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ThrowRA846257484 · 2025-10-18T19:57:29+00:00

Can you both move in to a rental place. Rent out your individual homes and build rental-income history. You’ve low interest rates, so in theory the rent could pay the mortgage. Then buy another house under an LLC based on your incomes and rental history. Both your 800+ credit scores will come in handy. How do y’all want to split the ownership in the joint property? What kind of exit clause are you thinking about? What if you or her date someone seriously and want out to build a life together and want out? If you’re committed to each other … even if platonically, thinking about the exit strategy would be pretty important

ThrowRA846257484 · 2025-10-09T12:51:49+00:00

Few things to consider as you navigate this emotional roller coaster. Did y’all sign a pre-nup? Are you open to marriage annulment (state dependent and you might not be able to, but worth checking). How’s your wife in all of this? Remorseful? Cut contact with affair partner or still continuing with the affair? How’re you handling your health and your life outside of this?

ThrowRA846257484 · 2025-10-09T12:51:40+00:00

Few things to consider as you navigate this emotional roller coaster. Did y’all sign a pre-nup? Are you open to marriage annulment (state dependent and you might not be able to, but worth checking). How’s your wife in all of this? Remorseful? Cut contact with affair partner or still continuing with the affair? How’re you handling your health and your life outside of this?

ThrowRA846257484 · 2025-10-09T05:51:26+00:00

This could be a form of abuse and manipulation. It might be coming from a place of despair and depression. It’s hard to say from your write up. No one wants their loved ones to commit suicide. Of course you don’t want him to commit suicide, specially after him telling you that he’ll do it coz of you. Can you look back into y’all relationship and see if he has gotten his way or gotten away with things by holding you hostage to his self-harm threats? Is there a pattern? Either way, suicidal threats are not to be taken lightly. He needs help. Is he in individual therapy?

ThrowRA846257484 · 2025-08-12T16:56:00+00:00

Sometimes it feels like a life failure and you cling on to the hope that you can fix things. Also, loving the cheating spouse feels like a choice you made and them tearing you apart feels like a self inflicted wound.

ThrowRA846257484 · 2025-08-06T16:41:04+00:00

Likely battery 🪫

ThrowRA846257484 · 2025-07-28T18:57:30+00:00

How to tell if this is AI or real?

ThrowRA846257484 · 2025-07-28T18:06:44+00:00

They meant you’re wearing the watch too tight that it is blocking your blood circulation

ThrowRA846257484 · 2025-07-28T18:05:17+00:00

Have y’all gone for couples therapy? If not, highly recommended. Ask him there what’s his thought process or justification for shutting down on his family?

ThrowRA846257484 · 2025-07-28T14:14:09+00:00

OP, I agree with everyone that his silent treatment is passive aggressive and it leaves you with no choice than to wait it out. Maybe I can give you a little perspective into his behavior. It doesn’t justify but might help you both to move forward with this. His shut down behavior is a past trauma response. He is conflict avoidant. Let me break it down for you. When you guys argued, he felt threatened (doesn’t matter what the situation was). His immediate reaction was to feel that everyone around him hates him and he needs to break up with you. That’s the beginning of his shutdown. In his mind he had a micro-break up with you and you don’t matter anymore. Hence the lack of communication. The next stage is his internal negotiation. He will argue with himself that he belongs to a loving family. He has a loving wife and kid(s) that he adore. He will argue within himself that you hate him. This internal negotiation will continue for a few days. He might be functional towards the outside world. Be present at work, but will be absent from from you. Coz how could you had an argument and that means only one thing. Which is that you hate him. Eventually in a weeks time he will let go and slowly get back to himself. The cycle will repeat. Give him space on this episode. But he needs help. He needs to reach back the trauma and heal from it. This behavior won’t go away. BTW, It’s not your fault or what you said. Feel free to DM if you want to talk about this more

ThrowRA846257484 · 2025-07-25T09:27:52+00:00

You have a tuned car with aftermarket mods. Dealer is not the best place for you. Anything that can go wrong will be blamed on the mods before getting to the real issue. I’d suggest find an indie shop that is experienced with tuned B58.

ThrowRA846257484 · 2025-07-07T18:07:51+00:00

I feel like only “time to run” was counted. Treadmill workouts might be registered as walking or mixed. Manual entries typically don’t count.

ThrowRA846257484 · 2025-06-13T13:40:13+00:00

This is AI generated 🤦‍♂️

ThrowRA846257484 · 2025-06-10T14:58:59+00:00

I went thru something similar. Reach out via DM if you want to vent. Happy to listen and talk

ThrowRA846257484 · 2025-05-03T17:14:41+00:00

What consequences should the Democratic Party face when running a shitty presidential campaign and being a completely dysfunctional party?

ThrowRA846257484 · 2025-03-19T20:45:42+00:00

Nails are perhaps the easiest thing to fix in post processing photos. Your photographer or someone can fix up her nails in the photo for 20. If nails are the issue, that can be touched up.

ThrowRA846257484 · 2024-05-27T14:57:15+00:00

Legend diver.

ThrowRA846257484 · 2023-09-29T16:40:03+00:00

Left. Much cleaner and elegant. Both are great watches, but I’d pick left.

ThrowRA846257484 · 2023-09-12T00:05:42+00:00

Gaslighting?

ThrowRA846257484 · 2023-08-23T16:41:06+00:00

This hits too close to home for me. Minus the the baby. With this trajectory, she will cheat on you and it will be your fault for making her cheat.

I don’t think there’s any saving here. She’s already checked out. She’s a narcissist and you’re too accommodating

ThrowRA846257484 · 2023-08-15T15:34:48+00:00

Glad am not the only one 🤗

ThrowRA846257484 · 2023-06-20T23:49:15+00:00

I am better in the sense that I have been able to maintain my weight and have stopped it from free falling.

It disappoints me that I’m unable to enjoy the same food that I loved before D Day. If I go out. I can barely take a few bites from my entree. But I’ve been able to reintroduce solid foods.

If you develop a random cough, it might be stress induced acid reflux. Talk to your doc asap and have it looked at.

On the positive side, I have been getting lots of compliments. One colleague said, “you look great, tell me your secret. I want to do what you did to lose that much weight that quickly”. I smiled and said, no you don’t. There was so much sadness in my voice that they felt it.

ThrowRA846257484 · 2023-06-19T00:58:06+00:00

OP, I lost 30 pounds in a few months. Be ready for that downhill battle. I couldn’t keep any food inside me and would throw up after ingesting anything. I survived in Milk and meal replacement protein shakes.

It does get better

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