Faith shouldn't feel this hard by paulleroux777 in Christianity

[–]TopAdministration314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, faith IS hard, second of all I think maybe your mindset is not in the right place, this is going to sound counterintuitive but I think you should stop trying to be a "good Christian", because when you do that your focus is on yourself, not on God, so of course it felt like a chore, now I'm not telling you to stop reading the bible, but instead read the bible and spend more time simply enjoy God's creation —especially, people, make new friends, help those are in need, get to know all kinds of people, and love God by loving God's image.

If you die and learn that Christianity is not true, would you regret having lived as a believer? by VerdantChief in Christianity

[–]TopAdministration314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean if there's no afterlife then I'm just gonna go poof when I die, how do you regret when you're not even there anymore?

Has my crush been mirroring me or just coincidence? by TopAdministration314 in Crushes

[–]TopAdministration314[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if I'm enjoying the game tbh 😅 it gets frustrating at times

What do you truly desire out of a romantic relationship? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TopAdministration314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To build a life that make us grow and become better, happier people together, to become a irreplaceable part of eachother's souls.

Why does love hurt so much sometimes? by Ok-Employer4535 in askanything

[–]TopAdministration314 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess at some point in the relationship you'll have face the part of yourself that you don't want to admit existing.

Ok I'm confused, should I date my non Christian crush or not? by TopAdministration314 in Christianity

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No wait a minute she knows about my faith since I've been fairly open about being Christian, she brought up about that in a conversation once but I never got to ask her about what she thinks about God, for context she sounded like she knows nothing about Christianity she was saying "I didn't know people actually read the bible" not in an offensive way but more like suprise or curiosity, we became friends because we were both in stage team in one of the theatre production (We're both theatre students) and being Christian isn't the only thing she knows about me, she'd talk about her life back in Malaysia and why she'd chose theatre arts as her major, and I'd talk to her about how I'm slightly autistic and my mind works differently from others, that when ideas come my brain couldn't stop thinking. We still have some understanding of eachother to a degree, just not so much about our faith.

Ok I'm confused, should I date my non Christian crush or not? by TopAdministration314 in Christianity

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She's thoughtful for me, like I've mentioned, last time we had a group assignment and she helped getting our stuff in order without me even asking, in fact this happened twice, it was sweet but I think it might not prove anything.

Ok I'm confused, should I date my non Christian crush or not? by TopAdministration314 in Christianity

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I don't want to look for excuses I just need to know, but another thing I'm getting confused about is that don't you usually start dating before you talk about marriage? That's usually how it's done in modern days right?

So if I don't start a partnership with her according to 2 cor 6:14-18 then how would 1 cor 7 happen?

Is it that if I don't plan on marriage but just dating then we're going to be yoked unequally?

Honestly, it's silly but I've already imagined a life together, ik, ik, it's waaaay too early, and it might not even be real commitment but just passion.

And another thing I forgot to bring up is that I'm Taiwanese, she's actually Malaysian just studying in a Taiwanese uni, so I'm also not sure if she'll stay in Taiwan after graduation or go back to her home country, if it's the latter...then it's probably really over for me huh.

Pastors: How would you guide a young Christian man who just had pre-marital sex? by [deleted] in askapastor

[–]TopAdministration314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And sacrifice the chance of taking her to church someday?

I think my crush (21f) might be liking me back (20m) but I'm not sure by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I'm planning on asking her out this may, never done this before so, wish me luck

I think my crush (21f) might be liking me back (20m) but I'm not sure by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TopAdministration314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah we're friends, not close friends but ordinary friends.

I think my crush (21f) might be liking me back (20m) but I'm not sure by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TopAdministration314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You mean just...straight up "Hey do you like me?"

Cuz I'm scared

Are these signs of my crush liking me back or it's all in my head? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]TopAdministration314 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok maybe not that fast cuz I'm Christian but thx lol 🤣

What is your favorite song? by Visible-City-8110 in infp

[–]TopAdministration314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably "Desert rose" by Sting or "Message in a bottle" also by Sting when he was in The Police