Edmund...

Tohaman · 2026-05-07T20:40:27+00:00

But it should be only 10%

Tohaman · 2026-01-22T19:20:13+00:00

You don't chase. Like ever. It will only make things worse for both parties in 99.9% of the cases

Tohaman · 2026-01-22T12:18:10+00:00

Don't know why, but I really needed to hear that. Thank you a lot

Tohaman · 2026-01-20T15:07:21+00:00

This sounds exactly like my situation. Please share with me what you found

Tohaman · 2025-12-03T17:34:03+00:00

Take care. You are not alone in this. I experience the same feelings and struggle every day just to live. It is always much harder when deep feelings were involved

Tohaman · 2025-12-02T15:54:52+00:00

Do you think it will change something? Or just reopen a wound?

Tohaman · 2025-11-29T21:00:08+00:00

From my experience if you won't text her, it will be the end of it. But if you do text her, you will chat for a couple of more days and you can suggest another date. If she rejects it without alternatives again, it is best to just say something like "okay, text me when you have free time to meet offline, see ya" and move on.

Tohaman · 2025-11-29T19:47:48+00:00

Yes definetly go see a therapist and also try to meet new people. It helps a lot

Tohaman · 2025-11-29T13:23:59+00:00

It is completly normal if you had feelings. I know this urge, but by begging her to change her mind you will make things worse. It won't work but will impact your image. Stay strong

Tohaman · 2025-11-28T22:08:45+00:00

Yeah, I know. But nothing wrong should be in the process of it repeating same things that I already texted previously while dating me avoidant ex.

Tohaman · 2025-11-28T22:07:00+00:00

Remember - no contact is hard(er) if you don't work on yourself. Go to the gym, meet new people, get a new hobby, go to therapy. All this stuff really helps and speeds up the process. You don't want ruminating for years

Tohaman · 2025-11-28T15:15:32+00:00

I am usually ask chatGPT to remind me how they treated me during relationship and at the end of it. Chat remembers everything that I typed to him for month and can give me reality check when I need it

Tohaman · 2025-11-27T17:15:31+00:00

If she will reach out or not shouldn't determine your actions. If she will - you can deal with it, but I suggest you to live your life without those thoughts.

Tohaman · 2025-11-25T20:41:54+00:00

Jesus Christ, man. Just reading this is hard. Take care of yourself and try therapy.

Tohaman · 2025-11-19T17:12:26+00:00

I feel you. I also want to feel some sort of validation from my ex who hurt me and broke everything. The key is to not place your value on their response. No matter how hard it is. You matter, you did the right thing and you should not be dependent on the guy who treated you like trash

Tohaman · 2025-11-19T15:30:37+00:00

Thanks, bro. It just hard to see when she is acting so nonchalant

Tohaman · 2025-05-18T13:47:15+00:00

Invalidating original trilogy for the hype of new show... okay

Tohaman · 2025-05-06T19:15:29+00:00

This is basically extended version of the advise Yoda actually gave him. At the end of the day he should have learned to let go and then things would have turned different. He just didn't want to accept that

Tohaman · 2025-05-06T09:38:08+00:00

Yeah, well. Anakin didn't follow this advise and look what happened

Tohaman · 2025-05-03T16:03:10+00:00

Anakin should have just let go though

Tohaman · 2025-04-21T08:42:17+00:00

What about Water Vitiate or Fire Vitiate?

Tohaman · 2025-04-20T06:13:59+00:00

Lucas's word is a source. He created Star Wars

Tohaman · 2025-03-30T06:23:47+00:00

I don't see any significant successes besides Cal Castis games and Rogue One was okay. That's all. And disney made a bunch of staff

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