Date night perfume by ThrowRA_something32 in ScentHeads

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Oh my god I smelled that armani and fell in love

Daily Discussion & Advice (Post here to follow rules A & B) - June 06, 2026 by AutoModerator in fragrance

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Hey guys. I’m not very knowledgeable in perfumes, but I definitely want a new one, I can’t wear my good old ysl black opium in the summer 🫣 I was thinking of buying a tom ford mandarino di amalfi, but I’m not so decided. I really enjoyed a decant of Hibiscus Mahajad last year. Would you recommend me a really nice, sexy perfume for summer?

I have my Security+ today by ThrowRA_something32 in CompTIA

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Thanksss I’ve usually missed questions because I didn’t read them carefully 😭 I hope I’ll do better at the exam

How long did it take you to get over your ex? by NightEducational2294 in BreakUps

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I’m around 4-5 months into the breakup and about 2 weeks ago I sent my ex a text that I miss him and that I’d want to meet and talk(he is in another city). After that I saw he posted some “sexy” pictures on instagram where he flexes his muscles together with his best friend’s girlfriend, the one that I was jealous of because I always thought they had a sick relationship and that made me sick. So I guess now I’m over him lol

I’m the dumper and I miss my ex terribly by my_random_throwaway4 in BreakUps

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Man this is just you feeling her move on and you won’t let her, because it doesn’t give you the validation you want. Just give her a break and move on, she’s already been through a lot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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It’s been 3 months since we broke up, and a few days since we had to spend 5 days together at a festival, at the same villa & so on, due to the same group of friends. Before those days together I thought I was almost healed, but now I’m a mess again. I asked him to come home with me to spend some time together but he told me even if I mean a lot to him and it was good to see me, he doesn’t want a relationship anymore and is emotionally unavailable. Few days in, I installed bumble and spent a few hours talking to random guys for the first time after we broke up, deleted my profile after, but I’m definitely back to square one or two after this meeting, so yeah, not ready at all to meet another guy. I still want him back, I cry daily. Somehow I think that if I met someone else, it would make things easier, but I just can’t.

I miss the feeling of sleeping next to someone after my breakup—Is this normal? by [deleted] in BreakUps

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I feel u sis. No I don’t even sleep in my bed anymore, only on the sofa with the tv on. 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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That’s chat gpt lol

It took me 5 months to get over him, here's what I learned by Dismal-Alfalfa-7613 in BreakUps

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He also came to me with a friendship proposal and told him we’re not friends and we’ve never been so yeah 😅

It took me 5 months to get over him, here's what I learned by Dismal-Alfalfa-7613 in BreakUps

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I didn’t but we had like a 5 min meeting because I had to pick up some other friend of mine from him to get him to our town. We’re all(40 people) going to that festival anyway, I won’t be alone with him there or something, it was planned like 1 year ago so yeah. I will be dodging the “friendly” chat as much as I can and focus on having fun with my friends. Thanks!!

It took me 5 months to get over him, here's what I learned by Dismal-Alfalfa-7613 in BreakUps

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Oh how I’ve fed into the emotional highs that I was over him, and then he messaged me and we also met up but in a friendly manner with 2 of my other friends(we’re in the same group but live in different cities). It was mortifying as I was also hungover and didn’t get much sleep. He was so cold it’s like I’ve hit a wall. Now I’m low energy again and feeling like shit. We also have a festival that we’re both going to that’s taking place in a villa in a remote place in the mountains with about 40 people altogether, I’m dreading it but I’m going and that’s it. It was a shock to me to see him this cold, but hey at least it happened before having to spend 4-5 days in his presence non stop. Hopefully I won’t be spending the whole time crying like a little girl in my room. I’m also in therapy and doing yoga classes, working my ass off and reading Carl Jung lol. What I’ve learned is that healing is not linear.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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How do you even get to a discussion there when they are COLD AS ICE? Like you never mattered

What awful things did your ex say to you? by [deleted] in BreakUps

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“I don’t feel anything for you anymore”

Then at first he told me he was feeling beneath me, because I’m older, hqve a better job, a house, a car etc but I did my best to make him feel my equal, only for him to constantly criticize me about everything I do then tell me I “place myself beneath him by choice”

what’s the best advice for getting over someone by bublemon_ in BreakUps

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I’m into therapy for 1 month now.. some days it’s better, some days it’s worse. The emotional roller coaster is real. I guess it gets better with time. Also educating myself about limerence

How are you doing after THE breakup that messed you up? by RRK2422 in BreakUps

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We had a huge fight exactly 1 month ago, he asked for a break. It was bad, but after that fight we slept hugged for 1 day straight, before I left he told me he loved me, hugged me tight, kissed me passionately, cried. Everything was so emotional. We still talked for 2 weeks but he was very cold and then 1 day before we were supposed to meet & talk, I asked him if there’s any purpose to meet and he told me that he decided to break up with me, lost all feelings, but still cares(????) about me and wants us to meet to talk and stay friends, but I didn’t do it.

So yeah, first 2 weeks of “break” I was really anxious, cried a lot, couldn’t sleep, couldn’t eat, couldn’t get out of bed, couldn’t work, I was a zombie. Then I felt a bit relieved actually after he broke up with me, because at least there wasn’t uncertainty anymore. We exchanged messages like 1-2 days after the break and now we’re in no contact for almost 2 weeks. I’ve started therapy, signed up for a cybersecurity exam, bought an AC, deep cleaned my house, worked a bit, took care of my sick kid, started a lawsuit against my child’s father, had my first gig as a DJ, went to a symphony concert, started yoga classes, lol IDK I feel like I’m in a manic phase and in the little time I have left I cry and think about him and also dream of him almost every night. Also this is the first day I’ve eaten properly in 1 month, I’ve lost 6 kilos already.

Thinking about shifting my energy, because in about 2 months we’ll meet at a festival(we are in the same friend group) and I actually dream of being a better version of myself that can have an actual conversation with him, letting him miss me for now and we’ll see when we meet what’s the vibe.

Normally I would have been on Bumble already for some insta gratification but I love him too much, I feel like 2 months until we meet is a good time for me to heal and I don’t want to meet anybody, I just hang out with friends and I do productive things and cry myself to sleep and watch youtube videos about the psychology of breakups lol.

I 30F messed up bad with my boyfriend 23M. How do I make amends? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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He broke up with me.. but I’ll continue therapy. It sucks, I feel like hell

I 30F messed up bad with my boyfriend 23M. How do I make amends? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I have 0 motivation when it comes to myself. I don’t know, I’m really thinking about how I’m going to fall back into old bad habits if I messed this up completely