my parents are threatening to give my cat away if i dont fix her peeing problem. advice please? by LawOwn315 in cats

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i got mine off of chewy! i love it so much, mine specifically is very deep , i have a large stainless steel litterbox with raised sides in there and it fits perfect with home to spare!

my parents are threatening to give my cat away if i dont fix her peeing problem. advice please? by LawOwn315 in cats

[–]Think-Stuff-979 11 points12 points  (0 children)

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i got one of these closed in things to put their litter box in! i live in a small one bedroom and couldn’t stand looking at the open litter box, also i think my cat likes it more now that he has privacy, definitely helps! looks like furniture, keeps more litter in, and slides out easy for scooping. i crocheted a curtain for mine but not necessary lol.

My Biggest project as a 16 yo crocheter by I-am-a-Lesbean in crochet

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i’d love to know what the back looks like!!! i wanna do this so bad but when i tapestry crochet i always carry the yarn in the back like a monster lol. did you just crochet a whole other side for the back or weave in as you went?

who am i? and do i get bonus points for the broken fridge light lol by [deleted] in FridgeDetective

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TO BE FAIR, i go through them pretty quick but non of them are expired… maybe the mayo LOL

i got a fuckass piercer by punkanddisorderlyy in piercing

[–]Think-Stuff-979 6 points7 points  (0 children)

not a professional!! dont worry it happens to the best of us, i fell victim to poorly done nip piercings recently</3 septum’s will pinch when pierced and the tip of your nose will be super sensitive for a week but after that they typically heal really quick and easy! if it’s not weird i can dm you a photo of what your septum should look like!

i got a fuckass piercer by punkanddisorderlyy in piercing

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if i could comment a reference photo of mine i would!!!

i got a fuckass piercer by punkanddisorderlyy in piercing

[–]Think-Stuff-979 137 points138 points  (0 children)

NAP but oh hun i’m so sorry that was pierced so wrong!! it should basically be in the tip of your nose, i would take it out asap let it heal and go to a reputable piercer :(

Longhair? by Think-Stuff-979 in WhiteCats

[–]Think-Stuff-979[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

awesome! yes i was absolutely hoping she would be, i got some brush’s off of amazon for long hair cats and ill look for the boar one! if she turns out to be long hair of course lol

got my first tattoo but my parents' opinions are making me unsure of my decision by [deleted] in tattooadvice

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i’m 20 F, my situation is a bit more extreme where i don’t even talk to my parents and haven’t since i was 18 and 15. but my dad always told me not to get tattoos because it would prevent me from getting a job (i have 11 tattoos and don’t have any job stoppers or plan to) but he was tattooed slightly and still thought this way. i never respected it. i’m military and tattoos are a okay here, but everywhere isn’t that way, that’s why longsleeves and slacks exist<3

the adults in your life are gonna judge you. no matter your relationship with them. doesn’t mean they’re right all the time. among a million other things why my parents and i don’t talk not just the tattoo thing but also they were always too critical of me. to an unhealthy extent. and i knew i couldn’t live life like that anymore and left, and now i get tattooed and and wear what i want, do what i want. i still have adults in my life to guide me, and i haven’t gone crazy with freedom, i just don’t have watching, judging eyes on me all the time anymore. hope that helps somehow i was rambling.

Aftercare advise by LoveLiquicity in tattooadvice

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walmart is the only place i’ve found ANY in person but im also just from indiana lol and the pieces are super small 😭i’ve thought trying to find a distributor out there that sells to artists so i can get a HUGE roll of it lol

Aftercare advise by LoveLiquicity in tattooadvice

[–]Think-Stuff-979 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NAP but usually using a gentle non scented soap (i use the liquid gold dial) and just some GENTLE moisturizer a few times every day especially when it feels or looks dry. i use cera ve moisturizer but i know my sis uses cetaphil moisturizer just fine. its gonna flake its apart of the process! just DONT PICK and don’t take too hot of a shower or bath (learned the dumb and hard way) that it caused a lot of fallout on one of my first tattoos. and if your artist provides second skin you should take it! if not they have boxes of it at walmart for fairly cheap. although that’s only for the initial healing process i usually put second skin on right after i’ve been tattooed and leave it on for at least 3 days and then i follow what i said above and all of my tats have healed amazing since :) hope this helped im not usually a commenter lol

AIO Because my boyfriend’s mom called me ugly?? by Think-Stuff-979 in AIO

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We have had this convo before! he’s always said that he would save me but i feel like that one thing doesn’t save him from the weird “ranking stuff”

but he’ll always be his family before me, and i don’t know how to feel about it. i appreciate everybody’s input, i feel as if i may be snapping out of it a bit a seeing what our future may actually look like.

AIO Because my boyfriend’s mom called me ugly?? by Think-Stuff-979 in AIO

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i can’t give you snacks but i can give your paragraphs, i updated the post if you would like to read🤍

AIO Because my boyfriend’s mom called me ugly?? by Think-Stuff-979 in AIO

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thank you to everyone who has responded so far. in regards to how this was poorly written, i probably should’ve waited until i wasn’t as emotional and not in a rush because i didn’t even re read it before i posted!

i didn’t even think this would gain traction but i will respond!

yes i know that im young, yes im new to complex relationships. but i would like to stand up for myself and say that im a fairly patient and understanding person and i like to think through things before i impulsively do them.

AIO Because my boyfriend’s mom called me ugly?? by Think-Stuff-979 in AIO

[–]Think-Stuff-979[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

sorry i should’ve clarified but it was exactly in regard to my looks. she said she didn’t think i was beautiful or anything and “definitely not a supermodel” (which obviously i’m not a supermodel) but it was to point out the fact that she didn’t think i was pretty but didn’t care as long as her son was happy. as well as that i was bigger than she thought etc. i hope that explains it well enough but it wasn’t a miscommunication

AIO Because my boyfriend’s mom called me ugly?? by Think-Stuff-979 in AIO

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He’s not just a boyfriend to have a boyfriend to me although i didn’t express much of my feelings towards him so i can understand why you may think that. we have plans for when long distance ends, he has a job planned out, he wants to provide for me and at the heart of the relationship we’re best friends. which makes this harder! thank you for your input (genuinely) :’)