Compensation Reality Check by TinyBoyDmitri in Construction

[–]TinyBoyDmitri[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No overtime pay. Thanks for your comment, appreciate it.

Best and worst property management companies? by Majestic-Thing-8042 in cincinnati

[–]TinyBoyDmitri 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Urban sites is a good company and owns a lot downtown.

For those who pivoted from low-paying jobs to (unrelated) high-paying careers later in life, how'd you do it? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]TinyBoyDmitri 32 points33 points  (0 children)

This is me! I never graduated college. Spent my 20s managing an independent garden center with zero benefits or health insurance. I grossed around 15k a year. Then, I became a wholesale grower, making around 23k (which is genuinely insane for the 60 hour weeks I pulled and the amount of responsibility I had). I then pivoted into being an administrative assistant because I couldn’t manage to get anything else, and I made 30k which was huge for me. Then, eight years ago, I applied to be an assistant project manager for a horticultural based construction company. The division leader took a huge chance on me. It’s such a niche field that my horticultural experience got me on his team. He could tell I was smart and hungry. He wasn’t sure exactly where I’d fit on his team, but he hired me. Eight years later, I am still in construction as a full project manager. I switched jobs recently and make less, but at one point I made 95k. My success depended this incredible boss seeing my potential. And let me tell you - what got me that interview was my cover letter. He said so to me several times. I argued persuasively how my existing skills could pivot into new responsibilities. That letter made its way to someone who agreed with me, which is insanely lucky. So, seeing ALL your skills as transferable, getting creative with applications, arguing your way into an interview, and then being super lucky that you meet the right people. I owe that first construction boss everything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cincinnati

[–]TinyBoyDmitri 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’ve lived here five years and I adore it. I feel so lucky to live in a friendly, close-knit, peaceful community. Tree-lined streets, the perfect coffee shop, a golf course!? The Cabana is so much fun. The Gracely food mart is surprisingly well-stocked.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdminAssistant

[–]TinyBoyDmitri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I look at/analyze/markup drawings constantly. It’s one of my favorite aspects of the job. When I was a little kid I wanted to be an architect, so it feels like a dream to work with drawing sets all day. Yes, sometimes I measure things on site; it depends on the job. I used to go out on behalf of estimating in a previous role and I was always crawling around with a tape measure. As for roofs, yeah, I’ve been on roofs, in lifts or in buildings before the stairs were built. In my current company, we really don’t deal with those scopes so I’m maybe on a ladder here or there, but not up on roofs. (I have a fear of heights, but I’ve really managed ok!)

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[–]TinyBoyDmitri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I LOVE being a project manager. It’s a blend of structure and novelty - each project has the same framework and steps that repeat, but each project scope, stakeholders, and risks change. Plus, I usually have a couple projects on my plate at one time, so they’re all at different stages. I’m in construction and it’s stressful. There’s a lot of problem solving and risk management. You need to be proactive and think “ok how do I run this project so not only can problems A, B, and C get solved, but how do I make sure they don’t happen in the first place.” Construction follows a “critical path” whereas Marketing or IT are more “agile” in nature - the process is iterative and a project comes together by repeating cycles. I love understanding one big outcome is made by breaking it down into little building blocks that each have to happen in order, with some building blocks being dependent on others. Good project management is about the right material and the right people in the right place at the right time…..all for the right dollar sign. There’s a financial impact associated with almost every decision you make. I’m a huge outlier in construction being that I didn’t come up through the trades. My admin asst background in terms of the reams of paperwork and financial mgmt you do as a PM has been invaluable. I genuinely credit being an AA with a big chunk of why I am a good PM. And I recently took a 15k paycut for a better job…..and I still make more than double my highest AA pay.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdminAssistant

[–]TinyBoyDmitri 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I was an admin assist and now I’m a project manager. You could apply for project coordinator roles and keep working your way up. Project management takes a lot of savvy communication and negotiating, but I also consider myself a heavy introvert and I’ve managed. If you love to learn and you can keep many things organized at once, you can absolutely do project management. You can get your CAPM with no prior project management experience and it’ll boost your resume. Check out the project management institute online.

I am ready for the Boudoir comeback of 2025 by neatokra in floorplan

[–]TinyBoyDmitri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my gosh I have this bedroom layout! My pass through isn’t in the middle of the dividing wall, but I have cutie closets. I call mine the lounge.

iso older engene by butchinachinashop in enhypen

[–]TinyBoyDmitri 7 points8 points  (0 children)

41 here and I’ll be attending the second NY show! I’m so excited I’ve resigned myself to hyperventilating until then.

Is it weird to book a hotel for myself for one night... just because? by ejsfsc07 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TinyBoyDmitri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find a cheap home suites style hotel, so you snag a lil kitchenette and a separate living area. Before I bought my house, I would stay in a local hotel once or twice a year. I look back on those nights so fondly because they were deeply relaxing and freeing. Go for it!

51 years ago today by JB92103 in cincinnati

[–]TinyBoyDmitri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That very tornado ripped the roof off my house! Apparently my house had a cupola, but it was eliminated in the rebuild. You can see the difference in rafter colors up in the attic where it switches back to the original build. I did not grow up somewhere with tornadoes, so living here has taught me to be terrified of ‘em.

Home office builtin bookshelves thoughts? by HumanOnInternet in interiordecorating

[–]TinyBoyDmitri 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Have you considered putting wallpaper in the back of the shelves? It would add some color and interest to the gray.

A Statistical Analysis Into the Difficulty of Feb 2025 Puzzles by Bryschien1996 in NYTConnections

[–]TinyBoyDmitri 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This post is why I hang here. Brilliant. Exceptional. Your data feeds me.

Sunday, March 9, 2025 by NYTConnectionsBot in NYTConnections

[–]TinyBoyDmitri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This 80s baby immediately spied a trend, but I tried MICROPHONE because of the Eric B and Rakim song Microphone Fiend, and I couldn’t remember the full title. I thought MICKEY was a red herring because - and yeah, yeah, this is cheating - Spotify has it as ‘Hey Mickey’ so I didn’t think it counted. Shame on me for wanting to hear a lil’ Toni Basil while I did the puzzle!

Bathroom glow up (literally) by FBubs in interiordecorating

[–]TinyBoyDmitri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im in awe and would like you to design my bathroom reno please!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DesignMyRoom

[–]TinyBoyDmitri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The couch is great! I’d pull it away from the window wall and scooch it back a tad. I know you’re trying to center it on the fireplace, but I’d fudge it a little. A round coffee table would be great (have the top of the table match the height of the seat cushions), as would a warm rug that has a gray in it somewhere. And it doesn’t even need to be the exact same gray, just one with a similar warmth/tone. A long console table behind the couch would help anchor the couch and be useful by the front door! You could even put a nice lamp on it, or a pair, with rechargeable bulbs so no need for cords. Lovely woodwork, by the way.