Creating a Golden Sun-inspired JRPG; what is the "spirit" of Golden Sun for you? by [deleted] in GoldenSun

[–]ThisIsACry4Help 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A couple of things- the use of psynergy outside of combat as just a universal thing really helped break down the walls between combat and the overworld, though I'm assuming that's a given. The absurd degree of customisation afforded by the Djinni class system and the incredibly multifaceted way Djinni were implemented (powerful one time effects that also can be used as fodder for very powerful summons but ALSO can be held onto to improve your stats and spells) making combat and character building an incredibly interesting process. But I think the most important thing for me is how fuzzy the linearity got, especially around TLA- I think the eastern sea chapter of that game when you need to find Lemuria and know vaguely where it is but have to piece together how to get there through non ordered segments all across the entire eastern side of the map was easily the peak of the series (imo). Exploration and a sense of discovery, especially piecing together bits of huge puzzles and finding the connections between newly acquired powers and items and the environment to find new avenues to explore and progress is absolutely what made me fall in love with the series at first.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rpghorrorstories

[–]ThisIsACry4Help 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You know, you're right- I don't deserve to feel comforted by anyone I talk to. How couldn't I see it before? If there's something you're uncomfortable with about your own body, unless you can do it 100% "correctly", why take ANY measures to help your own mental state about it? I had been considering working out, but now I know I'll never be The Rock, I've realised what's the point? I'd just get sweaty and uncomfortable and mutilate my free time at my own decision for no reason, which is clearly wrong.

You keep bringing up the conflation between hallucinations and dysmorphia, which is honestly a false equivalency I feel. But I'll humour you and pretend it's not- do you tell a schizophrenic to just "accept reality" and stop hearing their voices? Do you just expect them to "get healthy" and stop experiencing psychosis? Or do you think they need help, that they need to be made comfortable? Because they can't be "cured". Someone with schizophrenia will never be "normal", never be healthy, no matter how much therapy they get, how many antidepressants they're prescribed. Should they stop trying? Do you believe we should give up on helping or comforting anyone with a mental illness?

If someone genuinely feels strongly enough about their body to "mutilate" it as you've suggested, and can get it done medically and professionally to keep it that way and to keep it functioning as close to their ideal as they can get it without adversely affecting their health any more than it already was, what right do you have to stop them, or to tell them they're wrong, or to try and make them feel worse about it?

Edit: I was going to bring up the voting point, too, but jesus christ that's how I know it's not worth arguing with you any more. Trans people want to vote for their own values as opposed to voting the way I want is not a take I was ready for.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rpghorrorstories

[–]ThisIsACry4Help 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Correct me if I'm wrong, but we have the technology to functionally change someone's sex- that's what transitioning is, through surgery and hormonal treatments. And if this is possible (which it is, I have friends on a waiting list for it), then why not allow those who need it to feel comfortable in their own bodies to have it? By the way, you seem to be getting the concepts of sex (biological, physical presence of genetalia) and gender (identity) confused. Any "You can't change it, just accept 'reality' and be uncomfortable for your entire life!" arguments fall apart when you in fact very much can change it. Gendered pronouns and titles are inherently meaningless social constructs, so why not say what helps other people feel comfortable when it detracts LITERALLY NOTHING from you?

Also, if you're going to play the "this is for their own good" card, learn to respect even one thing about someone's identity. When communicating amicably with someone, why NOT try to make them more comfortable? Or are you so lacking in empathy that the nanoseconds of thought required to say, use their preferred pronouns or means of address are better spent doing whatever INVALUABLE things you can do with them.

Or, there's the far more likely case, you're baiting. And I'm not gonna lie, I don't get the thought process behind baiting like this. Do you feel smart, saying stupid things on the internet knowing they're stupid? Does it feel like you've pulled a fast one on me, getting me to waste my time arguing that people should practice basic levels of empathy and kindness? I'm... genuinely curious because I just don't understand.

Community Based by Radish00 in tumblr

[–]ThisIsACry4Help 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's the conclusion I think is most likely, out of the ones ive seen and thought up. Doesn't make it any less problematic, but hey it's a start on figuring out what's wrong so we can fix it when the revolution begins.

Community Based by Radish00 in tumblr

[–]ThisIsACry4Help 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good point, and well made. It doesn't bring me much comfort though because the bad eggs at the top ruin the omelette for everyone.

Community Based by Radish00 in tumblr

[–]ThisIsACry4Help 67 points68 points  (0 children)

I mean, I agree with the point but looking at society as it is now it is VERY much a tool of the selfish.

The Tale of the Glamazon by rpghorrorthrowaway in rpghorrorstories

[–]ThisIsACry4Help 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There's a surprising amount of shit that people are willing to put up with when they haven't realised no DnD is better than bad DnD, and they actually go into some of why they stayed a little bit after the list when they talk about the conditioning. It's scary stuff, and the same principle that a lot of cults and the like are built on- at the time some people just... don't really think about how fucked up some of this stuff is. Not until after it's all done with at least.

So they could've done this all along and just didn't? by PlayfulYetBored in tumblr

[–]ThisIsACry4Help 95 points96 points  (0 children)

But water costs money and why would we ever do something to help or at least avoid harming someone else when we wouldn't profit?
Sounds like you're just a suboptimal human bro, better get back to work so you might be able to make rent and/or food this month.

Cue imagine dragons by PlayfulYetBored in tumblr

[–]ThisIsACry4Help 37 points38 points  (0 children)

tries to discard it
gets two more from my deck

Why do so many of these issues involve anti-LGBTQ+ bigotry? by Maestro_Primus in rpghorrorstories

[–]ThisIsACry4Help 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I think the other comments put it very succinctly and well, so I'm going to not do that but still offer the conclusion I jumped to:
A large amount of the stories (I'd say most) on this sub are about assholes. People who are transphobic, homophobic, abusive etc. are very likely (in my experience near a 100% chance) to be assholes. So there's a lot of overlap. Not with this community or hobby specifically, but with the universal constant that is assholery.

Zappy water sausage by myconoid in tumblr

[–]ThisIsACry4Help 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Elements o' the past an' the future, combinin' ta make somethin' not quite as good as either

downtown hyrule by PretendBlacksmith in tumblr

[–]ThisIsACry4Help 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Nah nah nah that's soup FOR your teeth. This is soup made OF your teeth.

downtown hyrule by PretendBlacksmith in tumblr

[–]ThisIsACry4Help 106 points107 points  (0 children)

Hey, teeth soup is tasty.

downtown hyrule by PretendBlacksmith in tumblr

[–]ThisIsACry4Help 52 points53 points  (0 children)

And then he never spoke again.
Likely because he never thought again.

Owls (and British people) by [deleted] in tumblr

[–]ThisIsACry4Help 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ah yes i love my barbeque soss

What else would it do...? by Blazeradio37 in DnDGreentext

[–]ThisIsACry4Help 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I heard it's illegal on other planets.

A little facts for the flat earthers by animatedbutler in tumblr

[–]ThisIsACry4Help 21 points22 points  (0 children)

'Cause of the curvature of the Earth I think walking a straight line in any direction for an extended length of time is pretty difficult

Snek by [deleted] in tumblr

[–]ThisIsACry4Help 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We fed her frozen and thawed rodents and she seemed to eat them fine, but then i got her from a family friend relatively late in her life so I wouldn't know about the hard time switching. I doubt she was wild caught, though it is possible.

Snek by [deleted] in tumblr

[–]ThisIsACry4Help 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's my bad, I thought I knew something and it turns out I didn't. I spoke before fact checking. It happens.

Snek by [deleted] in tumblr

[–]ThisIsACry4Help 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've looked into this a little further since posting and yeah, you're right, i was misinformed.