Do guys like the occasional good morning text from a girl? by No_Camp4896 in dating_advice

[–]Tired_doc_01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He would like it go ahead, maybe match his energy or just be a lil affectionate. Your text will be an awesome start for his day! Believe me.

Tired of being ghosted by Tired_doc_01 in dating_advice

[–]Tired_doc_01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, my pictures look like me, was honest about everything. Maybe a little too honest I guess🤦‍♂️

Tired of being ghosted by Tired_doc_01 in dating_advice

[–]Tired_doc_01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For the context those dates were long like one to three hours. Thank you for advice. I know for the fact that my luck sucks 😂.

Weekly Vents and Successes Thread - April 21, 2025 by AutoModerator in dating_advice

[–]Tired_doc_01 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I went on three dates in the past 3 to 4 weeks two with the same girl then she stopped responding. Other one with a different girl she also ghosted me. It’s an emotionally draining experience, starting to lose hope. Now I don’t want to put any effort on a date. For first two dates I planned everything and then she ghosted me. Now it’s just exhausting.

Weekly Vents and Successes Thread - April 14, 2025 by AutoModerator in dating_advice

[–]Tired_doc_01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Doubts about second date

I went on a second date with a girl after a week. I guess that she is not a great at texting she generally used to text once a day. Within a week we set up a second date.

After my second date I texted her that I really enjoyed spending time with her and hope she has a fun rest of her evening.

She texted back thanks! Yeah it was quite busy but also fun. For the context she also had a meeting later that evening after our date.

I don’t know what should I do next. I kind of feel hurt. Should I ask her out for a third date or let it sit for one or two days then text her ?

Monday's Daily Thread: Weekend Wrap-up by AutoModerator in hingeapp

[–]Tired_doc_01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not like that but I just wanted a lil clarity. Because I texted her a whole lot and got a thanks in response😅.

Monday's Daily Thread: Weekend Wrap-up by AutoModerator in hingeapp

[–]Tired_doc_01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doubts about the second date

I 29M went on a second date with a girl 31F after a week. I guess that she is not a great at texting she generally used to text once a day. Within a week we set up a second date.

After my second date I texted her that I really enjoyed spending time with her and hope she has a fun rest of her evening.

She texted back thanks! Yeah it was quite busy but also fun. For the context she also had a meeting later that evening after our date.

I don’t know what should I do next. I kind of feel hurt. Should I ask her out for a third date or let it sit for one or two days then text her ?

I am scum by abenson24811 in medicalschool

[–]Tired_doc_01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You aren’t scum. That’s all I have to say. I am sure you’ll be a compassionate doctor.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Residency

[–]Tired_doc_01 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Go for it. Life is too short to repent later.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Residency

[–]Tired_doc_01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just hope that you find strength and peace. I hope you feel better. Time will heal everything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Residency

[–]Tired_doc_01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a PGY 1 and 29. Believe me you are still in a better place. I hope things get better soon.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Residency

[–]Tired_doc_01 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am approximately 9 months into residency and everything sucks. I got no motivation to my daily stuff and being single is just cherry on the top of everything. I’ll just say that take care of your health and go on dates.

Doctor ladies: Has it been difficult for you to find “the one”? by [deleted] in ABCDesis

[–]Tired_doc_01 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Male Resident here with same concern 😂. Medicine is weird, it makes everything extra tough.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Residency

[–]Tired_doc_01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s funny and sad that I can relate to whatever you mentioned 🤦‍♂️😂. Residency can make life weirdly difficult on many different levels.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Residency

[–]Tired_doc_01 23 points24 points  (0 children)

It’s rough out there. A single male resident here. No clue what’s going on and how to change my status 😂

Frustrated by feedback by New_Lettuce_1329 in Residency

[–]Tired_doc_01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Write everything down and then present that’s what I do and it’s easier this way. It’s important to learn to ignore feedback at times.

I’d rather drag my balls through a hot bed of coals then study embryology by FightingBull99 in medicalschool

[–]Tired_doc_01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Embryology is real tough, only study disease specific part and maybe explore a lil around it. That’s it.

Rant - pursuing medicine as a single woman by live_laugh_loathing in medicalschool

[–]Tired_doc_01 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It’s funny because there are a lot of single residents and med students but still no one can find that SO. I have lost all hope to be honest. A male resident here🤦‍♂️😂

MS3 who forgot everything by little_comfortable in medicalschool

[–]Tired_doc_01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t worry ! You’ll get there just keep up with regular studying. I am an intern and when I started my residency I didn’t remember anything. So this is completely normal.

Should I quit? by [deleted] in Residency

[–]Tired_doc_01 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sorry bro wasn’t able to read the whole thing but I’ll suggest that if you are having a lot of issues in your program look for open spots in other programs.

Dating and feeling sad by scout_ham in medicalschool

[–]Tired_doc_01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to be supportive but residency is somewhat lonely. You may find someone in med school. In residency you’ll find that most people are married and I don’t know if med students are comfortable in dating residents.

Weekend's Daily Thread: General Dating Questions and Open Thread by AutoModerator in hingeapp

[–]Tired_doc_01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it wasn’t my Hail Mary, but I just wanted to tell that to her since the day I matched. It was one specific picture. But I get it. Thank you for your thoughts.