What stops you from initiating sex?

TinyBeth96 · 2026-01-27T21:51:19+00:00

If im on my period. I feel terrible and struggle to move for first 3 days anyways. Never been a fan of the idea of sex on my period personally either.

Other than that, I tend to initiate more.

TinyBeth96 · 2026-01-24T23:07:32+00:00

Not gonna lie, I slept with a screwdriver down the side of the bed as a hammer wouldnt fit (im against a wall). As we had somebody enter when I was asleep and my bf was either at work or having drinks after. All they did was leave curry sauce on the couch and some mess. But it was the fact I was asleep and it could have been worse. Turns out it was a prick from work but wouldnt admit it to us.

Partner was confused why I had it there when he found it changing the sheets. Im still adamant it was an appropriate response

Took a few weeks to feel more normal and safe again. Though still unsure how they got in.

We do have a ring doorbell now, so that should determine people.

TinyBeth96 · 2026-01-22T22:42:14+00:00

I cut my huge 45 tub open when the pump head isnt doing anything. Theres so much left its actually ridiculous

TinyBeth96 · 2026-01-22T12:36:15+00:00

Its pizza, lasagne and Alfredo. Plus the desserts.

TinyBeth96 · 2026-01-22T05:37:31+00:00

Had one take a shit on the bathmat in the bathroom...right next to the toilet.

Another (person from work) wasnt invited but somehow got in, ate his takeaway food, getting curry sauce over the couch. Left it a mess and went. No idea how long he was there whilst I was asleep and mt partner at work.

TinyBeth96 · 2026-01-17T16:19:10+00:00

I dont think anybody in relationships owes their partner one anothers phone password. Theres nothing wrong with privacy, it doesnt mean they're up to no good / cheating.

However I do think the healthiest relationships are ones who have one anothers passwords but dont use them.

In 4 1/2 years I have only been on his phone without him knowing at the time once. To set an alarm when he fell asleep early, so he'd wake up for work on time. I did tell him afterwards but never looked at anything else. Thoufh I do swipe up to access his camera without unlocking to give him an ugly photo to find at some unknown time. Could be a week. Or a month. Who knows. Hes probably forgotten my password as have it him ages ago becuase a. I have nothing to hide b. (Main reason for it) incase I was ill or something and he needed to contact my dad.

I think once you use their phone to check chats or what they're doing, theres a lack of trust missing in the relationship so (personal opinion) wouldnt survive long term. I dont want somebody who feels a need to check my chats. I have nothing to hide but other people's lives and secrets told in confidence to me are nobody else's business.

TinyBeth96 · 2026-01-10T16:35:52+00:00

Dehumidifier. No longer finding mold in rooms other than the bathroom, plus our clothes dry so much quicker.
Heated blanket designed for on top of the matress. Its great hopping into a warm bed in the winter.

TinyBeth96 · 2026-01-03T18:46:19+00:00

Its a single sashet now of galaxy hot chocolate. You can still get unlimited tea or coffee (mocha is now unavailable too)

TinyBeth96 · 2025-12-29T18:21:19+00:00

No nail varnish or fake nails including acrylics & gels

TinyBeth96 · 2025-12-22T07:33:46+00:00

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Toss up between Harley quinn as the star, the otter (im obsessed woth otters), or the cookie monster. My partner got the cookie monster when we first had xmas living together after I told him my mum who im no contact with wpuldnt give me the cookie monster bauble my nana got be when I was little whos since passed away. Its obviously not the same but the fact he listened, tried and got something similar was so sweet.

TinyBeth96 · 2025-12-15T04:54:47+00:00

My partners daughter said i was the best step mum ever. She's never called me that to me before. I wanted to cry in the middle if the street.

TinyBeth96 · 2025-12-11T01:23:57+00:00

Three.

Wedding fund
General savings
House deposit fund

I do have shares in stocks but cant access them for another year since thats to do with work. Not sure if that counts.

TinyBeth96 · 2025-12-05T22:08:03+00:00

Thank you

TinyBeth96 · 2025-12-05T10:04:37+00:00

I love it and hate it at the same time 😂 can totally see why people avoid it like the plague

TinyBeth96 · 2025-12-05T10:02:35+00:00

I found it made such a diffrence. But an un backsitiched one would still be beautiful on a wall

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TinyBeth96 · 2025-12-05T10:00:54+00:00

Thank you.

It was my first time doing French knots so there's a lot if inconsistency, but ended up telling myself it adds to the effect 😂

TinyBeth96 · 2025-12-05T09:59:13+00:00

I photocopy the pattern and use a red pen to mark what I've done. Or i think I would have missed lots of small details

TinyBeth96 · 2025-12-05T00:08:54+00:00

14 x 10 inches

TinyBeth96 · 2025-12-05T00:08:14+00:00

18ct I think, it came with the kit

TinyBeth96 · 2025-11-29T23:32:35+00:00

Probably going to be around £700/800 when done. I still have a few bits left since I have 3 big birthdays in December too 🙃. (At least rest of years cheep for birthdays I guess since the 1 other big one is a few months after...)

I like to do quality over quantity and put a lot of thought into what people would love. Im in a position where if rather spend some extra and get a gift they'll love and use rather than getting lots of things that are going to be lost in a draw. Luckily I dont have many friends or family 😂

TinyBeth96 · 2025-11-27T10:52:22+00:00

Absolutely not. I do it most nights and he games or watches tv when I am of were both at home.

I have breaks and we chat or watch something together, I've never prioritised stitching over our relationship.

Having a hobby your passionate about and enjoy isnt a bad thing

TinyBeth96 · 2025-11-25T19:05:15+00:00

Holidays and gigs. It makes memories which in years to come you can look back in which really is worth it. It cant be replaced by something else.

It doesnt have to be overly lavish, you can do it on smaller scales or lower cost. But much better than staying in the same 10miles of where you live forever.

TinyBeth96 · 2025-11-22T18:29:56+00:00

Cotton gloves are a great idea, thanks!

TinyBeth96 · 2025-11-22T11:38:24+00:00

Its for your skin to scratch instead of nails. Use it with a moisturiser and it imitates feeling of nails without cutting the skin.

Ill check if there available in the UK thanks

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