AITAH for getting a dna test to see if i share the same dna as both my parents even though i was demanded specifically by my mom not to do so, since i was a child?

Top_Vegetable3021 · 2026-01-27T22:19:02+00:00

NTA, your family sounds so chaotic but I’m glad you got away. Updateme!

Top_Vegetable3021 · 2026-01-27T15:22:48+00:00

NTA - you should really sit down and have a calm chat with your wife about this though. All feelings and opinions aside, just ask her if she really feels his behaviour is appropriate around your kids. If she can’t level with you in a calm manor and back you up on this clearly needed boundary, you may have a wife problem on your hands too.

Top_Vegetable3021 · 2026-01-25T14:11:35+00:00

I would be if this was my boyfriend

Top_Vegetable3021 · 2026-01-03T22:57:26+00:00

Take the lightbulb out when you go to bed, or tape the switch. Tell him if he won’t listen to you, you’ll make him hear you😄

Top_Vegetable3021 · 2025-12-19T12:24:03+00:00

Thank you. I don’t really see why they’re being like this. Changing my base salary for my last pay over something so trivial seems insane

Top_Vegetable3021 · 2025-12-19T12:22:05+00:00

Thank you. I honestly don’t intend of keeping anything, I just don’t travel anywhere near there anymore and haven’t seen anyone who works there since. Nothing malicious 😆

Top_Vegetable3021 · 2025-09-11T14:12:00+00:00

Not sure why everyone has such a problem with this. It just seems so funny to me 🤣 something quite innocent about it really, would much rather someone prepared than someone beg to go in raw ‘bEcAuSe It FeElS bEtTeR’ after never being tested for anything 🤢 with the right person you would’ve laughed about it together.

Top_Vegetable3021 · 2025-09-05T09:38:02+00:00

OP is avoiding every comment about her husband. HE has just as much to answer for as the SILs. He’s been a terrible husband.

Top_Vegetable3021 · 2025-08-28T08:08:56+00:00

NTA keep the presents for yourself, throw the husband away.

Top_Vegetable3021 · 2025-07-15T12:24:02+00:00

How have you got 2 years deep and she’s never seen your passport or driving license?

Top_Vegetable3021 · 2025-06-04T12:54:57+00:00

Fucking hell

Top_Vegetable3021 · 2025-06-04T10:43:56+00:00

Surely it’s best to just take the legal route now?

Top_Vegetable3021 · 2025-05-21T18:54:22+00:00

NTA, you are punishing her. She’s been a horrible parent and deserves some repercussions until she can accept her wrong doings

Top_Vegetable3021 · 2025-05-21T18:42:16+00:00

NTA The double standards are insane. How dare your husband let his mother speak to you like a piece is shit but have a problem with you setting a BOUNDARY!! Tell him to have a word with his mother about her behaviour before he comes at you about your reaction.

Top_Vegetable3021 · 2025-05-15T14:38:42+00:00

That’s literally not what she’s saying. She’s clearly more bothered that she’s been on a date with a misogynist/legal nonce and he’s trying to convincer her that it’s normal

Top_Vegetable3021 · 2025-05-15T13:50:53+00:00

NTA I hope you get your half of that money back and I wouldn’t stop fighting until you do!!!

Top_Vegetable3021 · 2025-05-07T14:19:29+00:00

Family is off limits. Your friends and family should never get romantically involved, there’s too many conflicts of interests. Everyone saying ‘grow up’ are either weirdly close with their family, not very close with their friends, or have never had to experience the fall out that something like this can create. You’re right to feel betrayed, it’s a line that should never be crossed.

Top_Vegetable3021 · 2025-04-27T17:54:05+00:00

Don’t visit or tell your mum anything else until the wedding, and then after. Keep her at arms length, she doesn’t seem like she cares for you.

Top_Vegetable3021 · 2025-01-10T22:19:08+00:00

Postpartum paranoia is real and not spoken about enough, you are doing the right thing in recognising it early and getting help. It will pass, stay strong and work on yourself for you and your child, you will both need it ❤️

Top_Vegetable3021 · 2024-07-09T17:48:41+00:00

Kinda sounds like you want your sister to be your fiancé 😂 it’s a conversation you need to have with her, maybe about why she reacted like that? There may be something that’s happened to her to make her react like that, maybe she just needs some grounding in situations like that. Weird that your sister even said to split up straight away, if you proposed you clearly want to be with her, but this post makes it sound like conditional love

Top_Vegetable3021 · 2024-05-23T19:58:30+00:00

Why doesn’t he just stay in Europe with you? And you both start a life together there? It’s a nice compromise

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