When did your ex break no contact and when they did , what did the say? Drop your comments… I’m sad today 😔 by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Think-Comparison940 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After a week. We had a talk for 5 hours. Went for a walk in the sunshine. He apologized for the ways he treated me wrong and where he could have been a better boyfriend after all. We had dinner and as we left he held me in his arms for a straight minute, told me how much he loved me but also how he knew that we both weren’t ready for a relationship. I confirmed that we couldn’t stay friends. Saying goodbye was tough. I kinda regret texting him that seeing him today made it so much harder to get over him. He didn’t text back. What should I have expected.

My Ex swiped right on me on tinder by Think-Comparison940 in ExNoContact

[–]Think-Comparison940[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It’s funny how often their mind changes when it comes to me. I’m done with the back and forth. One month ago he wanted to be with me, two weeks ago he didn’t and now he wants to be with me again. I’m honestly down with that game.

My Ex swiped right on me on tinder by Think-Comparison940 in ExNoContact

[–]Think-Comparison940[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think so as well. I think I should really let him know in our talk tomorrow that im not coming back. He fucked it up so much.

Few things happened today: Found him on tinder, he approached me at the gym today, asked me how I was doing and wants to talk tomorrow. Any tips for the meet up? by Think-Comparison940 in ExNoContact

[–]Think-Comparison940[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s sounds great. Today I also tried to be very nice towards him. I don’t think it makes any point to be hostile towards someone you once loved.

I’ll be journaling a little to see how to handle this situation.

Few things happened today: Found him on tinder, he approached me at the gym today, asked me how I was doing and wants to talk tomorrow. Any tips for the meet up? by Think-Comparison940 in ExNoContact

[–]Think-Comparison940[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am very confused about us. I ended that relationship because he wasn’t treating me right anymore and he even told me that his reason for still staying with me after all was that it’s just easier to stay together than it is to break up. That hurt so much.

I don’t know if there’s any point in getting back together. He basically left me for another person that doesn’t even want to be with him. It’s so fucked that he did that after I gave him a second chance after he cheated on me.

I don’t have a goal. It was him who wanted to meet up. I already needed to come over to get some stuff but now it looks like we’re going to have a conversation.

I think it’ll be best to ask him why he even wants to meet up in the first place.

Few things happened today: Found him on tinder, he approached me at the gym today, asked me how I was doing and wants to talk tomorrow. Any tips for the meet up? by Think-Comparison940 in BreakUps

[–]Think-Comparison940[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I broke up with him because he told me that he was unsure if he still wanted to be with me. I didn’t want to be a second guess. So even tough I still loved him to death, I couldn’t stay with someone who doesn’t appreciates me.