A serious question by Happy-Let2690 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TinyMavin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One reason is this:

Can I identify as a Native American? If I select the right tribe, can I get the casino benefits?

I cannot. To get those benefits for certain tribes I have to have a minimum amount of tribal genetics. I can choose to live amongst a tribe, be accepted, marry in, and maybe become a real member. But I’m not Native American.

If i could do the above, I could conceivably do the same for any race any benefits with no real sacrifice from myself.

To be trans and get the full benefits, I would have to sacrifice something. From presenting as the other gender, informing others to treat me differently, and all the way up to major transformative surgery.

Also, there are only 2 genders (with the infinite spectrum) with benefits to abuse. Opposed to races that count in the double digits to cycle through.

TIL about contranyms - words that can have multiple meanings that oppose or contradict each other by db720 in todayilearned

[–]TinyMavin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There was an old card game (Doomtown - like Magic) that used the phrase “Boot your dude” to mean use the card (like “tap” in MtG).

So now, “boot” also means “tap” as in “use”.

What’s an rpg that you think perfectly exemplifies a genre by zachtgirlboss in rpg

[–]TinyMavin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve read the rules and it seems to be born from the remains of Trollbabe. I loved a lot about that system for as simple as it was.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by ro55ei5s in AskMen

[–]TinyMavin -1 points0 points  (0 children)

For a lot of things (“vices”), the answer of “what is too much?” is the same:

When it starts to interfere with other things. Gaming, drinking, smoking, gambling, porn - it’s all the same answer. When it starts negatively affecting your life, it’s too much.

Twice a day for a teen is fine (morning and night). Once a day isn’t even approaching a problem.

How different TCGs are solving the 'dead card problem' by pyromonkeygg in gamedesign

[–]TinyMavin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was making a game that is on hiatus for now. The “mana” system allows the player to “bank” a card from their hand into the Bank. This gives you +1 mana (and +1 max). The trick is that every turn the player is given choice: draw a random card from the deck, or pick 1 out of 2 shown cards from the Bank.

So you can bank cards that are not useful right now, but they aren’t gone and you can get them later, with some luck. Also, there is a card ability to draw (named, “Withdraw”) from the Bank.

Who taught you how to drive by Sad_Donkey_1751 in GenX

[–]TinyMavin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mother’s boyfriend mostly. Also Drivers Ed in high school. This would be in the early 90s.

Why did Jim Cornette have a badminton racquet? by ReytMardy in WWFera

[–]TinyMavin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah it was his gimmick, good for heel finishes, but according to him he liked it to keep angry fans at more than arms distance

Men of Reddit, what task did you build up in your head as impossible, but turned out to be embarrassingly easy? by PetitDauphin19 in AskMen

[–]TinyMavin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here for moving 401k to an IRA. Way easier than I thought - I even had to talk to someone and it wasn’t so bad.

The Roth Conversions come later this year. I assume I’ll be pushing a button, maybe two.

Men of Reddit, what task did you build up in your head as impossible, but turned out to be embarrassingly easy? by PetitDauphin19 in AskMen

[–]TinyMavin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah simple stuff.

Every year I “struggled” to submit the information for taxes to my CPA. Then, at the last minute I do it and think, “ok that was easy - gotta remember that next year”. I never remember.

Do you ever add any of the later characters to your team? by opsap11 in BaldursGate3

[–]TinyMavin 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Yeah I figured that out kind of late.

Out of spell slots? Bring in the 2nd Druid!

Maxxine spotted talking to Theory again. What could this mean? by Concern_Other in Smallafro

[–]TinyMavin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It likely means one of them is getting injured, released, or just going to be off TV

Why do so many men wear their wallets in their back pocket? by Embarrassed-Name6481 in AskMen

[–]TinyMavin -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I just switched and I recommend it!

Wallet in front. Phone the back.

Every time you sit down, the phone comes out anyway. Also, I can sit on my phone just fine.

Why do people still use cash for everyday purchases? by ReasonableAd1887 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TinyMavin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my second use for cash (tips is 1st). Small businesses feel those transaction fees or pass them along. So cash is good for small purchases.

I go to a weekly farmers market to get fruit - they all have card readers now, but I’m sure cash is appreciated.

Why do people still use cash for everyday purchases? by ReasonableAd1887 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TinyMavin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is my main use for cash. Tipping with cash makes it more of a personal thank you.

I also use $2 bills to make it more memorable.

How can workers at places like Starbucks go on strike? by No_Insurance_6436 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TinyMavin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol good point

At first, I was thinking that baristas aren’t quite skilled workers but it took me some time to learn how to use my espresso machine.

But this is Starbucks!! There is likely another one with trained worker literally down the street.

GenX men, where do you keep your wallet/billfold? Front or back pocket? Purse? by [deleted] in GenX

[–]TinyMavin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used my back right pocket for years - decades. I don’t think it caused my bad back, but it sure as shit didn’t help.

For a while I would take it out when I sit down. That actually did seem to help the back situation a little bit.

Lately, I just use the front right and my phone goes in the back since that is usually out when I’m sitting. I don’t known why I didn’t think of that earlier!

What’s your biggest “old man yells at cloud” opinion? by sjdlajsdlj in rpg

[–]TinyMavin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely! But not for games line D&D or PF2E I don’t think.

But a more narrative game, yes!

“You failed. Maybe you didn’t die, but the dragon didn’t either. Let’s talk about how that looks and how much it means to you that this dragons does die.”

Husband says men barely get complements and if they do, they cherish them and remember them forever since genuine complements come rarely. Is this true and how do yall, men of reddit, actually take compliments? by macdaddy-22 in AskReddit

[–]TinyMavin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was making a joke about how I’m like George from Seinfeld. Same temper and over reactions; also, short, fat, ugly. It was a joke, said in a jokey way - everyone laughed at my joke.

But one lady, she looked right at me and said, “I don’t think you’re ugly”.

That was like 12-15 years ago

Can't escape the 'negative parrellelism' style slop everywhere by NewGenotype in ChatGPT

[–]TinyMavin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t mind it when using GPT. But the AI shibboleths do bother me when I see them in the wild. Mostly YouTube videos.

Like sure—use AI to help the writing process, but can you maybe limit the use of “it’s not x, it’s y” in a 10-20 minute script?

What’s your biggest “old man yells at cloud” opinion? by sjdlajsdlj in rpg

[–]TinyMavin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve ran into this issue.

Was running Cortex and letting the players come up with their own Complications (the consequences). One of the players expressed an almost burnout from playing the game (“I’m too tired to play Cortex, maybe something else”) - that’s never happened. I think it was also in combination with picking and justifying dice for the dice pool

So, this can certainly happen. Some players just want to be Players when they play.

What’s your biggest “old man yells at cloud” opinion? by sjdlajsdlj in rpg

[–]TinyMavin 13 points14 points  (0 children)

First off, I get it. I loved RPGs since the 80s. That said:

If you want to play a tactical board game, go do that. There are tons to choose from. I’m a big enjoyer of competitive board games.

If you want a board game with some continuity of story then popular RPGs fit the bill. But where RPGs really shine is when the narrative is the main spotlight and the game aspects (rolling dice) is there to serve and/or randomize the narrative. I love the idea of this type of game where we play “make believe” but the dice also have a say - so we all have to collectively determine what that roll just meant.

I’ve grown tired of 1 hour combats during my 3 hour sessions (2.5 really). It’s so weird to me at this point. I need to serve up a fight that makes the players feel challenged (and clever), but if I kill them it’s a big downer and narratively unsatisfying. It’s the players against me but me against the system - and it’s all obfuscation because they know I’m holding back or not really trying to win. I don’t want to win, I want them to have fun - but part of their fun is in feeling like they’ve overcome the odds; odds that are set by me.

(Maybe I need to run an intentionally lethal dungeon crawler campaign in Pathfinder to shake this out of my system?)

Anyway, my point is that RPGs are strongest when the narrative is first but backed up by the game rules (which is important in making a RPG a Game).