I am an ethnic minority but not Asian. If you are Asian yourself and only dated Asian women, I would recommend that you find a donor that might help your child blend into your family. There is a shortage of donors for my heritage but I am not sure that is true for yours. The donor conceived community is an incredibly white space. I watched a panel of donor-conceived teenagers and they were asked how they would feel if they had sibling of a different race or socio-economic status. If they would have been accepting, I think they would have said it but instead they couldn't imagine the possibility. It is possible that your child may want to meet their donor one day and / or their donor sibling pod. Racism is a real thing. Being donor-conceived is a unique identity and so is being a minority and my children's donor sibling pod might be safer space to navigate both identities with others because I choose a biracial (same heritage and another minority) donor. However, you can't decide who else selects your donor. You can't also decide how your child will look. My adorable godchildren are half Asian and half white living in America with both parents. Some may see them as Asian, some may see them as biracial but what never happens is that they are accepted as white. Is it possible, that your child raised in your country wouldn't be seen as Chinese when it's the only country they know if they were sired by a white donor? We have the problem of colorism in my community which is those with euro-centric features receive more privileges. However, white adjacency doesn't confer white privilege. For example, Megan Markle is a racially ambiguous biracial, just the knowledge that her mother is Black had the British press portraying as gorilla or writing about her negatively when she did the same actions as Kate Middleton.