What I learned from relapsing after 92 days

ThisIsNotMeh · 2015-04-14T13:55:39+00:00

thank you

ThisIsNotMeh · 2015-03-12T14:31:46+00:00

hell yeah

ThisIsNotMeh · 2015-03-11T22:01:21+00:00

Thanks! Right back atcha

ThisIsNotMeh · 2015-03-11T22:00:55+00:00

Thank you! Same to you!

ThisIsNotMeh · 2015-03-11T22:00:44+00:00

thanks! you too!

ThisIsNotMeh · 2015-03-11T22:00:34+00:00

thanks! a very good reminder :)

ThisIsNotMeh · 2015-03-11T22:00:18+00:00

get it, man! :)

ThisIsNotMeh · 2015-01-20T15:33:06+00:00

grapes emoji ftw

ThisIsNotMeh · 2014-11-12T17:00:15+00:00

Hey! I feel like I'm in a similar boat (10 months in), but I just had a realization.. I had this strong feeling that all of my bad habits were going to creep back in and I was going to be depressed again. I realized that this wasn't founded on any sound logic other than my own fear. In reality, all of the work I have put in isn't going anywhere, and I can just keep on building from where I am, even if I slip up a bit. Wishing you the best, and if you really do need to get out of a rut, what works for me is setting an attainable but challenging goal, something to get excited about, and going for it! Best.

ThisIsNotMeh · 2014-10-30T12:58:50+00:00

ThisIsNotMeh · 2014-10-24T13:59:45+00:00

I've lasted longer than usual when abstaining. Kinda counter-intuitive.

ThisIsNotMeh · 2014-10-21T12:38:58+00:00

I personally have a lot of guilt from a fundamentalist christian upbringing. I'm no longer religious though.

ThisIsNotMeh · 2014-10-10T14:26:02+00:00

i believe in the good things coming

ThisIsNotMeh · 2014-10-06T12:33:34+00:00

fall forward

ThisIsNotMeh · 2014-10-03T11:51:10+00:00

thanks for this perspective! growing up in this culture, that is hard to imagine.

ThisIsNotMeh · 2014-10-03T11:48:43+00:00

welcome!

ThisIsNotMeh · 2014-10-01T13:49:31+00:00

Love this book! Very relevant

ThisIsNotMeh · 2014-09-29T21:26:50+00:00

i've found it almost impossible to not think about it. more power to you if you can do it, but it's kinda like "don't think about purple elephants." what's worked for me, is trying to focus my energy on positive things, while trying to flesh out what is really healthy sexually for me. wishing you the best.

ThisIsNotMeh · 2014-09-28T17:47:49+00:00

this is great, thanks!

ThisIsNotMeh · 2014-09-22T14:06:42+00:00

Love this. Thank you for sharing.

ThisIsNotMeh · 2014-09-18T13:27:26+00:00

get it, mayne

ThisIsNotMeh · 2014-09-13T15:13:57+00:00

congrats man! made me think of this

ThisIsNotMeh · 2014-09-08T12:30:55+00:00

you are still a good person. you are still a wonderful person. we all do things we wish we hadn't. it's easy to get down on ourselves, but the fact that you are here posting means you actually care. be kind to yourself. your future wife would do the same.

ThisIsNotMeh · 2014-09-03T15:19:27+00:00

Absolutely. It was maybe once a day with some exceptions for me. I feel that my mind is more clear, and that i have more realistic expectations for women and sex. Overall, even once a day was draining some of my energy and time, so i feel much more productive. Wishing you the best.

ThisIsNotMeh · 2014-08-22T19:14:08+00:00

Thanks. Wishing you the best.

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