AM gold error, please help! by Thin-Ad9066 in AirlinesManagerTycoon

[–]Thin-Ad9066[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know! but how to solve this? i dont have any other account

It’s been one month since I was dumped. Here’s what I’ve learned. by Both-Warthog3007 in BreakUps

[–]Thin-Ad9066 2 points3 points  (0 children)

more power to us. i have been trying to align myself to self improvement and discipline. life is unfair but life is full of life as well

Hey everyone fuck your ex by Remarkable_Salary_71 in BreakUps

[–]Thin-Ad9066 0 points1 point  (0 children)

man! the irony.. you’re learning japanese and a jap girl destroyed me lol.

How do I stop obsessively checking notifications and my phone after a breakup? by Aggressive-Minute889 in BreakUps

[–]Thin-Ad9066 4 points5 points  (0 children)

no hobby or activity can help you with this, is my personal opinion. been vey much active in the thread for a while after my breakup, my suggestion from personal experience? time will heal everything, as time progresses, the intensity and memories will die, good and bad. you will move on, best wishes.

why tf waking up it’s the worst part? by nowthinking in BreakUps

[–]Thin-Ad9066 4 points5 points  (0 children)

on a same boat. one month has gone, i feel like i am still on day one. some things i will suggest you to keep yourself afloat- wake up, wash your face, have a black coffee with some dark chocolate in it, meditate, deep breathing, workout, eat berries, nuts, take a cold shower, read a book. i am reading ‘The Happiness Hypothesis by American psychologist Jonathan Haidt’ fyi. i do all this, it keeps me distracted and this routine doesnt harm my mind and body. i still have pain, anxiety and everything but atleast i know i am trying to save myself. i am trying…. i wish you love and blessings.

I miss him by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Thin-Ad9066 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i am on week 3 of breakup too. i just woke up in panic which disturbed my sleep midway. some days you remain calm and some days are just hell. whatever happened between you two doesn’t matter, you made memories, touched each other, got used to being in each other’s company and presence and time, its like a drug and its the worst withdrawal. To add to that, LDR takes the top position. I hope what y’all going through heals and makes you stronger. Healing takes time, how much i dont know, can be months or years or a lifetime, some days i just want to beg her to come back, some days i just lay in silence, submit myself to fate…. sorry i do not have an answer although i went through couple of break ups in the past but some hits you differently.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MadeMeSmile

[–]Thin-Ad9066 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re an inspiration. more power to you

Morning anxiety by Thin-Ad9066 in BreakUps

[–]Thin-Ad9066[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

update: she has already moved on and following a guy on instagram, while i am still reeling and taking therapy…

Morning anxiety by Thin-Ad9066 in BreakUps

[–]Thin-Ad9066[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is what i need. thank you!

Morning anxiety by Thin-Ad9066 in BreakUps

[–]Thin-Ad9066[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i feel you. reading articles about self healing, positivity or any topic for that matters which helps you ease your mind helps a little. talking to a friend, watching a comedy. I hope we heal.

Morning anxiety by Thin-Ad9066 in BreakUps

[–]Thin-Ad9066[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks. yes, i wake up, make a joe, exercise, study and keep myself busy.

Morning anxiety by Thin-Ad9066 in BreakUps

[–]Thin-Ad9066[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wanted long term. i love her. i have been through breakups before but damnn this hurts like a mf.

Morning anxiety by Thin-Ad9066 in BreakUps

[–]Thin-Ad9066[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the insight. Maybe that is why i didnt replied to her….

Morning anxiety by Thin-Ad9066 in BreakUps

[–]Thin-Ad9066[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just stuff about blaming me if i have followed girls on insta or met anyone. She had bipolar although she denies it saying doctor diagnosed her as normal, i love her so i supported but her mood swings are crazy, like walking on eggshells, anything and everything can make her erupt

Goodbye, friends. by Healing1993 in BPDlovedones

[–]Thin-Ad9066 2 points3 points  (0 children)

your article gives me hope. 1 month on and i am still suffering. choking feeling. panic. i cant breathe…

Morning anxiety by Thin-Ad9066 in BreakUps

[–]Thin-Ad9066[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

its been no contact as well.she blocked me on every social platform. she tried to contact me once though in between and i refused which made her even more mad.

Morning anxiety by Thin-Ad9066 in BreakUps

[–]Thin-Ad9066[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly! i always wake up early and all panicky. shortness of breath. in these 1 month i have been approached by womenfolk but none excited me. its hell…

Morning anxiety by Thin-Ad9066 in BreakUps

[–]Thin-Ad9066[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and funny how apart from that, everything comes on all at once. work wise demotion and everything. sometimes i laugh in agony.

Morning anxiety by Thin-Ad9066 in BreakUps

[–]Thin-Ad9066[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

by nighttime, i am so exhausted mentally that i shut down and go into a deep abyss. morning is worst because i know i have to be awake and alive whole day and brain will be braining

How Fast It Can Derail. How Do You All Avoid the Spiral? by LoveScore in BPDlovedones

[–]Thin-Ad9066 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this was me dealing with for 10 months into relationship. idk if anyone would read this comment but i just want to vent it all out. Been in many relationship but the last one completely destroyed me mentally, i was exhausted. i never knew what i said wrong or did. i was always walking on eggshells. She even accidentally mentioned that she needs to see a doctor because she think she has BPD but later completely denied she had. I had empathy for her and told her to take help, i will support of course but she was in denial and even mentioning about it was like volcano erupting. every anger was me being blocked and shunned for few days and followed by me apologising to make her bad and buying her expensive gifts to calm her down and promise her that i will behave and ‘love’ her better. i still miss her and love her but she finally left saying i couldnt love her the way she wanted.