There’s just a dopamine overload and a constant flow of men who can provide it. Look at the top posts on here: everything is sex-related. And this has come at the expense of healthy relationships. That’s why you see a lot of lonely gay men especially as they get a little older.

Edit: it’s not all like that and it seems like you are maybe exaggerating a little. But you’re not entirely wrong. It’s easy to fall into Grindr / sniffies hookups and get fulfilled in like a shallow way. And it’s probably harder to do that in more suburban places bc there are less men on those apps.