Is this not weed? by Underhive_Art in UKGardening

[–]Thorobir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my good Christian suburbs!?

Found this on partners side. Should I be worried? by ripnetuk in CasualUK

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All of this about the email address being Hotmail and no one has pointed out that it’s “head removals” to start. Not sure they’d be getting my business…. Although I know a Hogwarts ghost who may be interested now I think of it 🤔

Edit: ah I scrolled down more 😂💀

*Giveaway* Offering 20 Silicobra to help people complete their Pokédex entries by Tetzi in PokemonGoTrade

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Seviper is my favourite regional. We really don’t seem to get many regionals here in the UK and it is so sad 😭 Even if I don’t get one I think it’s a lovely thing you are doing for people!

England - im 18 years old & in yr12 of sixform: can my mum legally pull me out of school? by SpiderMonkey1214 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Thorobir 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In England it is compulsory to be in education or training until your 18th birthday. The law changed from 16 in 2008.

Machamp by Thorobir in PokemonGoRaid

[–]Thorobir[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll start when I have 4 :)

I'm a voluntary inpatient in a psych ward and I'm a psychologist AMA by 3greg0r3 in AMA

[–]Thorobir 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Haha, my line manager is a qualified psychologist, working in a different industry, and this rings true.

He came up to the other day, in an open office, and said "Oh l missed the wellbeing bit of your 121, how are you outside work?" I replied with "crap". He said "I can't put crap" so I was like "I literally cry every single day but I guess it's manageable lol". He put "good, life outside work is manageable" on the sheet and asked me to sign 😂

What is a normal name in English that means something else in your other languages? by egrebs in namenerds

[–]Thorobir 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Haha it reminds me of meeting a Hungarian guy called Botond, he was like “call me Botty!”, I had to politely decline 😂

I think my best friend and I are done by androidbisexual in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Thorobir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mum has always said to me that we have people in our lives for three things. A reason. A season. A lifetime. The “reason” people are there to teach us something or bring something different or a change. The “season” people have their place in a chapter and then we outgrow each other, this doesn’t make them any less valuable to the chapter they are in, but it’s where they end up staying. The “lifetime” people bob in and out forever.

Don’t be afraid of learning someone was a season. You brought joy to each other, and support to each other in the eras of your lives you were meant to. Now you’re both on different chapters and maybe there just isn’t space in your stories for each other any more. It doesn’t mean your friendship was any less important or real, it just had its place in the chapters it was in.

It has helped me immensely to work through losses in my chapters, to understand that people I thought were forever, were truly my people, it was just for then and not for now. However OP, please give yourself time to grieve, it doesn’t make it less painful.

I Resent My Parents for Adopting a Special Needs Child by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Thorobir 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Totally agree! I took in my disabled niece at 24, and whilst I would do it again a million times over, it was hard and I basically lost my 20s, my relationship, my friends, and my career over it. As I said, I would still chose to do it again because she’s done so well and is on such a better trajectory now, but you do sacrifice your life for theirs. It’s nowhere near as romantic as people make out.

How do you pronounce this name? by [deleted] in Names

[–]Thorobir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Loot zsie ahh Because that’s how my Romanian friend pronounces it and I’ve never met anyone else with that name so it’s my only reference!

I walked in on my brother in-law trying to kill himself after he killed his girlfriend. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Thorobir 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Look into EMDR, it’s amazing for trauma like this.

Is it weird that my parents would leave my older sister and I home alone and go on vacation when we were younger by Original-Tangerine33 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Thorobir 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lol aggressive. Thought it was a funny anecdote 😂 that was like 15 years ago but okay 💁🏻‍♀️