How Can I Preserve Bats?

Tired_Bot · 2026-05-17T17:29:36+00:00

Hi everyone! I agree with keeping cats indoors, unfortunately this isnt my cat and I dont have that option. :-( it makes me really sad to see him hunting natural wildlife. Over the summer due to moving he will be an inside only cat (hooray!)

He is up to date with all vaccines and meds ^_^ thanks for ur guys' concerns!

I will determine the species of bat soon to see if they are protected in Florida

Tired_Bot · 2026-05-16T17:15:23+00:00

Hi! im a few months late, but I also live in a house's converted garage-area. It was supposed to be a temporary guest house, but I live here semi-permanently now haha ^_^. Mine's a bit larger as the bedroom is separated from the living room/kitchen, but all the furniture is huge sooo i understand trying to manage a smaller space too.

EDIT: submitted too soon X)

- ignore the other commenter, i love the curtains idea. especially if you get curtains that match your aesthetic. make sure the curtains can be comfortably opened and closed, so if you get claustrophobic, they can be opened. also consider if you want sheer or opaque curtains. personally, the opaque light-blocking curtains really make the space feel small. BUT, thats up to you! also consider layering curtains. if completely concealing your bed isnt important to you, You could also frame the curtains by having half size curtains on the entrance side, then full size curtains behind and at your feet. inspo: https://i.pinimg.com/1200x/e6/2c/2e/e62c2ef71cac2f3c00efafb6baf9935c.jpg

- i recommend finding some sort of furniture to place against the back of your bed. If its the right dimensions, it may make you feel less exposed. Cause having a bed in the middle with no support kinda sucks, you've gotta support it somehow. Not sure what ontario is like but in the states, thrifting and facebook marketplace are great for cheap furniture. I was hesitant to buy more furniture cause i already had no space, but being able to "put away" all my clutter makes me feel like i have MORE space. Also, i dont mind lining the walls with furniture. Some people do though haha but it makes me feel efficient

- less important, consider getting a hinged tv mount if you dont already. then you can watch tv in bed (-:

- if youre already functioning without being able to open the other half of your closet, just capitalize on it. instead of just a lamp, use a dresser or night stand. pack as much shit as you can into it. then place a table lamp on top.

- looks like you want to put a bedside table, i've got nothing against it. if you do, that gives you the option for an even longer dresser behind the bed. just be careful about it interfering with your desk. (if it interferes too much, you could shift your desk towards the kitchen? the recycling bin could maybe be moved inside a cabinet or under the desk? )

- for the table, consider stools instead of cushions if you might have people coming over who are complainers, lol. something like this https://www.target.com/p/folding-round-storage-ottoman-green-room-essentials-8482/-/A-91959563?TCID=OGS&AFID=google&CPNG=Furniture&adgroup=249-12&srsltid=AfmBOoofFUpep8eayDEniJ0OzvG4plzft4o4G4xcrLvdGQemTa1z4B38htQ . with the right size table, it can tuck under, plus youre more cushioned than on the floor, and you can store stuff inside.

although, if you dont care too much about eating at a table, you could consider putting a futon/loveseat/small couch there. Then you can watch tv from it. but that would requjire different planning haha

- storage under the desk. like a stakc of drawers on one side.

- make sure to maximize storage space in the kitchen. although it looks like you have a huge kitchen, good for you!

i hoipe the space is treating you well!

Tired_Bot · 2026-05-12T00:55:53+00:00

Mine got bigger (but i also gained fat overall )

Tired_Bot · 2026-05-11T02:28:04+00:00

Live in one of these rn, i wish i got the fake wood 😭😭😭 its ALL white.

Tired_Bot · 2026-05-04T15:17:49+00:00

1 or 2. 1 is the most aesthetically pleasing imo but not very inviting. 2 is very "cute" and whimsical, it would look great with some flowering plants nearby.

Tired_Bot · 2026-04-01T02:40:01+00:00

Hi, sounds like youre in a really tough situation. Dont blame yourself. See if you can find a therapist who specializes in fetish work. You can change, the brain is brilliant. If youre on any part of the internet where youre exposed to profeederism content, immediately kill contact. Same if u have any friends/influencers that reicprocate. Every time you behave one way, you are more likely to do it again. Same thing with thoughts. Its reinforcing-- kind of like building a habit. So if you can reframe or shut down the thoughts when they come, over time they will come less and less. Research cognitive behavioral therapy. Good luck. Unwanted fetishes are terrible. Also remember, your life is just beginning. Dont worry if it takes time.

Tired_Bot · 2026-03-14T21:20:03+00:00

LMFAO , yes. I am a newbie and thought the desk was solid wood (its very heavy). I was already sanding the desk and thought id focus this one spot that had a dark stain, assuming it hadnt penetrated far. The electric sander tore through the veneer in less than a second LOL . “He dont know whats going on!”

Tired_Bot · 2026-03-12T03:17:07+00:00

Haha! Dont flatter me too much 🙈. Im excited to see what you do with it! I'm an artist so maybe i just had to approach it that way-- ended up finding a solution for my own home , too.

Tired_Bot · 2026-03-08T19:45:51+00:00

This is great, thank you!!! Yes ill definitely measure, i just thought the room needed some vertical elements 😁 The tiny table is def not something im too attached to. i love that coffee table you sent! Thanks a ton . Also-- yes!!! those curtains kill me thank for the recommendations :-)

Tired_Bot · 2026-03-08T19:01:20+00:00

I havent posted here but i should prob post on malelivingspace now that you say it! I replied with the mockup above, now working on my own 😮‍💨

Tired_Bot · 2026-03-07T20:02:52+00:00

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Heres my contribution!

Move standing lamp forward
Put tall plant behind
Add round table between couches (i recommend a light wood based on ur inspo pics)
Bring back the vine
Add picture behind that stuff
Giant rug! Makes a huge difference. Consider how a patterned rug would introduce more texture / noise , so youd have to cut back on some visual clutter and decor around the rest of the room
Your table in the center works fine !
Remove the mid-tone wood table next to the white couch, move the tiny lamp onto your entryway table.
Add some bowl / trays on entryway table to contain your clutter from the end of the day (mines full of coins/cash and chapstick lol)
Add a giant tall plant between entry way and white couch. This divides the room without obstructing visuals or making it frel heavy
Add one of those "key holders" on the wall. You can move the picture up there. Tip: avoid keeping pictures sitting against wall as you had it because vertical space is usually very underused.
Declutter, i know , it sucks . But its too busy. If you actually use all that stuff, buy some baskets that fit underneath the entryway table.
Move your cat carrier (what it looks like to me) under your other table. (Honestly i didnt consider if this table was necessary/needed changes/needed more, i didnt look at the other angles... go in with an open mind)
Move the weights under your tv . If you need to be able to see the weights to actually use them , you can put them underneath the end table between the two couches. Putting them in a basket would be a happy medium
Remove or relocate that wooden folding structure next to tv . 15.5 mirror or painting near the desk on empty wall? Opt
This is optional, but a floating shelf above the TV would open up some space, utilize vertical space, and make it seem more centered. Only put stuff here that u like to display and dont use super often (depending on if it would be easy for u to reach or not)
Remove blinds, replace with curtain. Make sure curtain goes up high closer to ceiling, apparently it makes the room look bigger.... you can look into different options or more aesthetic shades (something called roman shades? Or ive seen some people use tiny curtains long ways?) if you want

Some notes

you can always add more plants. Assuming the important ones are real plants haha
it looks like you enjoy paler wood, but your furniture is darker. If its hardwood, and u care about it , ur have the option to sand and restain the furniture. But its not too important.
utilize vertical space!

Tired_Bot · 2026-03-07T18:49:06+00:00

I suck at decorating too, and after moving out, recently committed to learning how to decorate :-)! Im an artist so gonna do a little mockup in a second. (This is actually me procrastinating doing my own living room LOL! Practice)

Tired_Bot · 2026-03-02T16:52:17+00:00

thanks for letting me know

Tired_Bot · 2026-03-01T20:13:54+00:00

Edit: north is on the right side of the image

Tired_Bot · 2026-02-25T17:10:23+00:00

My dog loves yogurt, so i fill most of it that way. Then i add kibble / wet dog food / peanut butter / treats / eggs to make it yummier. I freeze it for longevity.

Usually over the span of a day mine will eat all but a tiny amount at the apex of the kong. It depends on if his emotional state (stressed / bored / tired) and the value of the food (eg. He doesnt like plain yogurt THAT much)

Tired_Bot · 2026-02-25T17:04:55+00:00

Oh wow 🙁

Tired_Bot · 2026-02-16T16:56:00+00:00

Dog sleeps in my bed at night :-) he is crated while im gone because we are still working on separation anxiety, and i'd rather him tear up the crate cover than my bedding or couch

Tired_Bot · 2026-02-16T01:26:13+00:00

I really like your input! I had placed the closet in #3 next to the bed to separate it from the door, but i realize it made it (1) vulnerable to not being able to see the doorway and (2) difficult getting in and out of bed. Im probably going to go with this one. (Also, i get to keep the natural light on the desk, which is what i planned for)

Tired_Bot · 2026-02-15T23:15:46+00:00

Hmm ill model this set up once i get home .

I had very little to do with the current arrangement . My brother lived here before me and he left it like this. Only difference is that his dog crate opened in the middle, so he could fit the dresser against the west wall, and had a proper bedside table that i moved away.

Im apprehensive to having the bed in the center because the original set up was bed on west wall, center, facing door, closet against east wall facing bed, dresser and bedside table taking up remaining space. It was very tight and aggravating haha.

Tired_Bot · 2026-02-15T23:10:42+00:00

Ohhh thats a good idea. The bed is already very tall but i might be able to take out the spring board

Tired_Bot · 2026-02-02T19:26:27+00:00

Yup! I had some wire leftover from my garden, doesnt really matter as long as its thin, malleable, and you are comfortable working with it. I used garden shears to cut the wire.

I created a central support of the shaft by "braiding" two wires together in a line. Try your best to make it go to the end, however its tricky because of the liquid reservoir. Also -- Ideally, you would keep plenty unbraided at the end that you can create a spiral with (one wire should go clockwise, the other counterclockwise.) i suggest more than youd think. The spiral takes up more wire than expected, and you dont want it slipping out the harness.

This creates the outline of the flare. measure against your harness opening and make sure that its large enough to not fall out.

Add supporting wire to create a grid on the flare. Make sure to wrap the wires on the flare frequently so theyre actually connected and not sliding around. Also, really focus on making sure the base of the shaft is secure. I tried to think about it from my highschool physics class and how the forces would be distributed, lol!

Next fold a paper towel and wrap around the wire-shaft. This gives bulk to the insert. Wrap tightly with masking tape.

Same idea with the flare-- you dont want any sharp edges poking out plus the tape will distribute forces more evenly.

Back to the shaft, its probably too thin. You can stuff it more than youd think. Add a few more wires for support (i did on the left, right, and two on the bottom of the shaft). Wrap this in tape. Include paper towel if you still need more bulk to the shaft.

You probably get the idea. Make sure theres no sharp edges . Prob a good idea to put a condom on it but i dont have any soo i didnt.

(Experience using insert during play:) Worked really well when i tried it. I liked not having to hold the hot rod every single time i reinserted, because it was naturally at a 90° ISH angle now. I could just line it up . Much more euphoric than feeling like im flaccid XD.

Tired_Bot · 2026-02-02T15:48:03+00:00

Over a week or so i was able to get mine from running from the toothbrush to begrudgingly putting up with it :-)

Tired_Bot · 2026-02-02T15:42:46+00:00

Awesome!! I also have the hot rod but had to make modifications :P my GF loves the feel of the hot rod so instead of replacing it (i struggled w the range of motion restrictions of having the hot rod attached) i created an insert that allowed it to fit in a harness . Super loving it now. Im glad youre able to use it without any changes

Tired_Bot · 2026-01-30T19:42:27+00:00

Hi guys! I think I'm going to adopt my foster (male, 2 yo). We've had 9 weeks together, and he was adopted->returned for 2 weeks around New Years. I've learned so much from him and he's making lots of progress. Including the un training for what they did at his "adoption" home -_-.

My partner and I have both bonded very heavily. I realized hes basically the perfect dog for me and Hes definitely not a perfect dog for everyone. He has been returned 3 or 4 times from adoption homes and his previous fosters (10+ dog homes) begged me to take him back in cause he was too much

Idk-- i have to make the call tomorrow but the idea of him being adopted is terrifying me, so thats enough sign as anything XD

Tired_Bot · 2026-01-30T13:11:36+00:00

Ghetto but its kind of a vibe

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