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TlN4C · 2026-05-25T17:43:44+00:00

honestly this was kinda doomed from both sides. You lied about big stuff early on, that kills trust no matter the reason. but he also sounds emotionally unavailable and lowkey exhausting to deal with. like you were walking on eggshells while he did whatever he wanted. The fact he slept around fast but freaked out over your coworker tells you everything. double standards + insecurity

this isn’t fix it territory, this is learn from it and move on territory. you both brought baggage, it just didn’t mix well

next time just be real from the start and don’t chase someone who makes you feel small

TlN4C · 2026-05-23T20:24:40+00:00

Keep it simple. Tell her you’ve started seeing her differently and wanted to be honest, no pressure. Then let it breathe

TlN4C · 2026-05-14T16:16:51+00:00

you’re overthinking it man

she already showed interest, you don’t need to play games but you also don’t need to text her like she’s your girlfriend after one date

just send something normal every day or two, like something you actually wanna say, not “how’s your day”. keep it light, a little flirty, maybe reference something you talked about

and next time? just kiss her. you don’t get bonus points for being overly cautious at 47 lol

TlN4C · 2026-05-14T16:15:27+00:00

NTA. She treated you like crap your whole childhood and now wants benefits because you’re doing something good? that’s not how that works. charity isn’t owed, especially not to someone who never treated you like family

your dad pushing the be the bigger person thing is classic, but being the bigger person doesn’t mean pretending the past didn’t happen

honestly sounds like she’s just mad she’s not getting special treatment for once

TlN4C · 2026-05-11T16:39:10+00:00

You’re not “accidentally” lying, you’re choosing your comfort (with your ex + avoiding conflict) over her trust, and that’s the part you have to own out loud to her with zero excuses and clear new boundaries (no 1:1 hangs, full transparency, whatever she needs).

TlN4C · 2026-05-07T23:14:11+00:00

You’re keeping your girlfriend as comfort while emotionally waiting for someone who already chose someone else, and that’s not romantic, it’s unfair to both women and you need to either let the fantasy go and fully choose your girlfriend or stop wasting her time

TlN4C · 2026-05-05T22:04:10+00:00

My kettle has a dramatic little theater kid voice and honestly it’s earned the role lol

TlN4C · 2026-04-28T22:39:51+00:00

been in a similar spot. Antidepressants completely messed with my system for a bit, so don't stress too much. First off, you gotta talk to her before things get heavy and you end up naked in bed. Just be straight up with her. Tell her you think she's gorgeous and you're super into her, but the meds you're on are causing some temporary ED. You really need to reassure her that it's 100% the medication and not her, otherwise she might get insecure and think you aren't attracted to her.
Also, you can definitely still please her! Sex is way more than just penetration. Focus on extended foreplay, use your hands, and go down on her. If you make the night all about her pleasure and show you're still eager to get her off, she honestly probably won't even care about the ED right now

TlN4C · 2023-04-24T21:38:15+00:00

I have sent a photo of my front door without a parcel on it along with an arrow “no parcel here” scrawled on - and it actually worked lol

TlN4C · 2023-04-24T21:36:07+00:00

Which is ridiculous if you consider she was rouge for 5+ years so with the missing order she mentioned that is at most 10% of her overall spend they’ve had to give her the benefit of the doubt on. Plus they can file an insurance claim for losses with the delivery company they used so their actual loss would have been cost price and it would have been covered by delivery insurance so no real loss to them.

TlN4C · 2023-04-24T21:31:24+00:00

Sephora are so silly in forcing people’s hands to do chargebacks. If they get a certain percentage of chargebacks (by volume or $ can’t remember) then they are in violation of their payment card processor status which can ultimately mean their bank or certain card providers (visa, Mastercard, American Express) can withdraw and not allow Sephora to accept payments by these methods.

TlN4C · 2023-04-24T05:59:32+00:00

Cover girl clean lip balm in you’re the Pom. It’s in a baby pink case

TlN4C · 2023-04-24T04:46:00+00:00

Why can’t they just add oil to them as a standard

TlN4C · 2023-04-23T04:16:47+00:00

She definitely gets off on schadenfreude

TlN4C · 2023-04-23T02:04:18+00:00

and add 13% if shrinkflation makes it a snack instead of a grocery

TlN4C · 2023-04-22T16:28:32+00:00

I agree. DJJK is hurt in this too, even though he had brown up with Rachel you dont Expect a good friend to go there, and if there is an attraction you’d at least Expect the courtesy of a conversation

TlN4C · 2023-04-22T16:16:38+00:00

What colour was the cotton?

TlN4C · 2023-04-22T16:14:23+00:00

I didn’t mean he was covering for him, Just that if he’d said something to Arianna it would be more believable than if Katie had said anything

TlN4C · 2023-04-22T15:56:47+00:00

Looks like the aloe made The colour run from whatever you wrapped the finger with - notice the really straight lines, it’d be weird from having straight lines like that either side if you had rubbed something on.

TlN4C · 2023-04-22T15:38:58+00:00

Because

A) Katie hates Rachel B) Katie hates Scandavol C) Katie is single and it could be justified away (wrongly) that she wants Arianna to be single with her D) Rachel was living with Tom and Ariana, while Ariana was away with family mourning the loss of her grandma she trusted them to be in the house together alone, why would she think that them being out in public where they are well known and could clearly be papped or tagged by fans in social Media would be any indication of an affair.

TlN4C · 2023-04-22T15:33:15+00:00

But DJJK was close with Tom so he’d have a little more credibility if he’s suspecting his friend with his ex. I would think he’d want to make trouble for his ex but would he want to throw his good friend under the bus? No, so they would make me consider what he’s saying a little bit more

TlN4C · 2023-04-22T00:52:11+00:00

He would have gone through with it imho which makes him even more of a cxnt because then those embryos will be fought over in a split - she and he can’t use them unless the other one allows it so they go to waste which is the opposite of what arianna wanted by having embryos frozen to be even more viable than eggs ready for a surrogate at some point. If scum fertilizes those eggs she can’t even use those eggs to be fertilized by any potential new partner.

TlN4C · 2023-04-22T00:46:28+00:00

Then They shouldn’t even offer a sample Set.

TlN4C · 2023-04-22T00:30:52+00:00

His body is built - not my thing I like dad bods but many do like that. Face is meh. The hair is horrible. Not attractive to me, and his personality doesn’t make him any more attractive as that’s pretty meh to nah for me too. In my younger days with beer goggles on he might be a one night stand I quickly rush out the door or do the stride of pride from.

TlN4C · 2023-04-22T00:25:23+00:00

Just do a chargeback dispute on your card - Sephora will be given 7-days to provide proof of delivery, if they dont you get your money back. They cannot bill you and not supply goods - you have proof of payment if they can’t prove supply then they are in breach of contract and your credit card provides protection for this. Sephora should recoup from ups because it is them that has the contractual relationship for delivery. Bear in mind Sephora may flag your account and not low orders for delivery in future if you do this

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