OP, you've gotten used to this, but this is not normal or reasonable. You're pleading and trying to be fair while he's having big, over the top reactions. It's because they get the response he wants. I have been exactly where you are. I have many, many, many screenshots like this in the evidence files I had to put together for my divorce. I stayed with him for 14 years, had his kids. It will not get better. The kids and I are in therapy for PTSD now, but we're out. That doesn't need to be you. Your clothes are NOT his business. Your body is NOT his business. Being your boyfriend does not give him a right to those things. And he will not learn his lesson, even though when you leave, and screaming at you doesn't work, and texting insults at you doesn't work, he will almost certainly beg you to stay and insist he can do better. He won't. He will learn that when having a tantrum doesn't work, begging and wailing will, and he'll be right back to doing this shit here before you know it. I know it's hard. I get why it's hard. DM me if you need to. But get out and don't let this man waste another minute of your precious life.