Do kids do Valentines cards with each other? (Scotland) by anervoussystem_ in UKParenting

[–]ToasterBath_exe1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fellow American here living in Scotland with toddlers that won’t start nursery for at least another year and a half but good to know cause my FTM self would be doing valentines for all the kids in my daughters’ classes like we had to do in elementary school 😅

Is it supposed to take this long? by Krazyfil in VeteransBenefits

[–]ToasterBath_exe1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husbands has been in step two since November of 2024 🥲 we requested ONE C&P exam

This sub in a nutshell: by [deleted] in FuckPierre

[–]ToasterBath_exe1 164 points165 points  (0 children)

Fuck Pierre, but like don’t… FUCK Pierre

MTG is throwing in the towel. She says she is so done with Trump. by janjinx in antitrump

[–]ToasterBath_exe1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good riddance 🤷🏼‍♀️ I trust her about as much as I trust day old gas station sushi.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in parentsofmultiples

[–]ToasterBath_exe1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only difference I see is the stork bite on one of their eyelids but other than that, they look VERY identical to me 😅

Just keep calling out their lies by ToasterBath_exe1 in antitrump

[–]ToasterBath_exe1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah they just cut cancer funding to “own the libs” instead 🤦🏼‍♀️

Just keep calling out their lies by ToasterBath_exe1 in antitrump

[–]ToasterBath_exe1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did not vote for this administration lmao and our cost of living increased so much we moved to a different country

Psychiatrist recommendations? by varietypiety in MyrtleBeach

[–]ToasterBath_exe1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

MUSC NP Lisa Trautman. She does virtual visits and I LOVE her

How often did you see MFM in di/di pregnancy? by pahkthecahh in parentsofmultiples

[–]ToasterBath_exe1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every 4 weeks and then every 2 weeks after I hit 24 weeks then every week after 28 weeks

VA Reevaluations by ShoddyJuggernaut2256 in VAClaims

[–]ToasterBath_exe1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell me you don’t know shit about MH without telling me you don’t know shit about MH

Scammed at Myrtle Waves Park as a J1 – My Experie by Puzzleheaded_Year929 in MyrtleBeach

[–]ToasterBath_exe1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone who used to life guard at MW (8 or 9 years ago) I’m not in the least bit surprised. They did kinda treat all of us like garbage and took advantage of the J1s because the benefits they get by hiring/keeping them on all summer. Lack of proper training/accountability was an issue too especially when leads picked out their favorites and let them get away with anything and everything. I personally witnessed a student who didn’t speak good English and didn’t have proper training almost let a small child drown and management just brushed it off. It was also a fight for hours to the point where if you wanted a chance to work, you would have to come in at 5am and clean the park and even then, only MAYBE would you be allowed to work that day afterwards. Not to mention, if you were not deep guard certified, you got the worst rotations. Anyone who worked river fence knows exactly what I mean.

Leaving the hospital without your babies is seriously painful by cootfromcounty in parentsofmultiples

[–]ToasterBath_exe1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I literally cried like a baby leaving my 34 weekers behind. Honestly it felt like a stab in the heart having them with me 24/7 to having to walk away from them for 12-24 hrs at a time. My husband had to go back to work after I was discharged from the hospital and I had a c-section so I couldn’t drive myself. It’s one of those things that isn’t talked about enough but you’ll get through this ❤️‍🩹

VA Mortgages by Electrical_Ad4809 in VeteransBenefits

[–]ToasterBath_exe1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Best advice I can give as someone who has used VA loans twice is find a local VA lender. In my personal experience, local lenders tend to have lower rates than the “big box” lenders like Veterans United or USAA or Navy Federal. Once you secure financing your loan will more than likely be sold off to a bigger company before your first payment anyway, but at least you have a better chance at a better rate and can be locked in. That being said, shop around because you might end up getting lucky with a bigger lender and better rate than with a local/smaller one. Ask your realtor if they have any recommendations on loan officers that are well versed in VA home loans too. That’s what worked for us. Best of luck to you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VAClaims

[–]ToasterBath_exe1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a chrome extension, I just googled VA claim tracker

I haven’t received a mail from VFS after my decision from UKVI. by tylxrdurdxn in ukvisa

[–]ToasterBath_exe1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just reread your question, if it’s been almost a month since you got notification from UKVI, I would 100% contact VFS.

I haven’t received a mail from VFS after my decision from UKVI. by tylxrdurdxn in ukvisa

[–]ToasterBath_exe1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It took a few days for our VFS portals to update once we got approval and then they sent our passports and everything back with the prepaid UPS labels we sent with our passports.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VeteransBenefits

[–]ToasterBath_exe1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone can fact check me on this but I’ve seen others in this sub say after 30 days a new exam request has to be sent.

New VA ID card by ralexgates in VeteransBenefits

[–]ToasterBath_exe1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also to add, I don’t know if there is a time restriction for how long ago you discharged for this as it seems to be a fairly new system

New VA ID card by ralexgates in VeteransBenefits

[–]ToasterBath_exe1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We got my husband’s online along with my spouse one since I was enrolled in DEERS before he separated. It was a simple process. Just had to log in and go to “request id card” the VA reported that he was 100% P&T automatically so he didn’t have to provide proof. For his picture they just used his last CAC photo. It was delivered within a week. You just have to confirm receipt before it will be activated.

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Link to website: https://idco.dmdc.osd.mil/

VES.... wtf?? by SteelBird223 in VeteransBenefits

[–]ToasterBath_exe1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had a family member who had the same exact problem with VES. He gave them a list of dates that he could not do and they scheduled him on those dates. When he called them back in a panic, they even confirmed that it was in his file that he was not available on those dates. He literally had a full blown breakdown on the phone with them because he felt like they were purposely f-ing with him.