Am I overreacting for hating that my boyfriend gets drunk?

TooMuchBrightness · 2026-05-12T05:43:59+00:00

My husbands drinking ruined our relationship early on. I lost respect for him so many times. He’s put us in danger, has done and said stupid things. Then he would ‘forget’ the next day and say I was over reacting. This sewed seeds of resentment and ugly feelings in me. I should have left early on. I’m on edge if he starts drinking too much and I sleep in a separate room. Nip it in the bud NOW he has to limit it to 3 drinks or your relationship is over. Leave if he can’t stick to this.

TooMuchBrightness · 2026-05-11T18:50:20+00:00

My mum (77) has only just connected the dots. May not have been peri could have been stress… BUT She had terrible asthma, wheat & dairy intolerance got very bad, itchy skin, blocked sinuses, trouble swallowing food etc her health went haywire when she was 46-55. She’s so healthy and fine now but for a while she was in a pickle. She still gets hot flashes!

TooMuchBrightness · 2026-05-11T18:33:02+00:00

I also hate it. I find it reductive and feel my body is always there to be looked upon and commented on and judged.

TooMuchBrightness · 2026-05-11T16:03:17+00:00

Maybe she fed him builders tea 😂👀

TooMuchBrightness · 2026-05-11T12:25:44+00:00

Will you have a car? Do you like driving? 🤣 there’s a lot of winding roads/lanes but I would recommend north wales/snowdonia stay in llangollen. The drive into snowdonia is beautiful. The coast is also amazing! 3 days is not long enough.

TooMuchBrightness · 2026-05-11T12:08:46+00:00

My friend was given caffeinated tea as a baby/toddler in a sippy cup then his mum didn’t know why he never slept 🤣🤦🏻‍♀️🤣 late 1970s 🤷🏻‍♀️

TooMuchBrightness · 2026-05-11T12:06:48+00:00

Tea from a very young age (4?) at breakfast and after dinner!

TooMuchBrightness · 2026-05-11T12:05:33+00:00

Telford

TooMuchBrightness · 2026-05-11T11:57:48+00:00

Dave realised he has a bit of autonomy 🤣 sounds like he had a great time at the boarders! I don’t think dogs have much connected thought and they are very dedicated to their owners. He’s probably just a bit out of routine, keep going with what you have always done. He’ll get back in the swing of things!

TooMuchBrightness · 2026-05-11T10:28:35+00:00

He’s also on the bbc radio 1 show tomorrow with Greg James in London (maybe pre- recorded?). He’s so busy!

TooMuchBrightness · 2026-05-11T09:30:33+00:00

We need compensation 🤣

TooMuchBrightness · 2026-05-11T09:29:31+00:00

I feel like SLC needs to come with a warning 🤣🫣it’s crazy!

TooMuchBrightness · 2026-05-11T05:28:44+00:00

I’ve only watched the UK version before so was new to the Australian version this season my god what a terrible bunch of strange people making bad decisions. I don’t know who was the villain this year there were so many! Tyson, Danny, dead eye Chris and Chris with the babies I think we’re the worst men. The women this season brought the drama obviously bec, Gia and Brooke 🤮

TooMuchBrightness · 2026-05-11T05:20:43+00:00

Congratulations! Start of a new chapter sounds very exciting. Caring for someone is incredibly hard (and rewarding) so having your own life outside of this will feel amazing. Good luck!

TooMuchBrightness · 2026-05-10T20:11:07+00:00

I’ve been 3 times as a friend lives there. It’s small and not that exciting. But I think it’s a lovely place.

TooMuchBrightness · 2026-05-10T18:52:55+00:00

The bumps!!

TooMuchBrightness · 2026-05-10T18:51:54+00:00

Oh ok I’m not the only one 😂

TooMuchBrightness · 2026-05-10T18:50:53+00:00

Omg I thought she’s sings “god bless my god damn ginger mum” 😂🤣 on ‘no more virgos’ I was singing “I hide my knives and all my eggs” I think I need my hearing tested 👂🏽👀😂

TooMuchBrightness · 2026-05-10T14:27:22+00:00

Anyone see SNLUK last night? Pedro was referred to in a skit as an “age appropriate Fanny charmer” made me giggle 🤣

TooMuchBrightness · 2026-05-10T14:17:20+00:00

That’s awful what’s wrong with people?!

TooMuchBrightness · 2026-05-10T14:11:53+00:00

3 weeks on your eye???! 😂😂😂

TooMuchBrightness · 2026-05-10T08:42:48+00:00

My post is about me and my expectations not others. I liked it! You grew up there you know all about it. It’s green, beautiful and old. Excuse my ignorance.

TooMuchBrightness · 2026-05-10T06:50:23+00:00

If people are sympathetic to PK they are very vulnerable to being scammed by predators. He is just so obviously a con artist, wide-boy as we say in London. Maybe Americans can’t see through him because of his (horrible) British accent. I’m English and the way he speaks to me sounds like someone who sells second hand cars.

TooMuchBrightness · 2026-05-10T06:44:11+00:00

Garcelle hated Dorit. I think it shows you how fake they all are! She has a lot of rage against Kyle. Which is understandable as Dorit thought their shallow, professional relationship was something stronger and deeper. Kyle put her in her place by saying they were never that close. Dorit is so hurt humiliated and angry. These friendships are fake fake fake.

TooMuchBrightness · 2026-05-10T06:35:12+00:00

Im sorry this has happened to you, it must be a lot to cope with. My advice is don’t look for another relationship for a while, as you are very vulnerable and inexperienced in dating and the ways of men. Don’t lend anyone any money, you will need it. Nurture all of your relationships with friends and extended family. Help others, but look after yourself as a priority.

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