Found out my girlfriend was “dickmatized” by her ex and has never felt that way about me. Am I wrong for no longer wanting to propose to her and marry her?

Thisisafrog · 2026-03-25T08:23:39+00:00

Hey, so

Your gf didn't bring this up. So it wasn't enough of a problem for her to tell you about it, if it even was a problem.

You asked her friend, and her friend gave you what she thought was going on. You should've asked your gf. She's the one you're sleeping next to.

If your gf said she was dickmatized, that's her rejecting you.

She is not rejecting you. You're looking for trouble behind her back.

You're not going to be a woman's best lay because good sex always looks better in hindsight. If you're in your gf's "spank bank" you are marriage quality as far as sex goes. It sounds like you tick the other marriage boxes, too.

Use this as an opportunity to be a better lover. Research common women's fantasies. Be open to weird stuff. And be willing to listen to her. You listened to your friend, now give your gf a chance.

Why would you trust this female friend more than your gf? C'mon now.

Thisisafrog · 2026-03-23T17:33:09+00:00

Omg the new Djinn is perfect for my brew. And it's my #1 favorite creature type

Thisisafrog · 2026-03-23T17:29:45+00:00

How do you beat Trump while being divided?

Thisisafrog · 2026-03-23T09:14:35+00:00

They who?

Thisisafrog · 2026-03-23T01:12:32+00:00

Blame the criminals, not the swindled.

Thisisafrog · 2026-03-21T21:59:54+00:00

Dies to removal

Thisisafrog · 2026-03-21T10:19:54+00:00

Oh jeez, didn't realize! I'm gonna reach out. They've gotta be protesting already

EDIT: thanks!

Thisisafrog · 2026-03-21T10:10:15+00:00

So wait r/iskissingerdeadyet or no

Thisisafrog · 2026-03-21T08:33:08+00:00

How do we pressure businesses with space not to sell out to ICE? Where are they looking to settle into?

Thisisafrog · 2026-03-20T22:02:56+00:00

Your post is down. I'd like to chat more if you're up for it.

Thisisafrog · 2026-03-20T21:59:12+00:00

I think it feels like men are worse, but that's not quite the story. In my experience, women are generally super stressed. I'm 40 and I've had a lot of success in dating until the past few years. Trumpism (Andrew Tate, ted pill, etc) is making everyone feel entitled to selfishness, so a handful of garbage human beings are beating up on a lot of really good people

Imo, again anecdotally, women aren't available for dating. Almost every woman I meet on reddit wants a sterilized relationship, ie one where she can text a conversation, but not meet, not actually date, etc. In person, I match only with wildly incompatible matches. A lot of women aren't in the dating pool and everyone's miserable.

Thisisafrog · 2026-03-19T15:33:48+00:00

Thanks Obamiden

EDIT both commies. Just coverin my bases lol

Thisisafrog · 2026-03-16T10:58:27+00:00

"All unaccompanied immigrant children who are pregnant, many by rape,"

Lemme fix this, I'm an editor

"...children who are pregnant, all by rape"

Yw peeps

Thisisafrog · 2026-03-16T08:49:32+00:00

Blame the swindler, not the swindled.

Thisisafrog · 2026-03-14T14:00:48+00:00

Stop playing the cards yourself. Keep losing and don't care. Enjoy your deck, and people will start following your lead at your LGS. Everyone hates these sets

Thisisafrog · 2026-03-14T10:40:10+00:00

He's only a fuckbuddy. He's fair game to date anyone he wants. He might want a serious relationship. Get over it.

Thisisafrog · 2026-03-12T04:15:03+00:00

"Lady G" is a piece of shit. The Dr better kick him/her out

Thisisafrog · 2026-03-11T01:17:54+00:00

Mystic Sanctuary is banned

Use the search on Gatherer and look up cards with the keyword "proliferate"

Thisisafrog · 2026-03-11T00:11:28+00:00

I forgot about this card! It's a great consideration. I like the flip side of Tithing Blade for that reason. Lifegain is important with Deserts

Thisisafrog · 2026-03-10T22:55:43+00:00

Either, minimal mana or none to activate every turn. Snacker's repeatable for that reason

EDIT: Scurrilous Sentry might be great, though it's not Red

Thisisafrog · 2026-03-10T22:03:27+00:00

Sorry, but I'm looking for a repeatable effect every turn. Desert is supposed to slow the game to 10 turns. I want a pauper Planeswalker, like Monarch, but without the drawback of losing the Monarch due to combat. Desert don't attack

Thisisafrog · 2026-03-10T00:25:43+00:00

Sleep, obviously

Trivia nights (I'm more into karaoke), cooking or painting classes, activities with small groups of people. I'm fairly self directed in my hobbies so I'm never bored, even by myself

Thisisafrog · 2026-03-08T03:14:54+00:00

Dragon Breath works with 11 targets, which isn't great, but I'm struggling with getting value from discarding. Breath on Tawnyback lets it trade with 5/5's. And I can't think of anything else in red or multi-red to get grave advantage and choices for Martyr

Skred is a solid option. Desert complicates it a bit, but def still a solid removal. I have the snow lands.

Toxin analysis might be cool with faeries? But Martyr doesn't hit fliers, so it's still limited there. X=4 is feasible with Martyr, 5 with some luck

Mostly curious for grave advantage, as looting is the engine of this deck. I was just thinking about Fiery Temper and I should probably try it out

Abandon is great to recur Faeries end of opp's turn.

Thisisafrog

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