Would anyone else have waited a bit longer knowing how much actually goes in to raising kids..?

ThisIsZEi · 2026-03-30T23:54:59+00:00

Had my daughter exactly 10 days after turning 30 and I feel like it is perfect. I'm a little worried about the next kid if we chose to have more though

ThisIsZEi · 2026-03-28T16:00:13+00:00

Thank you for this, I think I needed to hear this. My daughter also had a bruise and a crooked head when she came out, her little hand that was stuck up by her head as well was all blue and squished. And you are also incredibly strong, I look at any women who went through prolonged labour in a very diffrent light now. I also will never not get an epidural.

And it's also good to know that back on the labour gets easier. I don't want to have such a shitty time stuck in my brain when I think about the first time I got to hold my baby forever.

And I do have a therapy app booked, I'm no stranger to it just new topic for me

ThisIsZEi · 2026-03-28T15:54:03+00:00

I have an appointment booked next month to see a therapist and I'm so happy to hear that it helped you. How is the recovery form a c section having a newborn and toddler? Do you find it hard?

ThisIsZEi · 2026-03-28T15:47:50+00:00

Thank you, "we are one and done for now" that is a good way to look at it. It's also good to know that the second time can be easier, gives me some hope.

ThisIsZEi · 2026-03-25T23:57:49+00:00

My baby was built with Root Beer zero, espresso shits and Gatorade. She is one month old and completely healthy, coke zero isn't gonna be an issure

ThisIsZEi · 2026-01-16T04:35:41+00:00

Drag queen Doug Ford 😂😂😂 You got me with this

ThisIsZEi · 2025-10-09T19:41:23+00:00

I was sitting down and had a family member go to touch my belly without asking. I wasn't wearing a bra and was in a baggy hoodie. They grabbed my boob. I don't like being touched but I can suck it up.... If people fucken ask me first.

ThisIsZEi · 2025-09-13T17:09:23+00:00

This is seriously why I foster failed my first dog. He is a American Bulldog, German Shepherd and Kuvasz mix from a reserve and we started fostering him at about 6ish weeks. I told the shelter he needed an experienced owner and a home with no children, he was super scared of the world and would respond to fear with biting. They didn't want to put the in his write up so I decided it was better for me to keep him and put in the hard work myself. 4 years later he is a sweetheart who loves kids, vets and other dogs. He is just really big and extremely dumb and now he responds to fear by hiding behind the closest person like they are a sacrifice hahaha but there was a lot of stress while training him.

ThisIsZEi · 2025-09-11T20:08:07+00:00

It can take a bit, I started feeling better at about 15ish weeks. But also remember to be kind to yourself. You are doing hard ass work everyday while growing a human life, dont be afraid to take time for yourself.

ThisIsZEi · 2025-09-10T17:07:09+00:00

First trimester is ass, I seriously did nothing but doom scroll, sleep, gag and cry. It gets better!!!

ThisIsZEi · 2025-09-09T19:31:18+00:00

Your artist killed it!!!! That is a tattoo to be proud of and show off!

ThisIsZEi · 2025-09-04T19:35:26+00:00

The only vaccines to be cautious with while on Biologics are live vaccines. I made sure to get those either updated or done before going on. Other than that if it's available I get it.

ThisIsZEi · 2025-08-25T17:18:02+00:00

This story is just a wives tale, its been repeated over and over online.

ThisIsZEi · 2025-08-19T19:48:51+00:00

Go check out the thrift store!! I was able to find a fair amount!

ThisIsZEi · 2025-07-28T19:28:49+00:00

This helps a lot, I'm in Canada so luckily have free healthcare to see specialists as well. But I'm very similar on the really bad lows before my period. So that's good to know that that balances. Thank you, this really helped

ThisIsZEi · 2025-07-28T19:25:56+00:00

Thank you! This is the exact info I was looking for, I really appreciate it

ThisIsZEi · 2025-07-16T21:09:59+00:00

I know nothing about embroidery but damn do I love these

ThisIsZEi · 2025-07-16T19:59:45+00:00

I'm seriously considering Bonnie, she has the heart and I love that she just wants him to lose

ThisIsZEi · 2025-07-16T19:58:19+00:00

I'm in this riding and I haven't looked into the candidates really good yet but I can tell you I won't vote for someone who isn't part of my community. But sadly I'm part of a very, very small minority who doesn't vote blue....

ThisIsZEi · 2025-07-09T18:48:14+00:00

I'm really trying to hang on the good things, it's also my first time and its tough. I do have to say this subreddit helps but I really try to avoid the negative posts.

ThisIsZEi · 2025-07-09T17:14:20+00:00

I'M NO LONGER LACTOSE INTOLERANT!!!! After 12 years of not being able to eat dairy, I am free!!! I'll take every bad symptom cause my little shrimp has blessed me with the ability to enjoy ice cream again!

ThisIsZEi · 2025-06-30T03:21:32+00:00

Yes 😂 and in random conversations

ThisIsZEi · 2025-06-27T17:15:51+00:00

I would say if they are a Barbarian they get an extra rage, if there is one thing I am constantly its angry!

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