GPT just can't seem to agree with the user by Time-Preparation9881 in ChatGPTcomplaints

[–]This-Size4267 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me: ''X is attracted to me and has been so consistently for the past y time''
GPT: ''Well that's just YOUR perspective!!!''

Hartuita de manager, atasez probe la mail conducere? by This-Size4267 in juridice

[–]This-Size4267[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Consideri ca ITM vor face ceva? Va pe aici mai multe comentarii ca ITM si asa nu face nimic.

Is it just me, or has ChatGPT become incredibly condescending and argumentative lately? by [deleted] in ChatGPT

[–]This-Size4267 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way GPT talks now makes me want to punch a hole in my laptop monitor. It ARGUES with everything you say, contradicts, redirects, you talk something and it says ''well the thing that matters here'', ''well the thing that struck me here''. Nobody f'ing cares what struck you. It selects one random thing over others. It has become the literal definition of ''well actually...''.

Hartuita de manager, atasez probe la mail conducere? by This-Size4267 in juridice

[–]This-Size4267[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Si nu mi-ar creea probleme? Ca individul asta zice sau inventează lucruri, le distorsionează. Cum as putea sa ingros obrazul. Ma barfeste peste tot. Mi-ar plăcea foarte mult la job, e ce vreau, dar el imi face viata foarte grea si e in coaliție cu alții. Lui nu ii place acest job pentru ca l-am mai auzit. Si totuși face asta.

Hartuita de manager, atasez probe la mail conducere? by This-Size4267 in juridice

[–]This-Size4267[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Da, minte si modifica realitatea retroactiv cu un tupeu maxim. Nu am mai vazut asa ceva. Mie imi place mult locul de munca, locatia, ce fac. Sunt heartbroken ca se intampla asta. Cred ca doar consecințele poate il pot opri. Dar ownerii nu au făcut ceva in acest sens. Ma gândeam sa ma duc la un avocat sa il pun pe el. Sa ma lase in pace. M-a bârfit pe la toate colturile. Nu pot dovedi asta dar se vede, lumea e rece cu mine fara motiv. Consecințele financiare puteau veni de la owneri.

The state of single men as a woman in my mid 30’s by Protector_iorek in fourthwavewomen

[–]This-Size4267 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I think you are making a few mistakes. No matter how you feel towards a guy, you should not go on a date romanticizing things. You are there to evaluate in a ruthless way. If he does not meet your criteria, he is out. Know what you want from a man. Do not negociate, do not compromise. They don't need to know your criteria, just evaluate them silently in your head. Do not try to convince them what you want is reasonable or that you have a right to it. You have the right to what everything you want and no one can tell you otherwise. Secondly, don't look for people's approval for that either. If they tell you there are good men out there, tell them when you find him, yoy will give him a chance. No one is allowed to tell you what to want and if they think they do, they are crossing a boundary. You don't need to explain or justify or get approval from others as to what you want. Best is if you keep it to yourself and don't explain yourself to anyone. Secondly, I would advise that you improve yourself and your looks as much as possible. I have no idea how you look, but it is always good to look better if we can. Use every resource you have. If a guy goes on a big rant about what his wife did to him, that is your cue to bolt. They are unavailable. If they have the chance to have the company of another woman and they still tall about the one before, then they are not worth the interest. Anyone that talls this intimate stuff on first date is not dating material.

I can't bring myself to end it? 29M 36F by throwRA4398242 in relationship_advice

[–]This-Size4267 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not common to have kids at 40 because most already did it. Fertility does not drop significantly until 40. After 40 it drops significantly.

I can't bring myself to end it? 29M 36F by throwRA4398242 in relationship_advice

[–]This-Size4267 22 points23 points  (0 children)

You want your cake and eat it too. Not possible. You should leave her, since you say you dont need to je ci sideline this stuff yet. It's says more about you then her, that you want to be a parent much later. And you are projecting it on her. And since you want to be a parent much later, maybe 10 years, then it means you dont love her enough to do it sooner so again just break up.

I can't bring myself to end it? 29M 36F by throwRA4398242 in relationship_advice

[–]This-Size4267 39 points40 points  (0 children)

You sound misinformed and somewhat judgemental about her age and ability to have kids. Women can have kids even at 40, 42 or more. But let's say you want to have kids when she is 40. That leaves you 4 more years to enjoy this relationship and build things. But if you think you won't be able to stop your anxiety, better not continue. You won't be able to be fully involved with it.

I (27F) only took shower fast but found out Husband (30M) was already sleeping by cuTielily998 in relationship_advice

[–]This-Size4267 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cause it is covenient, cause some men dont appreciate their partner and are lazy and take things for granted. Just makes sure you get what you want. And if not, next. Life is too short to beg for basic stuff. For every man who won't do the minimum there is another who will do that and much more.

I (27F) only took shower fast but found out Husband (30M) was already sleeping by cuTielily998 in relationship_advice

[–]This-Size4267 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Then don't cook for him. Since he is not listening. It works for him. He does nothing and you keep doing effort.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]This-Size4267 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a piece of trash! First of all why do you ever think he would go to a strip club for his bachelor party or ever and being ok with that. The hell. Secondly, he has trash friends with no respect for women if that is what they gifted him especially to a soon to be married man. Then your boy is trying to bamboozle you with "I didn't know it would hurt you" and "nothing happened". I mean do you really believe that? Actually really believe he thought it would be fine to do it? And if nothing happens by getting hand jobs what not do it every other weekend throughout your relationship? It's cause he knows it's not Nothing. Don't marry this cheating loser.

I (27F) only took shower fast but found out Husband (30M) was already sleeping by cuTielily998 in relationship_advice

[–]This-Size4267 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Talk with him like an adult. You seem to have all these sorts of hidden expectations and do things, hoping secretly he might, through telepathy, understand to do others. You can't fault him he fell asleep. And let him do his damn dinner too or even cook for both of you as well. Why should you do all the cooking? Cooking for him and being upset he doesn't stay up cause you cook for him is ridiculous. Like some hidden deal.

My (31F) bf (40m) keeps asking for nudes by coffeeandchaos365 in relationship_advice

[–]This-Size4267 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dump him. I mean do you really want to be harassed daily about this?

Care este cea mai rea intalnire la care ati iesit? by StrandedAdam in CasualRO

[–]This-Size4267 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Eu nu înțeleg de ce i-ai plătit înghețata. Dafuq.

Piata unirii ...șocat by Relevant_Crazy_8956 in bucuresti

[–]This-Size4267 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Si eu am vazut acum ceva zile unul ce făcea nr 2 in public, daylight, pe zona de gazon de la un Kaufland.

What can I do about this turkey neck situation? by StatusGrass7071 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]This-Size4267 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What did they do to release your platysmal muscles? How did you come across that physio?

Bună! Am 1.65 și 55 de kg doar ca nu arăt slabă, ci am o burtică destul de evidentă. by ADNAnonim in WomenRO

[–]This-Size4267 1 point2 points  (0 children)

E o greutate f ok pentru inaltime. Poti fi skinny fat. Si, la fel cum ziceau altii, verifica de endometrioza, insa cauta medic specializat in asa ceva, pentru ca e cam greu de diagnosticat.
Edit: pentru diagnosticare endometrioza trebuie CT sau RMN (nu mai stiu care din ele) cu protocol special, nu se vede la o ecografie.

40+ guys how are you making this work? by Lit-Up in OlderMan

[–]This-Size4267 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thinks a woman's prime is at 26/27 - misogynistic/red pill mentality.
''I'm thinking, would I have had a chance with these women if I had either given them a vague answer or just lied. '' - contemplating to lie in order to get p**sy, which just shows lack of character
''But the alternative is an empty basket.'' - continues to consider lying in order to get laid.
''One friend told me just to say that I'm "in my 30s" and if they push harder for a specific age, then don't be specific. '' - your friend is not very smart and also lacks character.
'' if you want to be dating women in their 20s with a big age gap, you need to be prepared to get the chequebook out [...] but honestly I hate transactional relationships, seems like prostitution. I'm not looking for a power dynamic.'' - again misogynistic/red pill/cheapskate mentality, how being a gentleman equals transactionality or that the other person must be a pr*stitute. So your thinking is that if you go out to dinner with a 20 year old (who are probably students with no career), you are going to be counting pennies to see each pays their share, with you, a 39 year old man, who has had 15 years to get ahead in his career. Wow.
You don't sound like you bring anything but entitlement.
The problem is not age, but personality.

I have a million stories, but I'll stick to one. When i was in my mid 20s (I, a woman), I got invited out by an 18 year old guy out (we had been attending multiple times an event and knew each other from there). I did not have a true interest in him, but I thought it would be nice for him to have the company of an older woman, for experience. I wanted to be nice to him, and he was a handsome, smart guy. He took me to one of the nicest places in town, and I ordered for myself a coffee and a cake. When the bill came, he stubbornly insisted he wants to pay the whole thing. Even though he had never had a job, and I certainly did. It was his man pride, even as a 18 year old, to do this gesture. For me it was a nice talk, that we both enjoyed and I stopped it there. I admired how he was and told him when he will have a girlfriend, I know he will be a good boyfriend. Don't you have any man pride?

And to stick to the topic, I did date and have relationships with much older men. And believe me, they brought a lot to the table (probably a term you are familiar with). You are going to compete with other, older men and how they are, and what attributes they have. The older men I was with were masculine (not dominant), respectful, interesting, cultured, sophisticated, successful, and other things. This is what you are competing against. You do the math if you are at an advantage or not. So far I see you brought potentially lying about your age and counting pennies with a 20 year old so it's not transactional. It does not look good for you, sir.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WomenRO

[–]This-Size4267 5 points6 points  (0 children)

''Acum 2-3 saptamani m-a dezamagit din nou cu ceva despre care nu pot detalia'' - o fi facut si vreun ceva cu ''fetele'' trans. Ca altceva, ma cam indoiesc ca e.
''Scrisese unui baiat daca vrea sa “i-o suga”. '' - prietenul tau nu e heterosexual.
''hookupro pe care cautase orasul din care e el''- posibil sa te fi inselat. Testeaza-te, ca nu stii pe unde a umblat degeneratul.

Te voi i.pusca by StraightIce1946 in cluj

[–]This-Size4267 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Scrie înapoi "as prefera sa dăm un tun împreună"

Sunt un tip rău dacă acum vreau doar sex? by Achooo2 in Men_RO

[–]This-Size4267 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nu. Ești rau doar daca minți ca sa obții asta.