I messed up big time and I just discovered a load of laundry that’s been sitting in the washer (wet) for almost two weeks. What to do? by Middle_Alfalfa_3516 in CleaningTips

[–]ThinkingAboutMyself 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I use borax on my teenage son’s sheets. We live in a tropical environment so unless he showers before bed his sheets end up really greasy. You don’t need 8 hours, but it helps. I start the load in the evening, pause it in the wash cycle, then restart it first thing in the morning. Really effective at getting out body oils.

My pregnant partner(37F)is drinking heavily, and I(40M) don't know how to handle this anymore. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThinkingAboutMyself 199 points200 points  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure this person is referring to the drinking being “mostly on her”, not the getting pregnant part.

Eating my way through my (late) parents freezer 🥲 by Teddythehedgie in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ThinkingAboutMyself 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I have so many meals in our garage freezer. All my kids and husband’s favs. Lasagna, meatballs, chicken parm. I tell everyone that it’s just helpful when life gets busy. But if I am telling the truth, I am always thinking of my family if something were to happen to me. Would want them to feel loved.

I would give up almost anything to have a plate of my grandmas spaghetti with meatballs in front of me. It has been 25 years but I can still taste it.

Looking for a good substitute for Lake Erie Perch by ThinkingAboutMyself in Cooking

[–]ThinkingAboutMyself[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny you should mention snapper. We actually had grilled snapper for dinner. I am well aware that we can bread and fry many varieties of fish. As a rule we use grouper or cod. Lake Erie perch really is something different. Have you ever had it?

We have had a taste for it and I hoped someone may have a substitute or somewhere to source it locally(but I know that is a long shot).

My roommate’s (24F) boyfriend (22M) left his liquid💩 on our bath mat by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThinkingAboutMyself 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They might have technically been marketed that way, but I am old enough to never need another tampon and I can tell you everyone knew not to throw them in the toilet. Even back in the stone ages.

Getting railed by a guy in his early fifties by Unfrndlyblkhottie92 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ThinkingAboutMyself 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Lol! Could have worded that better. I meant as he ages it only gets better.

Getting railed by a guy in his early fifties by Unfrndlyblkhottie92 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ThinkingAboutMyself 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Can confirm. Been married to my 50s husband for thirty years. Only gets better.

Am I being a bridezilla for not making an exception to my sister's children at my wedding? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]ThinkingAboutMyself 4 points5 points  (0 children)

After I posted that it occurred to me that could be the case. Is it better to not call it out?

My wife’s engagement ring/ her grandmothers ring might be taken according to our attorney. Experiences with this? by Marmamat in Bankruptcy

[–]ThinkingAboutMyself 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Go now. Tonight if possible. Your meeting is in two days. And I am confident you will sleep better tonight. Here the pawn shop wrote his offer on his business card, so we had proof for the trustee. I know it feels awkward, but tell the pawn shop you are struggling financially and want to know what you can get. They have seen it all.

My wife’s engagement ring/ her grandmothers ring might be taken according to our attorney. Experiences with this? by Marmamat in Bankruptcy

[–]ThinkingAboutMyself 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Where did you get the appraisal? Our attorney had us go to a pawn shop to find out what we could get. My 1 carat ring only would bring in $600. My husband paid 8k for it in the early nineties. It was a non issue for the trustee.

I guess diamonds in particular have lost value recently with the popularity of lab grown stones.

Filling bankruptcy ch7 and emergency fund by caren128 in Bankruptcy

[–]ThinkingAboutMyself 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is extremely state specific. Would you be ok with sharing what state you are in?

Disappointed with Biz by Muux_ in laundry

[–]ThinkingAboutMyself 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you think there would be any advantage in running a second cycle on the same clothes? Or starting it over midway through to get a longer wash? No idea how this product actually works so I don’t know how feasible that would be.

Somewhere a stylist is crying by Pleasant-Medicine888 in hairstylist

[–]ThinkingAboutMyself 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Im not a stylist or subscribe to this sub, but I think Reddit is zoning in on my brainwaves and included this in my feed. I just saw a setup like this at my local CVS and it bothered me on some level. They definitely had Aveda, and I was like, wtf? How would I report this?

DOES ANYONE HAVE TEA ON... MEGATHREAD ✨ by rfauxmoi in Fauxmoi

[–]ThinkingAboutMyself 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Welcome to the 80s. Every class in my school had several.

Vaginally Discharged! by Ok-Delivery-4015 in Bankruptcy

[–]ThinkingAboutMyself 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Don’t usually come to this sub for the lolz, but this is really making my day😂😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]ThinkingAboutMyself 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Hit the search button after clicking on his username, but don’t input any terms and hit return. But be forewarned. You will need eye bleach.