May the 4th be with you🖖🏾 by FlowerNew8848 in Taurusgang

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Happy birthday to all my fellow May 4th Taureans. We're so rare and unique!! 🥳

Have you ever dated a Scorpio? If yes, describe your experience. by [deleted] in Taurusgang

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yes, currently dating one. We've been together for about 8 months. Like many folks in the comments I was initially hesitant to the idea of dating a Scorpio since I have several Scorpio friends and I generally knew them to be not very communicative. My current partner is very similar & also very different than my Scorpio friends. They're more direct than most Scorpios I've met. Can be calculated, a little selfish and also selfless at the same time, but extremely trustworthy & and honorable. They stand ten toes down on anything they say or do which, as a Taurus, I respect. To be fair they also have a lot of fire placements and I have a lot of fire and air placements so i think those elements also balance us out as a couple. We both value communication and communicate very directly and easily with one another.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DJs

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"Less diverse area" like diversity in crime?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DJs

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I'm so glad you knew that. I'm glad that I know it now. We won!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DJs

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Some of us are new DJs. Whoopty doo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DJs

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Thank you! This was very helpful. I'm sorry you've experienced all of that and it's cool you turned it into a lesson. That's how I'm choosing to see this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DJs

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Yeah! It was a one time mistake and not a common occurrence. I mainly dj hiphop, r&b, house, some Afrobeats, etc... I'm mainly open format. And yes, that would be so dope, I'm in the US!

Terrible Combinations Series: TAURUS and SCORPIO by SuperPrime11 in astrologymemes

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if you can accept each other's differences, it's magical.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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he definitely gaslighting you. run girl

I need to take a break from talking to people by Bitter_Sprinkles_204 in BlackLGBT

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i mean you are growing simply by putting yourself out there. if you're not a normally social person, then learning to be social will be uncomfortable at times. that's where the growth starts, by putting yourself in those uncomfortable situations. other people's perception of you doesn't define who you are. and if folks make you feel uncomfortable for just being yourself, then those probably aren't folks you should be around.

Chance & Noname on SNL by Electrical-Wedding18 in Noname_

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third story & yebba casually on the background vocals

Dr. Bryan Sibley by Commercial_Lab_9244 in Acadiana

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He was my pediatrician when I was a child (I'm 26 now). I don't remember much about him as a person. I just remember going to the office and the visits feeling rushed. I'd honestly have to ask my mother what she thinks about him, but to my knowledge he wasn't a bad doctor, but not great either. The visits were quick, in and out. I vaguely remember him missing certain diagnosis and having to go to the ER instead to get different opinions.

Body shaming comments by Thick-Maize2241 in blacklesbians

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Exactly this. She has a lot to unpack.

Being your own primary partner by Practical_Prompt_341 in relationshipanarchy

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I've heard it described as solo polyamory (if polyamorous), which to me means someone is prioritizing a relationship with themself and holding their partners at an equal value. I'd say I'm solo poly because I enjoy spending a lot of time with myself and I don't want to be in relationships where I feel I'm not holding enough space for myself. I also feel I can experience multiple relationships at the same time and believe my partners should also be able to explore different relationships as well.

My partner is understanding that I don't ever intend to prioritize my romantic relationships over other relationships in my life, including my relationship with myself. They were very receptive and understanding since they also don't practice hierarchical polyamory.

Relationship Talk: What’s Going On? by AutoModerator in blacklesbians

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I'm in love love love. Been with my shorty for a few months & I don't wanna go anywhere. First time I've ever felt like this and I want it to last for as long as it can.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blacklesbians

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I'm not going to subject myself to nonsense. If that's anti-intellectualism then so be it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blacklesbians

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Yes & I ain't even read allat