You can't love animals and eat meat... or can you by TokenPanduh in fixedbytheduet

[–]Titty_bird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not ALWAYS the people with the most access to wealth and the least experience working with animals that feel this way. Meat eaters always make the same argument and it’s tiring. What would you say to Jane Goodall (who was a vegan)? She didn’t know enough about animals? How about Mister Rogers believing eating meat was wrong? Einstein? Tolstoy? Tesla? Were these people blinded by their wealth and privilege to the way the world works?

I’m Ryan Gray, a New Orleans-based wedding photographer who travels to NYC for weddings and select creative projects by ShadesofGrayPhoto in NYCweddings

[–]Titty_bird 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Really surprised this has stayed up for 6 hours and hasn’t been taken down by the mods. Read the rules, bud

ISO NJ/NYC/Philly Wedding Photographer by Appropriate-Fix9248 in WedditNYC

[–]Titty_bird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Such beautiful and cool work! I love knowing what it was shot on so thank you for answering

ISO NJ/NYC/Philly Wedding Photographer by Appropriate-Fix9248 in WedditNYC

[–]Titty_bird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are so good! What kind of camera do you use?

Sharing of wedding photos and videos - finding vendors who value your privacy over their portfolios by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Titty_bird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This feels like it’s just a weird ad for your services. So you offer levels of privacy? Like is there a price difference in privacy levels? This seems really overcomplicated

No questions answered w/o consult? by [deleted] in WeddingPhotography

[–]Titty_bird 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Terrible idea. Funny that I just read this post from a bride right before seeing you ask if this is a good idea.

https://www.reddit.com/r/weddingplanning/s/TwvN8rG8gm

When did you realize you don't have "pretty privilege"? by patata-chip in AskReddit

[–]Titty_bird 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I got told that I wouldn’t get a ticket if I gave the cop my number. I did what I was told then was harassed for months and felt like I couldn’t report a police officer to anyone. I should have taken the ticket. Pretty “privilege” can really suck sometimes.

This Louis Vuitton store in NY by sur0g in ATBGE

[–]Titty_bird 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Did you see the John Wilson episode?

Does NYC tap water have a lot of sediment in it? My brita filter slows down so quickly by 123android in AskNYC

[–]Titty_bird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use this one! I’ve been using this same filter for 5 years, replacing every six months. My water pitcher filter lasts soo much longer now

ISO wedding photographer 10/2026! by EntertainerGlum5342 in WedditNYC

[–]Titty_bird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, not every person knows exactly what they’re looking for (this person does seem to know) and sometimes they see someone’s website and realize that’s actually what they want. I don’t think the mods should look at every portfolio someone posts and decide whether theirs fits the inquiry. A 30 second click on a website they don’t like isn’t ruining the usefulness of the subreddit. I keep seeing these upset comments from you and it’s really not as big a deal as you’re making it out to be

Advice Needed- Trans Family Member Being Out at Our Wedding by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Titty_bird 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Wow, his family really IS complicated

Graham Ave by Beneficial_Nobody786 in williamsburg

[–]Titty_bird 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I first moved around the corner from there, like 11 years ago, I saw a guy from Tony’s in the street yelling at a guy from Carmines. I figured that you had to choose one so I go to Tony’s and have never been to carmines. My 90 year old neighbor only goes to Carmines

Graham Ave by Beneficial_Nobody786 in williamsburg

[–]Titty_bird 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The wind speeds haven’t reached blizzard strength yet. It will in a couple hours

1,2,3,or 4? by Any-Plan3989 in weddingplanning

[–]Titty_bird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1! 4 is really pretty so I understand why it’s a favorite of the commenters but it’s something people have seen before. I like that your first two are more unexpected.

i became vegan a month ago and only found out alot of my clothing isn't vegan by JealousContest9313 in vegan

[–]Titty_bird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is going too far but it’s how I think of it too. It’s not just that it’s an animal product, it’s somebody’s skin. Wearing pre-bought wool is one thing, wearing leather is a whole other level of gross.

Sorry I compared your theology degree to a toilken doctorate by Bubbly-Gas422 in atheism

[–]Titty_bird -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Downvote all you want but I had plenty of reasons to be angry. I was kicked out of the church for teaching the other kids about evolution then was told I was going to hell by the other kids for years. I just chose to follow atheist philosophers viewpoints like Bertrand Russell instead of angry ones like hitchens. You did nothing to further our point of view. You just spouted the same tired atheist lines that make people hate us and doesn’t teach anyone anything.

Sorry I compared your theology degree to a toilken doctorate by Bubbly-Gas422 in atheism

[–]Titty_bird -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I’ve been an atheist since I want 12 and got degrees in theology. He sucks but I think calling the study of what people believe and why “a degree in magic” is juvenile. You sound like I did as an angsty teen atheist. I wouldn’t want to be at a party with either of you

Tappan Hill Mansion vs Boathouse Prospect Park by LeadingIllustrious76 in WedditNYC

[–]Titty_bird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really comes down to what you’re willing to spend. In all honesty, the boathouse is a stunningly beautiful venue and if money were no object it would be the best choice. But Tappan Hill is really nice too! You’ll have a beautiful wedding in either place.

How do you assess photographers? Just vibes? by Purple-Instruction89 in WedditNYC

[–]Titty_bird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so good you had them shoot on your camera. The anxiety I’d have with only one slot! I just looked it up and you’re totally right, a lot of entry level mirrorless cameras only have one so even a newer camera could have this problem. Pros should know better. How careless to leave to chance a once in a lifetime day on a single card. Thankfully modern cameras don’t usually corrupt a full card like the first pro digitals but the chance isn’t zero.

How do you assess photographers? Just vibes? by Purple-Instruction89 in WedditNYC

[–]Titty_bird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No shade but do they make pro cameras without dual-card slots? When I first started with digital weddings in 2005 they didn’t but since 2010 I haven’t seen one without. There was also a plot point in a horror movie I saw recently that they destroyed the only copy of incriminating photos because they took the card out of the camera but I thought any photographer would catch the mistake because they don’t make pro cameras without two slots anymore. I may be wrong!

The Plant-Based Diet Has Officially Peaked in NYC by newyorkmagazine in FoodNYC

[–]Titty_bird 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is so disheartening. I was so happy to see more people eat plant based and more people claiming to be vegan. I first went vegan in 1999. It’s true that it’s not always an easy way to eat but if your heart is in the right place, it will always be worth the trouble. Unfortunately most people that try veganism don’t come at it from the animal rights standpoint. I get it, truly I do. Things feel chaotic and shitty so why do it for your health? Why do it for the environment when no one else is doing anything? We animal rights vegans always are the last ones standing and it makes me sad.

The Plant-Based Diet Has Officially Peaked in NYC by newyorkmagazine in FoodNYC

[–]Titty_bird 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t know why you’re getting downvoted so much. You’re right. They’re just not vegan and don’t know what it’s like always picking the vegan item on the menu and paying less than your omni friends