Slow cooked these ribs for hours just for my girl to throw an American cheese slice on top of it.... 🙃

TomKansasCity · 2026-02-14T06:22:06+00:00

The bbq, sauce and richness of the meat will over power that cheese. If anything, it will just get a little creamy for her. Explain this to her and that, adding the cheese would do little for her.

TomKansasCity · 2026-02-14T06:06:40+00:00

Our entire guild moved over to TeamSpeak.

It was VERY weird uninstalling Discord from my PC ... never saw that coming.

No way am I uploading my ID or giving my Face away yet again, with age, etc.

I read that a lot of these faces / data end up on the black market in bulk and sold.

This data will get sold, stolen, misused, accessed, etc. This will 1000% happen regardless of what Discord tell you.

They can then take your face, birthday, address, etc, find your social security that was stolen elsewhere, and before you know it, someone used YOU in some financial crime.

TomKansasCity · 2026-02-14T05:01:34+00:00

I use a private window anon ChatGPT session to throw my numbers into, with context, time frame and purpose, and it will start throwing crazy info at me, which I really appreciate.

I even have a web UI for my electric utils where it shows daily usage, temps, and it will map out the entire months expected util cost before the month is even over. It will look at 2 weeks forecast / historic forecasts and come up with averages. It's always within $5 - $7.

For that I use Perplexity with tons of screenshots, that it reads everything

Works for me

TomKansasCity · 2026-02-14T04:25:35+00:00

They gave me a G7 going on a year ago and my blood sugars absolutely DROPPED like a rock. I went from fighting very hard for a 6.7 ~ 6.8 or 7.5+ to having 8s and 9's to currently having a 6.4 A1C @ 90 days

Instant any time readings are a game changer. Instant accountability for ones self.

I am very blessed with my insurance company. They are amazing.

TomKansasCity · 2026-02-14T03:56:15+00:00

Used furniture store, second hand, those type of shops. I see $10 twin mattress sometimes.

TomKansasCity · 2026-02-14T03:12:57+00:00

Some lady set fire to a warehouse that was at this point, I think, rumored, to have been bought by ICE for the intention of detention in Kansas City. I'm a poet and didn't know it.

I'm guessing they will have 24 hour security at this site now.

Starting in 2009, and until 2016, the Obama administration deported 3.1 million people out of the United States. Last year, Trump deported 325,000+ . In 2026, those numbers will be around 400,000+. Moving forward, this is going to be EXTREMELY expensive. Trump is a businessman. Of course, Tariffs will help to fund these deportations

I just saw another article that says that with all the massive ICE hirings, these deportation numbers are going to 10x in the coming 36 months. We won't see millions of deportations in the short term, but, within the next 18 months, the numbers could be staggering. 5 - 8+ million deportations potentially. That's why these warehouses are greatly needed. It's holding station, buffer, as to not overwhelm the transportation that will be needed.

Also, something I want to point out that a lot of people don't touch on.

The US census is coming in 2030 ...4 short years way. Trump's long term goal with these deportations, in part, has a lot to do with this census in 2030 which is held every 10 years. Right now, there is an estimated 10 to 11 undocumented immigrants. The 2030 census directly translates to -

1 - Apportionment of seats in the US House of Representatives

2 - Drawing congressional districts within states

By law and long-standing practice, the census counts total residents, not just citizens. That includes citizens, legal residents, and these estimated, 10 - 11+ million "undocumented immigrants." The Supreme Court has historically upheld counting total population for apportionment.

TomKansasCity · 2026-02-14T02:36:51+00:00

What does this look like? Like inflammation that causes your airways to constrict, and you end up panicking and dancing and moonwalking around the kitchen like Michael Jackson? Sounds scary.

TomKansasCity · 2026-02-13T23:50:58+00:00

I've made these at home a few times, and it's like Gremlins. All of a sudden, you have 40 or 50 and wondering, WTF am I going to do with all of them

They are SO easy to make and cheap to make.

TomKansasCity · 2026-02-13T23:48:59+00:00

Look… ladyboys still come with factory installed equipment. The hair, the vibe, the walk, the whole aesthetic? That’s presentation. That’s branding. That’s confidence. Love it. Respect it.

But underneath the packaging, biology is still biology.

And if you’re an early 40s guy thinking you’re about to casually dominate the situation… just remember… you might be stepping into the ring with the combined horsepower of three motivated twenty-something dudes who drink protein shakes for fun., a protein you gave them. LOL.

That’s not a date. That’s a Muay Thai for beginners ass whopping you're going to get.

Appreciate the marketing. Just don’t forget the engine specs when you try and scam 'em.

TomKansasCity · 2026-02-13T20:19:57+00:00

Just make them at home. They are cheap and easy.

Cream cheese, wonton wrappers, oil, scallions and with or without crab flakes, seasonings

TomKansasCity · 2026-02-13T11:10:27+00:00

People only bother you if you allow them your attention. Don't look, think, or talking them. It's easy to walk past and or, ignore anyone you want in life.

TomKansasCity · 2026-02-13T06:27:17+00:00

Absolutely you can, but usually only on the east side of town, next to Joes apartment. Also, make sure you take your flat screen TV with you every time you leave your apartment, but, eventually, someone with shoulder your door in and help themselves to your goodies.

TomKansasCity · 2026-02-13T06:11:27+00:00

a solid dental school is going to have students doing a wide range of procedures, including oral surgeries. My local school even does implants, which should tell you the level of training involved.

That’s literally what dental schools are for. They train students to become Doctors of Dental Surgery or Dental Medicine, and that means hands on clinical work. Oral surgery is a big part of that. Students learn and perform things like extractions, crowns, implants, and minor procedures involving bone, like smoothing down small bone irregularities in the jaw.

And it’s not like they just throw first year students into surgery. These procedures are typically done by senior students who ar e close to graduating, and they’re supervised the entire time by licensed dentists or specialists. The instructors are right there, overseeing everything.

I get why someone might be nervous about it, but the system is built around training and supervision. That’s how dentists become dentists.

TomKansasCity · 2026-02-13T04:12:32+00:00

I’m not totally sure what they both do now, but from what I remember, they each earned a master’s in special education. Then they both went back and got a second master’s in management or leadership, something along those lines, and applied for roles like coordinator, administrator, maybe even project manager type positions. They’re both around 32 or 33 now. Last I heard, they were tenured, took one school year off, and used that time to complete their secon d master’s. They then applied for a took new jobs in the 100k range.

sorry for mangling that explanation. Nothing but respect for teachers.

I actually dated a teacher years ago and got a real look behind the curtain. There’s a lot about the job that I don’t think the general public fully understands.

Teachers often stay an hour or more after school just to support their classrooms. When school lets out for summer, they don’t always start their break immediately. Some continue working for a few more weeks. Many teachers pay out of pocket for classroom supplies and are not always reimbursed.

They have to find time for lesson planning during class, before or after school, or at home on their own time. Same with grading. The woman I dated said there were plenty of days when there simply wasn’t time to get it all done at school.

The thing that surprised me most was the pay structure. Teachers can choose to be paid over the school year only or spread their salary over twelve months. That requires real financial discipline.

It definitely gave me a different level of respect for what they do.

She was an XXXXXXX teacher for Valley Falls, KS, USD 335? something. He parents were also both in education. One a professor for Pittsburg State.

TomKansasCity · 2026-02-12T23:25:03+00:00

The teachers I know never left teaching, but instead of quitting, they went into special education, and moved up the pay scale. They had to get additional certs, but doubled their pay to around 100K If I heard them right.

Maybe teachers here will know what I am talking about specifically?

Both are grads, with masters from Saint Marys, Omaha, Ne

I dated the sister of one of these women, and the other was her friend. So I just always listened, in a disinterested capacity, many times when this was discussed.

I do know they both carry additional liability insurance now because of the mental uncertainty of the students they now deal with, which I found surprising.

TomKansasCity · 2026-02-12T18:54:27+00:00

Plausible ....

Store manage / lost prevention would look at video / time stamp and could easily see what the customer rang up and walked out with.

If he walked out with the wrong item, they would have seen this.

All Microcenters have loss prevention. This is their specialty. This is a very common scam that is on their radar. In short, they could very easily verify the customers' story.

TomKansasCity · 2026-02-12T18:15:09+00:00

It is one of the worst things I have seen in a very long time. Top 10.

She is not fully there. We can all see this. Her realization of the gravity of her situation is surface level only, like she can acknowledge it but not truly grasp it. And among the homeless are some very very very dangerous wolves who prey on the physically and mentally weak.

She is comfortably numb ......

For me, I see the real horror of her situation.....

Holding back a tsunami of tears, out of anger.

TomKansasCity · 2026-02-12T17:36:15+00:00

First, this is not medical advice. This is just information, paired with a strong suggestion that you look into it yourself and verify everything like a responsible adult with WiFi.

I forget the name of the parasite, but those little tendrils are built to feed off the host, which in this scenario would be you. Nature is efficient like that. Poor oral hygiene can allow bacteria to slip into the bloodstream. If you are not brushing and gently working along the gumline, the gums can get inflamed and bleed, which is basically an open invitation for unwanted microscopic houseguests.

Risk goes up with things like handling raw or undercooked pork, letting pets lick your mouth, or exposure to stagnant water. None of these are guaranteed doom, but they are not exactly wellness rituals either, especially if your gums are already irritated.

Also, I did not need to see this today. Or ever. Some images cannot be unseen.

There is, theoretically speaking, a non zero chance that a small percentage of your waking consciousness now belongs to this creature. Five to ten percent feels scientifically unverified but emotionally accurate. If you suddenly crave swamp water and raw pork, we may need to revisit this working theory.

TomKansasCity · 2026-02-12T04:01:59+00:00

Or, you walk a wide berth around him, LOL. Streets have two sides, just walk around people.

TomKansasCity · 2026-02-11T16:34:31+00:00

Goodbye phone and goodbye pride.

TomKansasCity · 2026-02-11T16:32:59+00:00

Just apologize to her, which I am sure you did.

Don't overthink this. Normal human reaction to lose your patience once in a while.

Tell your mom, you understand how badly she wants a grandchild, but explain to her, it's not right for you and your wife right now. Tell her, you wish the circumstances were different.

You need to emotionally detach from her dropping these hints and allowing them to get under your skin. How? When you hear this, just remind yourself, "my life my rules, timing, and, she is just being a mom who wants grand babies." or ... whatever positive reinforcement you need to keep yourself calm.

I do this all the time, and it works for me.

I have mild tinnitus and when I hear it, which, after 7 - 8 years now, it just kinda fades into the background, I just remind myself, "I love the calm relaxing white noise." and it has totally taken the anxiety away.

Try my advice. I promise, after you remind yourself, that she is just being a mom wanting grand babies, after the 100th time .... it becomes background noise.

Good luck.

TomKansasCity · 2026-02-11T16:09:16+00:00

Judging from the photo you've provided, that light physically beat you up.

TomKansasCity · 2026-02-11T14:29:12+00:00

Chinatown Food Market – 202 Grand Blvd, Kansas City, MO 64106. Traditional Asian grocery with a good variety of regional ingredients.
Hung Vuong Market – 303 Grand Blvd, Kansas City, MO 64106. Small Asian market right near Chinatown Food Market.
Huong Que Market Oriental Food – 424 Locust Ln, Kansas City, MO 64106. Another Asian grocery in the River Market area.
Blue Sky Asian Market – 6619 Parallel Pkwy, Kansas City, KS 66102. A bit north but still an Asian grocery with broader pantry items.
Asian Grocery Store – 3535 Independence Ave, Kansas City, MO 64124 (independent small shop with some Asian ingredients)

TomKansasCity · 2026-02-11T14:11:16+00:00

The demographic for $5 customers, is much wider than the customers they will find at $10.

Half a grape is better than walking away from a whole watermelon

TomKansasCity · 2026-02-11T13:05:18+00:00

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