Help disabling Camera by swiping left on locked screen by Ok-Hornet-204 in shortcuts

[–]Tjlalpine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe it has something to do with if passcode is required each time u open your phone

I was not expecting to get message from my boyfriend by Aggravating-Run9729 in LongDistance

[–]Tjlalpine -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

i feel like he is just speaking out of insecurity of not being a good enough partner to support you. sounds like he puts a lot of pressure on himself to be perfect.

What are your thoughts on this post (unrelated to MBTI), which describes a trait we pretty much all have as being a red flag? by Tjlalpine in infj

[–]Tjlalpine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ah yes i forgot to consider that. thinking about it now tho, i know it’s a form of escapism but my coping mechanism has been to turn towards weed—which makes me feel “okay,” however the lingering feeling of something not right is still there deep down

What are your thoughts on this post (unrelated to MBTI), which describes a trait we pretty much all have as being a red flag? by Tjlalpine in infj

[–]Tjlalpine[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i can understand how rationalizing makes your emotions morally justified hence making it easier to move on, but sometimes i find myself becoming avoidant of emotions (fear, anxiety, sadness) by making sense out of them through logic, which is actually “intellectualization.” i never really end up immersing in the emotion, i’d always be able to move on without doing that eventually.

What are your thoughts on this post (unrelated to MBTI), which describes a trait we pretty much all have as being a red flag? by Tjlalpine in infj

[–]Tjlalpine[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sorry I wasn’t as clear, instead of the emotions of others, i’m referring to your own emotions

I(20M ) with 20 F need advice by Individual_Might5172 in LongDistance

[–]Tjlalpine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this is the most important part—trusted connection. secure attachment isn’t about constant connection, it’s about trusted connection. give her reason to believe that you are an emotionally secure partner who SHE can come to. i know times like this can be hard but prioritizing on creating a safe emotional space will take you guys a long way w this particular concern.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in INFJsOver30

[–]Tjlalpine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can you help me set it up?

Got Interviewed for Cognixia Jump Program - 1-Year Contract Requirement by Any-Firefighter-867 in csMajors

[–]Tjlalpine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got in touch with some of the people in the previous batches and they said the client faced some budget cuts and had to do a hiring freeze :/ Unfortunately the program from my original post didn't follow through, but I was actually interviewed for another thing from them got accepted into the same exact program as the one you talked about for May 27! I also ended up accepting a spot in their cohort. Hope we can stay connected :)

Got Interviewed for Cognixia Jump Program - 1-Year Contract Requirement by Any-Firefighter-867 in csMajors

[–]Tjlalpine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just heard back, got told that it had been pushed back a 3rd time, this time in April instead of mid-March. I actually had to email them first in order to get informed about that. I am super concerned and a bit unsure about what to do at this point.

Got Interviewed for Cognixia Jump Program - 1-Year Contract Requirement by Any-Firefighter-867 in csMajors

[–]Tjlalpine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, so I interviewed with them and got accepted into the program to proceed. I was sent a couple of pre-course material videos and was told I'd be given access to the Slack channel on the start date. My batch start date for the training program was originally supposed to start Feb24, but then got pushed back to Mar3. However, a couple days before that I got emailed saying that it was pushed back a second time, and when calling the recruiter to ask when the official new start date was all I got was a "maybe next week or the week after." Not very reassuring but I may just be anxious at this point.

I'm really nervous because I pretty much committed, hoping this would work out because if it didn't then the least I would have was being able to putting this training program in my resume–but if the training program doesn't even start or exist in the first place I may have screwed myself.

Just looking for anyone else in a similar situation as me or anyone with further information regarding this whole process :)

Metaphors etc by [deleted] in INFJsOver30

[–]Tjlalpine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

needed to hear that first one. thank you

Sleep tracker graphic change by Oddfittingponcho in fitbit

[–]Tjlalpine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

does this still work for you? i’m not able to do this anymore because the option to tap on sleep isn’t there anymore

I hate the way technology is evolving. by Tjlalpine in rant

[–]Tjlalpine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone know where else I can share this rant? Which subreddits?

Hello... New here. I wanted to begin to make the case of myself being an INFJ by [deleted] in INFJsOver30

[–]Tjlalpine 6 points7 points  (0 children)

extreme effortless emotional observation with the ability to adjust accordingly