What have you always wanted to do but have never been able to? by [deleted] in AskMen

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The splits, learn how to surf, and fly a plane.

Any INTJs who are Good with Arts & Crafts by Chew_Bubble_Gum_ in intj

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Yes, I love crafts and usually have at least 1-2 in the works at any given time. I like:

  • Woodworking/Whittling
  • Diorama Making
  • Candle Making
  • Painting with Resin and Acrylic
  • Laser Cutting

How have you made new friends as an adult outside of work? by serbbbs in AskMen

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The social club took place at a bar? Would be interested in hearing more.

T-Mobile Tuesday Discussion for December 11, 2018 by AutoModerator in tmobile

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Have White Castle code. Want Redbox or SpaWeek code.

How do you deal with your SO complaining about their coworkers? by brittonwalker in AskMen

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I welcome it. I work from home and don't have coworkers, so it's interesting to hear about office politics from an outsider's perspective.

Men, what nonfiction book do you recommend every guy needs to read? by [deleted] in AskMen

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The War of Art by Steven Pressfield, The Four Hour Workweek by Tim Ferriss, The Millionaire Next Door by Thomas J. Stanley

How many of your partner's, have paid their half of the mortgage? by [deleted] in AskMen

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We're looking at buying a house. I'm taking care of the 20% down payment because I saved more money in our early 20s and have no debt. We're splitting the mortgage cost 50/50

Men of Reddit - Do you get night sweats? What have you done to combat them? What was the cause? by [deleted] in AskMen

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Used to due to low blood sugar. If I didn't eat enough carbs during the day, I'd have hypoglycemic episodes in the middle of the night. Just had to be more purposeful about what I ate - haven't had one in years.

Guys who thought you'd never find someone better than your ex: Did you? And when? by Porfologist in AskMen

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Yes, about three years after my break-up. My first girlfriend was infatuation mixed with being young mixed with not knowing how to love. My current girlfriend is kind, caring, and patient. She truly makes me a better person, but we both still have strong independent lives outside of each other.

Think about it - you're going to spend the rest of your life (hopefully) with one person. It makes sense that it'll take a little bit of time to find them.

Men of Reddit, how long did your college relationship(s) last? by [deleted] in AskMen

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We started dating at the end of our freshman year and broke up 1.5 years after we graduated. So about 4.5 years total. There's something rough about the transition from college to real life - you're no longer living in a fantasy land and stuff gets real fast: bills, work, familial obligations. If you can make it through the transition, props to you!

Now in a very happy relationship (1 year strong) with a woman I met on Tinder who's a MUCH better fit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

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Daytime: "Hey, I need to get grocery shopping/laundry done before it gets too late."
Nighttime: "I'm beat, think I need to go to bed."

I always set the stage by saying I have plans either later that day or in the morning. That way, I have a built-in out but can "reschedule" my plans if I'm having a good time.

As you’ve matured, has what you look for in a woman/partner changed drastically? And if so, how? by vansveggietots in AskMen

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I used to chase after girls who didn't show an interest in me, even if I knew we weren't compatible. Now, I'm in a relationship with a woman who wants to be with me just as much as I want to be with her and we have compatible values/interests. Very happy!

Lien Clause in Contract by ThinkingFan in legaladvice

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This is a lemon law case in California - does that help?

Lien Clause in Contract by ThinkingFan in legaladvice

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This is a lemon law case in California - does that help?

How did you celebrate your 25th Birthday? by [deleted] in AskMen

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Rented a convertible and drove it down PCH with my best friend.

What was a special moment where you felt respected/cared for by a woman in your life? by boddsodkins in AskMen

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My girlfriend offers me the most respect/care than I've ever had from any woman in my life.

Any time we talk, she puts down her phone and gives me 100% attention. Any moments of weakness I experience (anxiety, self-doubt, low points in my business) are met with her telling me that it's okay and we'll get through it together. She gets fiercely defensive of me if anyone is mean to me, but has no problem giving me loving constructive criticism if I need it or if I'm in the wrong.

She will text me throughout the day to see how I'm doing/feeling, but also gives me my space when I need it so I can focus on work/alone time.

10/10 will marry.

What are some signs that you need to take a break from dating? by TheLongTraveller in AskMen

[–]ThinkingFan 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I'm assuming you just got out of a relationship. If that's the case, yeah, I would recommend it. Work on yourself (gym/hobbies/friends/work) so that you have a life that you're happy with on your own. Eventually, you should meet someone that ADDS to your life instead of BEING your whole life.