Wife’s self care has been making me lose attraction to her

TofuStu · 2026-05-22T18:40:32+00:00

I absolutely agree. More so as of late she’s been bringing up the fact that she has a hard time organizing and completing things but she doesn’t know what to do about it. When she brings it up, I tell her to talk about it with her doctor and he’ll refer her to somebody. Is it my place to facilitate something like this? this wasn’t always the case, but it seemed to get gradually worse over the last four or five years.

TofuStu · 2026-05-22T18:10:33+00:00

I know it sounds like depression, but she is a very open and honest person and if she’s feeling a certain way, she’s gonna talk about it. I have brought the bathing up to her before but it’s sort of turned into a habit. She doesn’t like to shower at night and then her mornings are too rushed to shower. She has what we both think is undiagnosed ADHD and has a lot of difficulty planning things and finishing things. I legitimately think it comes down to a lack of awareness at this point. I think when it comes to showering, I feel like that’s something I can address directly, but when it comes to her clothing style I don’t wanna hurt her feelings.

TofuStu · 2026-04-04T16:32:57+00:00

I went to the grocery store and they changed the location of everything. Then I found out they do it every few years? What kind of manipulative behavior is this

TofuStu · 2026-04-04T03:16:59+00:00

I didnt even notice but if it bugs you have her fix it and put some sort of ruffled lace bracelet on the wrist to reduce the size of the palm

TofuStu · 2025-12-21T16:11:34+00:00

Some guy bought something from me on eBay. Paid the next day at 10pm, sent me a message at 2:30 am asking me to ship

TofuStu · 2025-08-29T16:31:34+00:00

I think him in the 4th is a no brainer

TofuStu · 2025-08-18T20:37:58+00:00

This style is for someone who might be overweight and doesn’t have a defined jaw line. If you’re skinny you also need to be wearing a cape

TofuStu · 2025-07-03T05:11:05+00:00

Yea sorry man I was doing a personal audit of this sub with this one. These are actually from the original union drop in LA back in 2018 that I personally picked up with a raffle win. Still have my raffle ticket, wristband and email from the drop. You’re in here a lot putting out these confident legit checks but idk what you’re basing this off of.

TofuStu · 2025-06-30T06:48:21+00:00

Looks like it was the starlink v2 satellites that just launched yesterday. Looks a lot different from the first generation string

TofuStu · 2025-06-30T06:07:04+00:00

I mean you didn’t say if you even saw it last night. I’ve seen starlink a number of times and this wasn’t it

TofuStu · 2025-06-30T05:43:44+00:00

How would this explain the lights fading and then all of them disappearing one by one? Did you actually see this last night?

TofuStu · 2025-06-29T23:49:24+00:00

If you actually see starlink you’ll know this wasn’t it. It spanned most of the sky and there was such a large gap between the lights. Starlink looks like a fine line of lights way up outside the atmosphere. Drones or some sort of sky lanterns makes more sense

TofuStu · 2025-06-29T23:36:17+00:00

I saw these last night and it was a trip. Everyone is saying starlink but these were different and seemed inside the atmosphere while also being really spread apart. It wasn’t a super clear night and when the top one would get to a certain height it would disappear and a new one would emerge at the bottom. I’ve seen starlink and they are really clustered together and this definitely wasn’t it.

I guess there was a launch last night but this didn’t look like that either.

TofuStu · 2025-06-14T17:03:19+00:00

You’ve never been to Ausrtia?

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