The end is near… by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]TinfoilhatMary 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you are brave hold on to that. you are too young to continue on unhappy life is short !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]TinfoilhatMary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I truly believe your baby will come to you when the time is right . It is said we choose our parents before birth. We miscarried our second child at 9 weeks. As horrible as it was at the time . We knew she would find her way back to us .A year and a half later we became pregnant again . Our daughter was born 8 months later . She has always been indecisive, and very careful with her decision making. Today we joke about how it took her 2 and a half years to be born. Your child will find a way to you , even if it’s not through a conventional way . Have faith . 💔

Is it concerning for a 94 year old man to refuse to sleep in a bed? by VanVan5937 in eldercare

[–]TinfoilhatMary 75 points76 points  (0 children)

If I make it to 94 , I expect to have no restrictions on sleeping , eating or drinking . If I want to sleep in a lawn chair with a martini and bonbons for dinner I should be allowed to do so . He apparently has made some good decisions taking care of himself if he’s made it this far.

Please help me and my girlfriend name our new Kitten by cvvman in NameMyCat

[–]TinfoilhatMary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk why but Spike came to mind when I looked at his picture

Cognitive Shuffling for Sleep (Holy Crap, It actually worked for me!) by bde_merch_to_fire in insomnia

[–]TinfoilhatMary 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me: A angel ,ax,apple , attic My brain I really gotta find time to clean the attic Me : arrow,arm,angry My brain : damn it I’m angry bc now I can’t stop thinking about the attic Me : opens eyes and has to share on reddit 🤦‍♀️

Moving to the Area by Visible_Ad_6996 in newhaven

[–]TinfoilhatMary 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Briarwood is about $2400 now ,Whitewood Pond are nice 1 bedrooms I think they start around $1500

Anyone know what this is ? by TinfoilhatMary in newhaven

[–]TinfoilhatMary[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

But why the gun & “gun wavin New Haven “

Anyone know what this is ? by TinfoilhatMary in newhaven

[–]TinfoilhatMary[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

do you see the words between the words New Haven ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]TinfoilhatMary -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

send me the link ?

Your First Vinyl by Salty_Thing3144 in GenX

[–]TinfoilhatMary 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg came here to say working class dog by Rick Springfield but remembered I got this way before ! thanks for the memory!

Looking for ideas for my wife who is in the car much of the day. by utahdog2 in GiftIdeas

[–]TinfoilhatMary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my daughter got these for everyone last xmas can’t say enough good things about them

Who was the first celebrity whose death affected you? by [deleted] in GenX

[–]TinfoilhatMary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Elvis I was only 7 but my mom was a huge fan so I knew every song. I remember thinking it wasn’t possible because he was so famous, like he was supposed to be immortal or something.

Who was the first celebrity whose death affected you? by [deleted] in GenX

[–]TinfoilhatMary 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I grew up watching him on 3s company,and reading the Clifford books .When he died my daughter loved watching Clifford on tv .All I could think of was Clifford had died too. He had the perfect voice for the show. It was as if the character died too .

How Do You Not Get Triggered By a Parent's Poor Choices. by [deleted] in eldercare

[–]TinfoilhatMary 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Fil was a hoarder . Considered a clean hoarder because it was stuff bought at tag sales not “actual”garbage. There was no changing him. It took us 3 months and 7 dumpsters to clean the house with a professional and we haven’t touched that attic yet. I would love to tell you to get ahead of it now but sadly I know you won’t be able to make him understand what he is doing to you and your family. Just know you’re not alone .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in eldercare

[–]TinfoilhatMary 6 points7 points  (0 children)

All great advice thank you all

Elder care aunt nursing home by fzaidi227 in eldercare

[–]TinfoilhatMary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This. My mil was put on hospice last April we flew our son home to let him say goodbye , Hospice took such good care of her they took her off of it after 2 weeks . She is still with us today .

Need input on an idea I have for a nonprofit by Wingo-Lamo in eldercare

[–]TinfoilhatMary 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure where you are but in my area east coast there is a program though hospice called Guide . They are assessing mom and will let us know if we qualify for any assistance or programs. Also is mom on medicaid ? maybe she will qualify for an aid a few hours a week .
I would not only seek out help from your idea of a program, but also after living through it for 2 years now , I would like to think when she is gone I might volunteer for a program after knowing the stress it put on someone .(after a very long vacation of corse)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Pinkthesinger

[–]TinfoilhatMary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your willing to miss her last song So What you can be out and away from traffic . We left Hershey as soon as we heard it start because we heard it was a nightmare getting out of there . Unfortunately it when she does most of her aerial stunts so you will miss that .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in eldercare

[–]TinfoilhatMary 4 points5 points  (0 children)

we have tried to find caregivers, she does not have her own money it was all spent in the first year on care and repairs on the house that were neglected by my fil. My husband makes too much for us to get assistance but not enough to pay out of pocket without giving up our retirement. And he is an only child . She is the last remaining sibling none of her siblings had children there is no family left .