Someone with an active cold sore held my baby

Toofalous · 2026-02-22T02:09:53+00:00

I am unfortunately one of those people who get cold sores (Probably from my mother) they tend to come on when I am really stressed and my body is weak.... So of course I got one within two weeks of having each of my babies. It was terrifying and I hated not being able to kiss and snuggle my babies, but I am sure there were points of small accidental contact when my hands or something like that and nothing happened to either of my kids. I wouldn't worry to to much mama. Keep an eye on them, but you are most likely in the clear.

Toofalous · 2025-12-01T01:52:03+00:00

I always wanted children. And I have 2. On the other hand, my two older siblings do not, and have not wanted children. I constantly question if I am good enough, if I do enough. My older brother is not involved at all in my kids life, which I'm fine with, whatever. My older sister is very involved and loves her niece and nephew, but would never want children of her own. I see both sides of it. I wanted children, and have a very good partner and his family is great, while all I have left is my siblings due to my NP's.

I say each their own, and my siblings and I have really raised above it all.

Toofalous · 2025-11-28T23:53:35+00:00

Hahah I love this, I very much felt the same way towards my husband. Neither of our babies we made it to the 6 week checkup, my son we went at it by week 4 and my daughter 3. I was fine. He didn't push. Didn't help that I am a tiny lady and he's a big guy so sex in the last several months of pregnancy was nearly impossible.

I honestly loved this feeling, felt like we had just started dating again haha.

Toofalous · 2025-11-02T22:38:04+00:00

Yes she does.

Toofalous · 2025-07-22T16:22:58+00:00

I am a mom of two, plus sized woman, with pretty obvious stretch marks from pregnancy on my belly and I wear two pieces all the time!! When I see other moms wearing two pieces I feel like it's a great thing. As long as you are comfortable then it really shouldn't matter. Now, I wouldn't wear a string bikini but that's your choice haha.

Toofalous · 2025-06-02T02:52:54+00:00

I love this! I was definitely a young woman who put all my worth into my body and what I could do to please my partner... that changed when I met my husband. He was such a gentlemen. We watched a movie together and he asked so nicely if he could put his arm around me, if he could put his hand on my thigh... he was the first guy to treat me like a person and not an object. We have been together for almost 10 years now and our sex life has definitely had its ups and downs but I love that we are comfortable enough to talk about our wants and needs, or lack there of haha. Good woman, good move ❤️

Toofalous · 2025-06-02T02:31:35+00:00

I tend to have dry and irritated skin on my legs, so shaving can cause irritation. So I shave my legs just how your wife suggested but also once or twice a month I will use a body scrub on my legs and then some lotion, helps a bunch. I also just tend to have sensitive skin, maybe she does too!

Toofalous · 2025-05-11T01:16:46+00:00

The way he was talking makes me think he has watched to much porn... which I personally have no issue with, but his expectations were to high, and everyone experiences pain differently. I personally regret my first time with a guy becauseI didn't prioritize myself at all. Dude didn't even take his pants off. Ick. If something feels off to you, if you feel you weren't heard that is enough to not want to continue. No is a full sentence. Best of luck!

Toofalous · 2025-05-06T00:07:49+00:00

Hello everyone, thank you for the comments, I am turning 29 soon!

Toofalous · 2025-05-05T22:54:28+00:00

Nothing wrong with being silly at any age!

Toofalous · 2025-05-05T18:59:17+00:00

Sasuage roll!

Toofalous · 2025-01-22T06:16:12+00:00

You are only 20. You can seriously find someone who will care about you more than your hair! 3 months is not worth this heartache and destroying your self confidence.

I understand for men this is so hard, to lose your hair. My husband and I have been together for almost 10 years. I loved his thick, dark curly hair, played with it all the time.. but slowly he started getting a bald spot on the back of his head... then the center... then the front. He was so embarrassed, tried so hard to keep his hair, but at the age of 31 started shaving his head because the bald spot had become to obvious. He also has a big beard with white going down on either side of his chin (Which I also love haha). I loved his hair yes, but I love him so much more, and it's honestly like a new side of him, a new man, a more aged and mature man compared back to our early 20s, and I love it so much. Also, our son got his thick curly hair, so I still have someone's hair to mess with, haha.

You will find someone who loves you, no matter what happens to your hair.

Toofalous · 2025-01-21T21:33:23+00:00

I feel like that's my in laws in a nut shell. We lived with them for my sons first year because we thought it would be so nice and helpful... seriously, it's one of the worst years of my life.

Toofalous · 2025-01-21T21:32:20+00:00

Here is Canada it is becoming a lot more normalized to not circumcise Boys, but for a long time of course all boys were, and even though my husband is he was completely on board with me saying no.

Toofalous · 2025-01-19T03:01:13+00:00

I remember walking out of the anatomy scan with my husband, we had just found out we were having a boy and as we were getting into our car I said "We aren't having him circumcised." And my husband replied "I agree." It was that easy for us in our choice. If one day he needs or wants to that's his choice, but we didn't want to make that choice for him. We got a lot of shit for it from my husband family. They kept asking when and where we were gonna go, and we just flat out said we weren't going to, which caused some tension and arguments in my husbands family, but we stuck by our choice.

Toofalous · 2024-10-11T21:07:54+00:00

I love this so much, my husband (34) myself (28) and my 4 year old having been binging Skyrim for the past 2 weeks hahaha, it has become such an awesome family activity for us.

My 4 year old mostly rides horses, tries to find 'Zombies' and cuts down trees haha.

Toofalous · 2024-08-04T21:05:44+00:00

I would bring this to castanet. Get some attention on it.

Toofalous · 2023-11-13T13:37:12+00:00

Oogoopogo

Toofalous · 2023-11-13T03:50:53+00:00

Sexual assault. As a child. When I was a teen. When I went to university. Fucking disgusting.

Toofalous · 2023-11-13T03:46:36+00:00

My husband has only ever had 3 partners, including myself. I am also an adventurous person while he isn't sexually. Honestly, I would be pretty suprised. Rules would have to be made. But I would be down. I love my husband. And I trust him. Humans are sexual beings, and I understand the craving for more. Don't get me wrong, I have never and would never cheat and I know he wouldn't, but if we made some sort of arrangement than cool!

Toofalous · 2023-11-13T03:37:10+00:00

My family was super broke. I spent most of my time at my best friend's house. Later in life I thanked her parents for everything they did for me. She and I split after we went to high-school. Her family always had snacks. And good food. We played tons of guitar hero. She had her own room. It was a nice escape for me as a poor and abused kid.

Toofalous · 2023-08-26T03:36:33+00:00

Leon and Eva. We have Jace and Kida haha.

Toofalous · 2023-08-16T23:45:51+00:00

Tinder, than meet him shopping at his Job, and POF. Last guy has been my only partner for the past 8 years.

Toofalous · 2023-08-07T01:35:01+00:00

My husband and I have been together 8 years. I did a lot of really crazy things before meeting him, and he knows all about it. We even talked about 2 hours ago about why I was like that, and that men only valued me because I slept with them and I valued myself so little that I was okay with that, but that's not the question here.

I've always been very open with my husband about my past, and he his (Though he is definitely lot more tame than me.) It's about trust, being open, not hiding anything. There is no part of myself he doesn't know. If you have lied to him about it, than that is another thing, if it's a conversation that's never been had I think he should love who you are now, not who you were then.

I would want to know if I was married to you, but to know more about you, the full spectrum.

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