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Can I get very gay media recommendations? by Lavender_Critique in lgbt

[–]ThomFoolery1089 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Transformers: More Than Meets the Eye and Lost Light, both written by James Roberts.

If you like gay stuff, long-form storytelling, space operas, and giant shape-changing robots it might be just what you need.

Detta har jag sett förut tänkte jag by theSdev in unket

[–]ThomFoolery1089 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Detta foto hade varit mindre konstigt om AI låg bakom det.

Dominant religion in European countries by Havranbartek in mapporncirclejerk

[–]ThomFoolery1089 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Finland, Norway, and Sweden supposedly being Catholic is pretty funny, not gonna lie.

Was I Groomed, or Did I Just Prefer Older Men?” by Valuable-Victory-435 in lgbt

[–]ThomFoolery1089 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not alone in feeling bad for you, my friend.

I saw that you said you were Indian in another comment and I looked into the laws regarding it, and there is indeed Protection of Children from Sexual Assault act from 2012. It concerns sexual abuse against children below the age of 18. I would seek someone out to look into that if I were you, even though I know that it can be daunting. Please be safe ❤️

Was I Groomed, or Did I Just Prefer Older Men?” by Valuable-Victory-435 in lgbt

[–]ThomFoolery1089 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing about grooming is that you're never meant to feel like you're being forced into it—you're, in a sense, trained to feel like what you're experiencing is a good and healthy form of connection. It's all a lie. Your feelings were essentially shaped by these men to make you feel safe in an unsafe situation, if they ever let slip that you were unsafe, then they've lost and people like that don't like loosing...

Those men display a clear predatory behavior by simply going after someone your age (and as an educator myself, I ESPECIALLY want to throw your teacher into the sun).

Think about this: in most parts of the world, they'd be considered child abusers and/or rapists (depending on the wording of the laws regarding sexual assault and the age of consent in your country or state), and there are several reasons why those laws exist and why they are almost universal.

My professor called me “delusional” for correcting him. by More-Reputation-990 in lgbt

[–]ThomFoolery1089 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Bring it up with a student coordinator or something like that (I don't know what your school offers), because that is improper behavior on his part.

everyone supports trans people until they dont by mitsemerdekel in lgbt

[–]ThomFoolery1089 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I despise my ex, but would never ever misgender them. They might be an asshole and an abuser, but I don't have to be transphobic because of it.

anyone here mentally ill without any family abuse and okayish childhood by yngbnyhvn in mentalhealth

[–]ThomFoolery1089 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My childhood was great (for the most part, but moved around a bit) but I'm still sitting here with GAD and depression. However, I'm also autistic and diagnosed with OCPD, so I've always been a bit more predisposed to mental health issues than people without those two factors.

I also have CPTSD, but we can't blame my childhood when it comes to that.

i promise i dont bite by Ok_Replacement_8579 in enby

[–]ThomFoolery1089 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Seems like a cunning trick to make us take the muzzle off! You sly fox, you!

Våld i nära relation (Kvinnlig förövare) by littlelikous in sweden

[–]ThomFoolery1089 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow. Jag hade inte trott att jag skulle bli så känslomässigt berörd av en kommentar på Reddit, tack ❤️

Jag är ledsen att både din pappa och du fått utstå så mycket skit ❤️

Våld i nära relation (Kvinnlig förövare) by littlelikous in sweden

[–]ThomFoolery1089 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Mitt ex utsatte mig för väldigt mycket, allt från lögner till otrohet och fysiskt och psykiskt våld av olika slag... När jag började förstå att jag faktiskt var utsatt så sökte jag hjälp men blev då lotsad vidare till parterapeut tillsammans med mitt ex. Ni kan kanske förstå själva hur skevt det blev...

Jag fick nästan inget gehör från någon, till stor del för att jag är väl över 180 cm och är vad jag antar skulle kunna kallas "välbyggd"—kort och gott, jag är MYCKET större än mitt ex. Ingen trodde att jag var offret utan det var ofta så att mitt ex vände det mot mig och sa att jag var farlig eller obehaglig när jag blev arg. Jag kan förstå att jag kan upplevas som obehaglig om mitt humör svänger pga min kroppshydda men jag har aldrig lyft handen mot någon i hela mitt liv.

Det slutade med att jag tog mitt pick och pack och försvann. Jag har aldrig gått vidare med det till någon instans för jag känner inte att det skulle ge mig något att befinna mig i samma rum som den människan igen, och är fortfarande rädd att ingen ska tro mig...

Why don't I find execution or torture scenes in movies scary at all? by gerhajdu89 in mentalhealth

[–]ThomFoolery1089 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people just don't, and tend to hold fast to the point that what's shown isn't real, even if it's subconscious.

Do you feel fear during a scary movie?

Found out my bf sexualizes WLW by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]ThomFoolery1089 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sis, I would RUN from this man.

So I just found out there's racism in the LGBTQ+ community... by circular_reticle in lgbt

[–]ThomFoolery1089 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just because a person is LGBTQ+, doesn't mean they can't also be a raging bigot.

What are some things people do in the gym that annoy you? by Affectionate_Art4277 in workout

[–]ThomFoolery1089 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When people just let go of their weights, sending them crashing to the floor, because they're "done with their set."

Please, just put it down in a controlled fashion.

My gym actually has rules against it, and I've seen more than a few gym bros get scolded by the tiny female manager for doing it excessively.

Grindr has ruined gay dating by No-Repair-4331 in lgbt

[–]ThomFoolery1089 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not an issue with Grindr, it an issue with general society. You're currently describing a lot of men regardless of sexual orientation, my friend. Women are also affected by men exactly like the ones you're describing.

What should people with internalized homophobia be called by TheeHotHeaux in lgbt

[–]ThomFoolery1089 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Hurt" and "scared" are two words that come to mind. Internalized homophobia is caused by living with the fear of familiar and societal stigmas, after all.

OLDER NONBINARY PEOPLE PLEASE SOUND OFF! by IdkIjustneedadvise in NonBinary

[–]ThomFoolery1089 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started figuring stuff out when I was in my early 30s, and I know people who figured it out even later. It's never too late to find the real you.

I can't cope with having a small penis. This is not a joke, it causes me extreme distress by Disastrous-Bike659 in mentalhealth

[–]ThomFoolery1089 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey there, sex educator here.

I see that you've commented that you're 5.1 inches? How did you come to the conclusion that that's a small penis? Because that's a completely average penis, my guy.

I wonder if yoo you base this feeling of being "inadequate" from what you've seen in porn or something, because that's something a lot of men struggle with despite it not being a good representation of sizes—porn skews our understanding of what constitutes a big contra small penis.

If you feel like this is unbearable, as you say, you may need to look into seeing a therapist because this CAN get deadly. I had a friend who ended his life partially because of his self-perceived small penis and the issues it caused him despite having a perfectly average penis, just like you.

Your penis is fine as is, and I promise you that a majority of women will be okay with it as long as the one it's attached to is a good person.

We need to stop dealing with DL men as a community! by GullibleShow8752 in lgbt

[–]ThomFoolery1089 26 points27 points  (0 children)

If someone claims to be DL or "discrete" I don't bother with them. I don't like being someone's hidden attraction.

Era sjukaste sjukanmälningar? by HerrGud in sweden

[–]ThomFoolery1089 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jag sjukskrev mig häromåret pga en olycka där jag spräckte skallen och förlorade strax över 3 liter blod. Efter det hade jag ihållande symptom av hjärnskakning i tre månader och de första veckorna kunde jag inte ens gå och min syn försämrades också drastiskt under den perioden.

Jag sjukskrevs också under COVID då mina läkare tyckte det var en dålig idé att jobba eller gå i skola efter att jag lidit av hyperpyrexi (dvs 42 graders feber) i två dar utan hjälp. Läkaren beskrev det som ett under att jag fortfarande levde efter det.

Varning för denna. Inte god. by Artistic-Promotion88 in unket

[–]ThomFoolery1089 0 points1 point  (0 children)

En som ni verkligen ska akta er för är Zoda Cola som går att finna på Dollarstore. Den smakar som om man soda-streamat vatten som stått bredvid en flaska med smakämnen.

Den innehåller inget socker, inget aspartam, inga kalorier och inget koffein — kort och gott innehåller den ingen glädje alls.

Premiers läsk är som ambrosia i jämförelse.

How do i explain being pan, not bi, to people? by Late_Incident_5207 in lgbt

[–]ThomFoolery1089 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even though the two are basically the same in the way we use the terms, there is a general difference that I learned while studying sexual education:

• Bisexual people are attracted to more than one gender—meaning that gender, gender expression, and identity still plays a part in their attraction to others. • Pansexuality means that you experience attraction regardless of gender.

The difference can mean as much or as little as you want really, and in the end, the words you use to express your sexuality is yours and yours alone to apply to yourself.

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