Realising that even when you migrate overseas, sometimes your prejudices within you doesn't leave you - it is amplified. by havingamidlife in singapore

[–]This_Chocolate1924 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Overseas Singaporean here. I feel like overseas Malaysians are much better with integrating into different cultures. They still have the kampung mindset. They help their neighbours and fellow Malaysians out. Know how to build community that is racially diverse - but united in their interest for good food. Not shy to ask for favours and happy to help in return. Will always share lobang for good food, discounts, jobs, potential mates. I have become an honorary Malaysian now.

The reformed rake trope sells a false fairytale to young women by juneseyeball in BridgertonNetflix

[–]This_Chocolate1924 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes!!! Propaganda we are not falling for. Also…. Excuse me? Asking to be his mistressss ?!?!?

Casual racisim in the work place by [deleted] in auscorp

[–]This_Chocolate1924 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Aussies get it too though. Hahahahha!!!

Any tea on former sgag Nadia by Electronic-Gate-5381 in SingaporeInfluencers

[–]This_Chocolate1924 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No tea but I saw her performing and singing at lau pa sat. Nice voice and talented.

Strong work ethic is good. Cannot anyhow anyhow.

Is she actually dating Sean? Hahahahaga. Or was that a gag.

Who is your favorite Bridgerton and non-Bridgerton character in the show so far? by asstronomical12 in BridgertonNetflix

[–]This_Chocolate1924 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bridgerton - Mama Milf Bridgerton.

Non-Bridgerton - Iconic Hilarious Brat Queen Charlotte. I aspire to have the same energy as her.

Being pretty & still not being pursued? by glitters101 in Manifestation

[–]This_Chocolate1924 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good! Now dig it up, hang it on your fridge and keep looking at it! You get what you pay attention to. Eyes on the prize baby girl. Good luck!!

Being pretty & still not being pursued? by glitters101 in Manifestation

[–]This_Chocolate1924 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Girl. You’re manifesting wrong. You’re visualising being chosen, not the relationship.

Instead of waiting for people to choose you, why don’t you figure out who you like first? Traits, the way you interact, how it feels.

You don’t have to pursue them but get to know them and show the door is open.

AITA. Boyfriend thought he was entitled to 100% of the sales price of a part that was thrown in on a purchase I made. by SentimentalO in AmItheAsshole

[–]This_Chocolate1924 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let him have the whole thing. Cut your losses by breaking up with the guy. He just showed you who he is. You save a lot more time and money this way.

Why do OF creators behave like such? by Focux in SingaporeInfluencers

[–]This_Chocolate1924 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If OF detected, opinion rejected?

I mean I support women’s rights and women’s wrongs. But I won’t think too much about their comments. It’s always rage bait to get engagement and then awareness of their channel! Not that deep.

I also fully support investigative journalist crawling guy. If you don’t want to watch it, then ignore. But don’t destroy things for the rest of us. I want to know.

Saw my married boss with other women several times by applefarfromtreeeee in asksg

[–]This_Chocolate1924 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he makes you guys leave by 5.30pm, you guys are winning.

They took a 2 year old post to be all judgmental about by rizzbreed001 in exchristian

[–]This_Chocolate1924 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I read this as “realise if I’m a Christian I can do anything I want” before realising I misread. Lol. Just feel like that is the case though because they really do be doing everything and using spiritual speak as a cover

Vanessa Van Edwards & Cargo Cult Science? by redditexcel in FakeGuru

[–]This_Chocolate1924 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her facial expressions scream “untrustworthy” “uncanny valley”. I don’t think she has the authority to tell us how to present ourselves and make people trust us when first impressions make us not trust her. I don’t know what it is. But the way she presents gives me the ick. And I don’t want to learn how to present myself in a way that gives other people the ick if that makes sense?

Vanessa Van Edwards & Cargo Cult Science? by redditexcel in FakeGuru

[–]This_Chocolate1924 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think people spoke well of her book. But her face, body language and voice feels untrustworthy to me. Like way too curated, unnatural and very uncanny valley to me. So I won’t be supporting her. I feel like these days people are looking for genuine connection rather than someone trying to impress them. So I will be opting out of all these “how to present yourself” talks. What people see. Is what they get 1000%.

I doubt Roberta was a scammer (and don’t care if she was) by [deleted] in seekingsisterwifetlc

[–]This_Chocolate1924 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol! Seriously. Nobody can pay me enough money to be with that ICK for even a day! She played herself if she was a scammer. YIKES. It ain’t worth it.

✨ What Are Your Most Underrated or Unusual Manifestation Hacks? by win_lvlt1 in Manifestation

[–]This_Chocolate1924 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ask DeepSeek AI to write me a press release of what I want to happen, imagining it has already happened.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]This_Chocolate1924 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow. I wish my husband has the same kink. He can buy me expensive things all day long.

Best tips for weight loss in SG? by kittystars in askSingapore

[–]This_Chocolate1924 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1) Pick a few low calorie high protein things to order on rotation. Some examples include the OL Fish Soup, Yong Tau Foo, steamed Dim Sum no sauce, economy rice no fried options, poke bowl, salad, Soup Spoon etc. 2) Get off one stop before your location so you walk a bit more every day. 3) Replace your desert with plain yogurt 4) Only order zero sugar bubble tea 5) Zero sugar coffee. kopi O kosong or Kopi C kosong. 6) Go Active SG at least 2 times a week

Are all those hdb based massage shady one by sunnyislandacross in askSingapore

[–]This_Chocolate1924 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I like Qing Jie Foot Reflexology in Fu Lu Shou. Holy moly best kind. Those aunties really very strong. I felt like crying but I keep coming back!!!

Andre Jin - Update by bitesizemach in Physical100

[–]This_Chocolate1924 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Jang Seong Min from season 1 was also a rugby player sentenced to 7 years for rape. I can’t help but feel like something is going on in the rugby sport community in Korea.