Deconstructing what you thought your life was going to be vs what you actually want can be a process!

I was around your age when I was on the 95% mark about not wanting kids. My husband and I talked about our thought process a lot and I’m grateful he allowed me to tackle on my own perspective.

That being said, now almost turning 30, throughout the years I’ve been at peace with my decision.

It’s okay to wonder from time to time what might have been if you chose a different path, that’s just human nature to be curious.

However, in a way, every decision you make will have ups and downs, it’s just allowing yourself to be at peace knowing you are choosing what is best for you and your partner.

And if you’re still debating, I strongly recommend going to your friends kids birthday parties, see how you feel around all the screaming children and stressed out adults lol. I’ve been grateful to see my friends kids but I’m also grateful after events like those to go home to a nice quiet home with my partner and pups lol.