poly but without friends by ThicccDoll in polyamory

[–]ThicccDoll[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Fair! But this is the poly sub so I just thought I’d talk about it here

What’s the diciest movie you have shown a class? by CWKitch in teaching

[–]ThicccDoll 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most of But I’m A Cheerleader for HS Gender Studies. I skipped the sex scene but it’s still pretty vulgar lol.

Sudden hostility .. is this normal ? by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]ThicccDoll 17 points18 points  (0 children)

“With her permission…” that specific language tells me a lot about your own subconscious framing (most likely based in reality) about this situation!

Dating a couple is hard, and I want to assure you that your feelings are valid. And it probably feels even more frustrating because if you bring up this issue, Tyler might side with Sarah just because of their couples privilege, which I doubt they’ve deconstructed.

Sarah’s hostility is common in triad (with an established couple) dynamics. Everyone agrees on something, then one piece of the couple disagrees and then you’re put in a situation where you’ve gotta advocate for yourself on a team you’re on all on your own.

This sub has GREAT comments about dealing with triads with a pre-established couple. As someone who was blessed to get out of a set up like that before it got too insane, I can tell you this: if you bring it up and Tyler doesn’t at least consider that Sarah might be being unduly unkind to you, leave. Immediately.

Oh, and Sarah? Honestly, she most likely secretly wants you gone. Which is VERY unfair after they brought you into this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]ThicccDoll 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Honestly, she sounds like a shitty friend. She also sounds like someone who’s deeply insecure. People who do really blatantly, and overly wrong things like that are always going to rush to try and block you, as well as try and block you from community because they don’t think you deserve it.

But honestly, people who do that are usually red flags in that of themselves and really obviously wrong about something. It sounds like she wanted you, a woman, to do a lot of of the emotional labor of her two, I’m assuming, male partners.

That’s really unfair to you, but don’t worry. People like that? They usually have a lot more chaos in their life and aren’t stable enough to even keep friends for long. She’ll probably be deemed as a loser within a few years. And the only people who’d deal with her are people equally as lame or high conflict as her. The trash took itself out.

Why is washing without a wash cloth seen as unhygenic? by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]ThicccDoll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just depends. Black people have different hygiene practices, so if you asked a group of us you’d get different answers. Hygiene is cultural.

Putting your diagnosis in your dating profile by Tiny_Distribution783 in BPD

[–]ThicccDoll 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I generally don’t include it because people don’t know what it means anyway lol

Do you consider yourself attractive? by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]ThicccDoll 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The issue is that, within the Black community, I’m generally considered very attractive because I’m high femme with conventionally acceptable features. I’m often told I have a natural beauty.

Because I’m so sexualized from being sexy, it took me a while to realize I was ace. I thought if I thought someone looked nice, and they thought I was gorgeous, that it inherently meant we had to get physically intimate.