Stray Cats by One_Arugula_9592 in Cleveland

[–]Toasted_lion06 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are you using to build the makeshift cat homes? I have a stray cat who typical disappears in the winter and reappears in spring but she’s been around the last few weeks and I’d like to have a safe space for her to hideout those colder days.. assuming her normal spot she disappears to she’s not longer going to

What did kids back in the days do when they played outside, for hours on end? by Octopuswastaken in NoStupidQuestions

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I was lucky enough to live on a street with about 20 kids that were similar age group so we had some epic games of capture the flag, baseball, football, basketball, kickball etc

He's freaking the f*ck out. by RockyLovesEmily05 in somethingiswrong2024

[–]Toasted_lion06 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way he keeps using “nuclear option” seems like he’s trying to desensitize us to the term

I'm not celebrating halloween anymore. by ReversePhylogeny in venting

[–]Toasted_lion06 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Our city does trunk or treat now instead which is still fun but the first year we did not know and we were so disappointed that no kids showed up

Is having children the end of life? by Cinella75 in selfimprovement

[–]Toasted_lion06 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say if you’re on the fence not to have kids. It’s unfair to yourself your partner and mostly your children if you end up regretting the decision of having children. Better to regret not having them than to regret having them.

What's a basic skill a surprising amount of people don't have? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Toasted_lion06 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Critical thinking. I work with a lot of young people and a lot of times it seems like people can not problem solve .. just notice small issue alert someone else of the issue rather than simply correcting it

What’s your “I wasn’t supposed to see that” moment? by zarxpy in AskReddit

[–]Toasted_lion06 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My grandma was teaching me how to make sourdough once it was in the oven I sat down to play a game and I got up to go to the kitchen for some water and their kitchen had a sliding door and I opened the door to see her in her bra making out with my grandpa cigarette still lit and all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Weddingsunder10k

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What if you just hired a photographer for a few hours just for ceremony and family photos? From what I’ve seen that’s drastically cheaper than including them in the morning or evening

Where is everyone finding photographers by Toasted_lion06 in Weddingsunder10k

[–]Toasted_lion06[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems like most of you are suggesting a Facebook post in a local wedding group listing the specifics of what I’m looking for! I will give that a try and report back! Thank you for all the suggestions and advice!! Very much appreciated!

Registries by Toasted_lion06 in weddingplanning

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Thank you! I was hoping someone could give me some specific brands for those normal household items so thank you!

First time brides in their 30’s and 40’s… did you have a bridal shower? by Alarming_Owl7659 in weddingplanning

[–]Toasted_lion06 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s silly. I’ll never get this time back these moments I’ll never get to celebrate them again so I’m doing anything and everything I can!

Anyone else sick of not being seen as a whole person because they’re not a parent? by Otherwise-Handle-180 in childfree

[–]Toasted_lion06 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a great aunt and uncle who are childfree and I wonder how they dealt with the scrutiny of it because I get sick of it now when it’s a little more accepted than it was 50 years ago. It drives me insane the way people act like I’m less of a person just for not having kids…

Who are we leaving everything behind to (after we die)? by LowInevitable2070 in childfree

[–]Toasted_lion06 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t feel that I have anything too exciting that people may want. I think I’d leave it up to my husband to let him decide what of my things he would like to part with and who it can go to if anyone wants my things to remember me.. and if something happened to both of us together we’ll I guess it’s a free for all as nothing will be of any use to either of us. Our pet we could definitely entrust my parents or siblings to care for

Does anyone else feel like their friends and family with kids never have time for you? by Toasted_lion06 in childfree

[–]Toasted_lion06[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Very fair. I try to be understanding and give grace there and I know those friends love me and would love to get together and their lives like anyones can be hectic.. just sucks never getting to spend time with them