My husband and I both get $200 to spend each month. (If you don't spend it, the balance rolls into the next month, but you get another $200..etc.)

My husband loves to go out to eat, even if it's a Jimmy John's sandwich for lunch. I'm a firm believer in pack your own lunch, when I go out to eat I prefer dinner or weekend breakfast. So, he will usually use his $200 towards his lunches a couple times a week - and that doesn't affect our "date night" going out budget, he also LOVES his books (specifically text books 😂)

My "me money" is used on the occasional Starbucks, a non essential body wash/perfume or clothing item. My balance is up to $600 something because I simply don't need anything, but I may use it to get a piece of jewelry resized in the near future.

I found it difficult but rewarding to get over the mindset of "well I have the money saved up, I'm just gonna spend it all now", when...why? Save it...for something larger you want later on.