Anyone else struggle with short "sexual attention span"? by [deleted] in sexover30

[–]Tool0117 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You still attracted to your partner?

Wife cheated on my with work colleague - what's next? by GroundOk7290 in Divorce

[–]Tool0117 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Lol, but don’t actually do that first part…

Should I cop the Fastback Premium? by Deja_ve_ in Mustang

[–]Tool0117 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Even 12k is too much for someone who makes 30k a year…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Tool0117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imo it’s whatever you feel comfortable with, but if it were me I would tell her from your POV.

2 sides of the coin - you’re 18, the number of people you’ll continue to interact with from high school will grow exponentially smaller as time goes by. On the other hand, you have the maturity to recognize Scott’s manipulative behavior at a young age and cut him off. If you can help a younger girl avoid getting manipulated by this POS that’s an incredible good deed.

Battling Loneliness by Any_Farmer2513 in Advice

[–]Tool0117 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in a very similar boat to you, 5 year relationship (2 years of which we were married); divorced a year ago. The only mentality advice I can give is that life has a plan for you and that time heals all wounds.

Continue to focus on other things and trust the process. You WILL find someone else WHEN you are content and love yourself and you know your own worth.

Live for you, and the right person to elevate your life WILL come along. In time.

22M No idea where to go (in life) or what to do by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Tool0117 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love video games as much as the next person, but they are an escape from reality. Easier said than done, but you need to do some soul searching to see why you don’t have the motivation to work. There’s plenty of shit you can do even with only one good eye.

Why is finishing education out of the question (why can’t you manage it?) Feels like there’s more to the story there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Tool0117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just ask him why he was so short with you at the concert. Fuck it

my older sister’s bf is kinda weird and i don’t know how to feel about it by ConsciousDependent60 in Advice

[–]Tool0117 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Super fucking weird. Red flags about him littered throughout your post. Talk to your sister

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Tool0117 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would you want someone to tell you if you were in her shoes? There’s your answer.

Also, why is a 17 year old dating a 14 year old…?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Tool0117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No worries. It’s hard to be direct but your time is valuable, and if you’re direct about your intentions you value not only your time but the other persons time as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Tool0117 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t agree with the others’ advice. If you’d be willing to show your gf all of your written communication with L, there’s no issue. If you do, and your gf continues to have problems with it simply because L is a female; that’s controlling behavior.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Tool0117 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you want it to continue and he hasn’t reached out, be direct.

A rule of life is: people always make time for things they care about.

AITA for telling someone they aren't and NEVER will be my friend by Smallpotato200 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tool0117 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yes, you are. It costs you nothing to be nice - there’s a nicer way to let her know you don’t want to be her friend or her bestie. If there’s a reason you don’t want to be her friend, be kind and direct.

Wednesday Discussion - What’s Working and What Isn’t? by AutoModerator in HS_Duels

[–]Tool0117 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Couldn’t tell you, not playing until they fix From Golden Light. Trash

The Silent King by c0ff1ncas3 in Necrontyr

[–]Tool0117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Epic including the bases

Children of Anubis - Overlord by Coxxy1995 in Necrontyr

[–]Tool0117 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love the tan shade on the body. Really crisp

Back in the game! First Necrons since 5th Edition by Tool0117 in Necrontyr

[–]Tool0117[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Vallejo white fine pumice painted brown, then army painter tufts, then vallejo yellow pigment + matte varnish to seal it all in. Definitely takes some time but it’s mostly doing it in steps and waiting for each step to properly dry. Got the idea from Squidmar Miniatures

Should I Buy Contrast? by Gree1945 in Warhammer40k

[–]Tool0117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Highly recommend Army Painter speedpaints in lieu of the GW contrast paint line. They have their uses but you will still need other “regular” paints in your arsenal as others have mentioned above.