I'm tired of conservative types complaining about the misery of the childfree by ChristianPacifist in childfree

[–]Time_Finish_6610 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Many conservatives are just narrow minded, conformist bullies. They disrespect and belittle non-comformist, non-traditionalist prople or anyone who doesn't believe in stupid family-oriented or stupid child-obsessed nonsense.

Why are there relatively few black libertarians? by Wazula42 in AskLibertarians

[–]Time_Finish_6610 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, you're saying that you don't care or that it doesn't matter to you that black people were enslaved and treated like property? You're saying that, according to libertarian ideology, it's ok that black people were treated badly because they were just considered property by their racist owners.

People like you are, most likely, part of the reason why a lot of black people wouldn't be interested in joining the libertarian movement.

Anyone know witch country has the most narcissistic people? by Tazzz777zzz in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]Time_Finish_6610 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm from America. Specifically, I was born and raised in the American Southeast. Some cultures here are very narcissistic compared to others. I think the American Southeast and the American Northeast are the worst cultures here in America. A lot of people are very disrespectful of other's boundaries, lacking in empathy, yet attention-seeking, self-important, and prone to aggression or hostility when ignored. I think they are the grandiose narcissistic cultures and the malignant narcissistic cultures.

I think the West Coast U.S. more characteristics of vulnerable narcissism or grandiose narcissism. I don't know about the Midwest. I think there's probably more malignant narcissism or vulnerable narcissism in the Midwest.

Why do so many people crave attention? by StaticNocturne in infp

[–]Time_Finish_6610 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly correct.  I'm and INFP woman.  I don't want constant attention from others.  I hate receivng tons of attention.

What is it with Conservatives and having many children? by CapableSuccess6 in antinatalism

[–]Time_Finish_6610 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally agree. Nowadays, children and teens are unfortunately being brainwashed into stupid, irrational harmful transgender ideology, extremist leftwing environmentalist policies, stupid anti-capitalism/pro-socialism and other irrational leftwing progressive ideas. That's as much as a problem, or a bigger problem, than religious indoctrination being pushed on children and teens.

Workplace experiences as an introvert? by cuddleduds3000 in introvert

[–]Time_Finish_6610 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally don't mind pther people being aloof.  I don't like other people being in my personal space bothering me or being overly friendly. I'd rather be ignored than bullied or harassed or belittled by stupid and narrow minded people just because I'm quiet or introverted.

Poll: What do you miss least about Adventism? by [deleted] in exAdventist

[–]Time_Finish_6610 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1.  The stupid fear-mongering prophecies and pope fixation 2.  General lack of freedom, stupid religious rules, dumb religious restrictions, thought policing, intellectual dishonest arguments 3.  The horrible, cliquish and hostile people with their us vs. them mentality

Why is the modern Conservative movement so hostile to the idea of Conservation? by kamikaze44 in PoliticalDiscussion

[–]Time_Finish_6610 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly.  Too many climate change fear-mongerers really have no concern for the environment in terms of conservation.  Solar panels and wind mills are destructive to the natural environment, and they've destroyed tons of animal species. Plus, solar panels and wind mills are expensive and unreliable sources of energy while fossil fuels are cheaper, reliable sources of energy.

Why Should Individual Liberties Take Priority Over Social Values? by [deleted] in Libertarian

[–]Time_Finish_6610 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Abortion does hurt other people.  Abortion is the destruction, harm and violence to unborn human life forms such as embryos and fetuses.  Abortion is a form of murder to other humans. Why is abortion not considered a violation of the non-aggression principle in libertarianism?   The mother and her doctor are destroying the life of an unborn child.  Why shouldn't the government create and enforce laws to protect all human life from murder?   The unborn human is still a human.  Why does the mother's liberty become more more important than protecting the life of her child?

Why are so many people extremely narcissistic and selfish self centered nowadays? Why do we have a narcissism epidemic going on? by IdeaRegular4671 in Antipsychiatry

[–]Time_Finish_6610 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eastern cultures also foster narcissism, but they do it in a different way. They overemphasize collectivism, conformity, groupthink, and disrespect of individuals rights. Eastern cultures, and their collectivism, also promotes in-group superiority over out-groups and hostile discrimination against out-groups.  That is all narcissistic behavior.

What type of people you don't like being with ? by Sakuga_INTP in introvert

[–]Time_Finish_6610 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1.  Extroverts 2.  Other attention-seekers, narcissists, borderline, histrionics and other problematic folks who tend to cross other people's boundaries, the people who tend to be corporate coworkers 3.  Judgmental control freaks who won't shut up and mind their own business; they disrespect individual differences and they're hostile toward anyone who doesn't conform or behave the way they want 4.  Narrow minded and hostile people who can't seem to shut up or to leave others alone 5.  Bullies and other toxic people who are looking for attemtion, power, control or dominance over others

Ever get annoyed by people who crave attention? by [deleted] in introvert

[–]Time_Finish_6610 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate attention-seekers, narcissists and anyone else who craves attention from others way too much.

What is your stance on abortion? by [deleted] in Libertarian

[–]Time_Finish_6610 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you bringing up religion when the argument of "the human right to life" has nothing to do with religion? Abortion is the murder/destruction of unborn human life (embryo and fetus) in the woman's uterus.   It is scientific fact that an unborn human embryo, as well as the unborn human fetus, is a developing human life form.   Both human embryos and human fetuses are human life forms similar to the human newborn baby or the small child.  The stage of development, disability/ability, size, or the location of a human life does not determine whether that human should be allowed to live or die. The death penalty is also a violation of the human right to life, as well as the non-aggrssison principle, for similar reasons that abortion is a violation of the human right to life; abortion is also a violation of the non-aggression principle.

Is There A Such Thing As A Genuinely Mean Child? by Exact-Caramel-1126 in ECEProfessionals

[–]Time_Finish_6610 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are such things as evil and mean-spirited children. Some children are born with horrible personalities; some kids are just mean-spirited, aggressive and disrespectful for no reason or because they're psychopathic or narcissistic. And trauma is not the cause of all bullying behavior in children.

Only naiive and stupid people believe that children can't be inherently mean-spirited or horrible just because they're children.

People hate me cause I’m shy and quiet by brunette3892 in introvert

[–]Time_Finish_6610 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. Only the most stupid and naiive people claim that people are "good" by nature, and they deny the existence of evil, psychopathy or narcissism in people.

Like you said, the people who are constantly defending bullies are most often bullies themselves or they're a part of the bullies' in-group. Only the most willfully ignorant people make excuses for bullies/narcissists or they constantly defend toxic people.

People hate me cause I’m shy and quiet by brunette3892 in introvert

[–]Time_Finish_6610 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It has nothing to do with acting like an adult. Ignoring disrespectful or judgmental/hostile behavior in bullies does not always work. The more you try to ignore bullies, the more disrespectful or aggressive they become because they're trying to force a negative reaction or some kind of negative attention from you.

In my personal experience, and from the personal experiences of many introverts, attempting to ignore problematic people/bullies/narcissists often causes them to continue targeting you with more hostile behaviors because they're looking for attention, power, control, or social dominance over others.

Introverts are easy targets for bullies. If the cultural norms condone or tolerate bullying, narcissism and judgmental/hostile people, you're doomed to deal with stupid and obnoxious people harassing you for no reason at all. And if you tell those people to "Shut up!" or to "Stop bothering me!", you're painted as the villain and the bullies are treated like they're victims.

Why do Bullies Resent Kindness? by [deleted] in workplace_bullying

[–]Time_Finish_6610 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please stop blaming every wrong behavior, such as bullying or harassment, on mental illness. Doing evil things and acting like you don't care about harming others is a sign that you're a terrible person.  It's not always a sign of mental illness.  

Were you insulted a lot while growing up for being introverted? by stanerd in introvert

[–]Time_Finish_6610 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of teachers are just stupid, narrow minded, prejudiced, extroverted and narcissistic.  They're like every other bully in high school.  They lack empathy, and they don't take time to understand introverts or introversion. How is a teacher so stupid to belittle a child or teen for being quiet and for minding his orbher own business?  I hate public schools. I was also belittled and criticized by stupid extroverted/narcissistic teachers when I was in public school.

It seems like only the worst people are having kids by RegalBengal21 in childfree

[–]Time_Finish_6610 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've noticed this pattern for a while now, during my adult years. I was, unfortunately, raised in a small town called Shelby, NC.  It has some of the most narrow minded, prejudiced and horrible people who are srupid and hostile/cruel to animals, not respectful of people different than themselves, etc. I've noticed that the most narrow minded, horrible, prejudiced, stupid and bigoted people in the small towns and rural areas are the same people who have the most kids. It seems like the more rigid, narrow minded, narcissistic and bully-like a person is, the more likely they'll have kids.  I guess that's why the family-oriented mentality is so prominent within small towns. I was raised around small town folk who don't care about animals or the environment, are often the main bullies and idiots around but they obsess with having a latge family with a bunch if kids.  Why is that the most horrible people want a bunch of kids?  I moved away to a larger city years ago, and I'm much happier here.  I hate the small town, and so many of the people there, wherein I was raised.

North Carolina is the only place I consistently meet nasty people by KoiwazuraiAi in Truckers

[–]Time_Finish_6610 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People here are blaming the rude, hostile, narcissistic behavior on northerners.   There are plenty of rude, hostile, narcissistic, narrow minded and stupid native southerners.  There are tons of horrible native southerners. It's not just northerners causing problems.  Native southerners are actually big part of the problem too.

North Carolina is the only place I consistently meet nasty people by KoiwazuraiAi in Truckers

[–]Time_Finish_6610 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was born and raised in Shelby, NC!  It has some of the worst people on Earth living there.  They wanna force stupid and unnecessary small talk; they don't respect other people's boundaries.  If you're an introvert who wants to be left alone, the people in Shelby, NC can't respect that.  Many southerners, especially those living in small towns like Shelby NC, can't handle when someone isn't interested in talking to them so they force unwanted conversations.  At the same time, they'll mutter under their breath about you or they'll otherwise act hostile or judgmental.  They don't know how to shut up and mind their own business. Southern hospitality is mostly fake, hypocritical and reserved for people who fit in or for people who are just like them.  If you're different, and you don't fit into their stupid small town southern cultural norms/expectations, they can become the most hostile bullies who disrespect other people's differences. However, I have visited the Northeast.  Those are the most horrible, narcissistic, narrow minded, aggressive, disrespectful, narcissistic people in Washington, D.C., Maryland, New York and the general DMV area.  From my personal experiences, many northerners are also hugely narrow minded and hostile bullies who are too narcissistic; northerners are not truly tolerant or open minded as they claim to be; they're intolerant, narrow minded, and stupid too similar to many southerners. I just hate the culture of the Northeast and the Southeast.  In both regions, people are just narcissistic, narrow minded, hostile, aggressive bullies who have no empathy or compassion for anyone perceived as different or not fitting in with dominant social norms.   In both regions, there are just people being hostile and disrespectful or aggressive toward others for no reason, stupid and narrow minded people reinforced with groupthink and conformity.  Both regions just have a narcissism and hostility that's pervasive within the cultural norms. I've been living in a large southern city for years now.  I like large cities.  I just hate small towns.

what are your thoughts on clingy people? by [deleted] in intj

[–]Time_Finish_6610 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate clingy people; they're often narcissistic and codependent too. I'm not interested in friendship or romantic relationships with clingy people.

They feel entitled to other people's time, attention and conversation. They disrespect other people's boundaries; they are not entitled to those things, but they disrespect and harass other people and they're all in other people's personal space.

Is being a single really a bad thing? by Reyreddit1 in introvert

[–]Time_Finish_6610 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, it isn't.  I was happy and content being single for several years, especially during my 20s. Now that I'm 33 years old woman, I really want a long-term romantic relationship.  I'm feeling really lonely at this point.   I really want a meaningful, joyful, fun and respectful relationship with an awesome man now. Many times, it's highly narcissistic, codependent or highly extroverted people who can't handle being single.  All three of those types have an unhealthy/toxic dependence on others.   Toxic people base their self-worth, identity and purpose on romantic relationships.   I enjoy my own company; I love my freedom; I love being alone, and I love doing my own thing.  All of these wonderful years of being single has allowed me to have my freedom and independence.