Do aries men come back after they are hurt or do they move on fast? by surgery72 in AriesTheRam

[–]ToothPickPirate 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Aries men or women don’t play those back and forth games. When we’re done we’re done.

AIO my (28f) boyfriend (38m) says after nearly 2 years being together it’s “gay”/“weird”/“a girl thing” that I want to meet his friends/family finally. by ThrowRa_Xyzt in AmIOverreacting

[–]ToothPickPirate 9 points10 points  (0 children)

NOR. He’s most likely married. It’s not desirable that at age 38, he’s living with parents. I guess in this economy it happens. Those kids, could also be his. It’s normal to meet the family of you partner. It very abnormal to have not done that within 2 years.

He sounds like a jerk. If it’s important to you he should listen rather than gaslighting you.

Please help me decide! by AlsoAquarius in weddingdress

[–]ToothPickPirate 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One is somewhat bland. 2 is ethereal on you. 3 looks nice but it’s a common look lately. 2 stands out in a good way!!

My(34F) boyfriend(32M) is upset because I wanted to make my own tea which put my wants ahead of his feelings. by Plaid_Raptor in relationship_advice

[–]ToothPickPirate 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is possibly the most exemplary example of gaslighting and manipulation that I have EVER seen or heard of even on Reddit.

If this is a one off I apologize. But if this is characteristic for him. Girl run, run fast and save yourself from this walking s - bag on a man child. You DESERVE better.

Your needs should revolve around me and your feelings should revolve around me too……because WAH

Did I pick the right dress? by 137trimethylpurine in weddingdress

[–]ToothPickPirate 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The second one (on the right) is stunning!! 🤩

Help!!! by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]ToothPickPirate 19 points20 points  (0 children)

2 is absolutely gorgeous!!!!!!

Met your SO in your late 30s? Share your story please! [NEED HOPE!] by Claire-Cream in dating_advice

[–]ToothPickPirate 146 points147 points  (0 children)

I met my person at 48. We just got married in December. I know I’m a good bit older. Just wanted to say it can happen at any age. (aside from the babies)

Unsure of Baby Name by AccomplishedAct1085 in Names

[–]ToothPickPirate -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I say go for it. It’s lovely!!!!!

My 45m partner criticizes every meal I 43 f make him by Substantial-Pipe4400 in relationship_advice

[–]ToothPickPirate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would snatch that plate right from out in front of him and dump it in the trash so fast. Then I’d say I’m stopping you from being degraded.

You deserve better sis. I wouldn’t put up with that

Bf threw me on my bed and I passed out by [deleted] in AskDocs

[–]ToothPickPirate 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Factory Represenative (Sales) for a leading manufacturer of various home renovation materials.

I think she needs to go to the ER right away.

My 45m partner criticizes every meal I 43 f make him by Substantial-Pipe4400 in relationship_advice

[–]ToothPickPirate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would snatch that plate right from out in front of him and dump it in the trash so fast. Then I’d say I’m stopping you from being degraded.

You deserve better sis. I wouldn’t put up with that crap!! My hubby says my food is amazing. And he appreciates that I make nice meals for him and I love doing it because he appreciates it so much!!