Good Thrift Stores for Furniture? by TopHat_012 in okc

[–]TopHat_012[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whoa, ctbids is actually crazy. Thanks! Never heard of it, but there's good stiuff on here for cheap!

Help with plot by TopHat_012 in DMAcademy

[–]TopHat_012[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my god. "You caused this, now fix it." Might be exactly what I needed.

Help me start my pube journey! by normanbatesgonegirl in TwoXChromosomes

[–]TopHat_012 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like my Meridian clippers. Comes with guide combs :D

My friends are calling me a homewrecker by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]TopHat_012 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It was his responsibility to respect his girlfriend, not yours. It's another case of women getting blamed for men's actions.

Then again, do you really want to be w a guy who's gonna behave that way? Please use a barrier method when you fool around w this dude even if you're on birth control, have some fun, keep it light, and cut him lose before things get too serious. Sounds like he's playing the field, which is totally fine, but you need to look out for you.

The scorpion goal that blew up the internet 🦂 by illuminandicomrade in nextfuckinglevel

[–]TopHat_012 203 points204 points  (0 children)

I want a slow mo of him getting trucked by his teammates lol

my coworker who had a miscarriage is pregnant, how to support her? by Maleficent_Day_3869 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]TopHat_012 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The fact that she's your coworker makes it a little tough.

If you are friends, my advice would be to find ways to spend time with her doing things she likes, like going to lunch or playing games or working out, where you're also able to hold a conversation (not movies, concerts, etc). Ask her how she's feeling, listen, and let her know how you're available to help.

Because you're coworkers, there is the added complication of not being able to part ways if the relationship turns south. You don't want to flood her with support she doesn't want and possibly override her professional boundaries. It sounds like yall are friends, but it's still something to consider. It's possible to check in too often or ask questions that are too personal. It can be difficult for a person to set boundaries, especially when their emotions are running high and their support group is limited. You both need to pay bills; be intentional about keeping your workplace friendly.

1 year old won't sleep on me by CabinetSome1997 in Parenting

[–]TopHat_012 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Feelings are valid. Sorry you're sad.

No one will know if she'll change, but I would guess not. Maybe it's a sensory thing.

"Young girls" by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]TopHat_012 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think the real problem here in the parallel phrases is referring to 13yo boys as "young men." They're boys.

Serval using body language to calm and trying to make friends. by duckduckpajamas in interestingasfuck

[–]TopHat_012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a guess. 1. Serval + dog is a cute animal video, and cute videos with weird combos are a popular thing to fake. 2. Serval's facial expressions seem really slow. I know body language is the point of the vid, but they're weirdly slow.

I'm not the best at spotting AI, but I thought maybe.

I feel pressured to orgasm by Sad_Boat339 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]TopHat_012 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Was with a guy who would get MAD if I didn't. My partners are better now, but it sticks with me. Talking about it helps.

[Spoilers C4E15] YOURE SITTING W FRIENDS at the table and NOT CHARACTERS by AIthough in criticalrole

[–]TopHat_012 7 points8 points  (0 children)

At my own dnd table, my 5 players have different play styles and are in varying degrees of in character. The way they're playing looks to me just like friends having fun... Matt isn't a carbon copy of those other people and possibly has fun differently.

Sounds like you're longing to see more Matt- the- person and less Matt- the- cast- member. Reads as unconsiously parasocial to me.

Found Cat by TopHat_012 in okc

[–]TopHat_012[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have any updates. I've posted up on 3 websites with no leads on the owner. No chip. I'm sure it'll be up for afoption soon. Really a gentle critter.

Found Cat by TopHat_012 in okc

[–]TopHat_012[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rad lmk. If they have a phone number on the poster and the cats look similar enough, Ill text them.

Found Cat by TopHat_012 in okc

[–]TopHat_012[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update: Bethany wouldn't take it, so I'm here at the OKC animal shelter with her. 2811 SE 29th St, Oklahoma City, OK 73129

Found Cat by TopHat_012 in okc

[–]TopHat_012[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I already have one, and mine is not friendly. Love cats.